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Aug 28, 2009 4:48 PM CST Just curious.
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
petalbabe: Is this where all the nice people hang???


Are you still enjoying NY? Haven't seen you on for a while. wave
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Aug 28, 2009 4:50 PM CST Just curious.
Shirley49WV
Shirley49WVShirley49WVMason, West Virginia USA27 Threads 2,449 Posts
Compassion for me is not caring who is right or wrong. But taking the time to listen.
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Aug 28, 2009 4:52 PM CST Just curious.
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Arlene101: I seriously think you should write one. I mean that from the bottom of my heart and foot. I sure as hell would buy it and make all my friend buy it also.


I AM writing one....uh oh

It has been on hold for a year, I simply get to frustrated with mom.frustrated

I guess I need to read the bottom of page 87 a little more often..help
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Aug 28, 2009 4:52 PM CST Just curious.
somechick: I was raised to treat people with respect and not to knock another human being down when they're already down to begin with.
Caring, but really, more than that. Unconditional caring, and, somehow lessening the stress for the person needing the understanding. Caring enough to overlook any negatives because the current situation for that person is so bad. This is kind of a deep one. The definitions can go on and on and be different for different situations and people. Here's a thought on what could be regarded as "compassion". A woman is having a terrible time at home with a chilly marriage, troubled kids, etc...She has to work, and it's a good job. She is late for work several times a week and into the second week. It is not the type of job one can or should be late for. There is a firm policy on tardiness; others have been terminated for it. Her boss is completely within reason to let her go. He does not. I see this as an example of 'compassion'. Certainly not definitive of the term, however.
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Aug 28, 2009 4:52 PM CST Just curious.
namcazam
namcazamnamcazamPiermont, New Hampshire USA2 Threads 241 Posts
Shirley49WV: Compassion for me is not caring who is right or wrong. But taking the time to listen.


Good point thumbs up
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Aug 28, 2009 4:54 PM CST Just curious.
namcazam
namcazamnamcazamPiermont, New Hampshire USA2 Threads 241 Posts
rohaan: Caring, but really, more than that. Unconditional caring, and, somehow lessening the stress for the person needing the understanding. Caring enough to overlook any negatives because the current situation for that person is so bad. This is kind of a deep one. The definitions can go on and on and be different for different situations and people. Here's a thought on what could be regarded as "compassion". A woman is having a terrible time at home with a chilly marriage, troubled kids, etc...She has to work, and it's a good job. She is late for work several times a week and into the second week. It is not the type of job one can or should be late for. There is a firm policy on tardiness; others have been terminated for it. Her boss is completely within reason to let her go. He does not. I see this as an example of 'compassion'. Certainly not definitive of the term, however.


I have to agree.
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Aug 28, 2009 5:00 PM CST Just curious.
namcazam: Good point



If we all learned to listen to one another.The world would be alot better place.thumbs up
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Aug 28, 2009 5:06 PM CST Just curious.
WhovianGeneva
WhovianGenevaWhovianGenevaGeneva, Switzerland28 Threads 1 Polls 466 Posts
Compassion ? not sure about the definition, but Christ was Compassion...
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Aug 28, 2009 5:33 PM CST Just curious.
WhovianGeneva: Compassion ? not sure about the definition, but Christ was Compassion...
You bet. Thanks for saying this.
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Aug 28, 2009 5:34 PM CST Just curious.
namcazam
namcazamnamcazamPiermont, New Hampshire USA2 Threads 241 Posts
somechick: If we all learned to listen to one another.The world would be alot better place.


Amen to that. To truly listen to someone else without throwing our opinions and attitudes towards them while they are trying to tell us how they fell. I believe we gain a better insight into that persons feelings as well as our own.

I have posted this in other threads and I will say it again. I believe we learn about ourselves through other people. Unfortunately some people never really stop to actually listen to the gift they are given. When someone tells me something personal I see that as a gift. They trust me enough to know I will keep it to myself. And within my self it will stay.

Oh crap! I went off again sorry about that.laugh
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Aug 28, 2009 5:47 PM CST Just curious.
namcazam: Amen to that. To truly listen to someone else without throwing our opinions and attitudes towards them while they are trying to tell us how they fell. I believe we gain a better insight into that persons feelings as well as our own.

I have posted this in other threads and I will say it again. I believe we learn about ourselves through other people. Unfortunately some people never really stop to actually listen to the gift they are given. When someone tells me something personal I see that as a gift. They trust me enough to know I will keep it to myself. And within my self it will stay.

Oh crap! I went off again sorry about that.



No need to apologzie.Sometimes it best to get what you've got to say off your chest.I always feel better when I do.laugh
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Aug 28, 2009 6:11 PM CST Just curious.
namcazam
namcazamnamcazamPiermont, New Hampshire USA2 Threads 241 Posts
somechick: No need to apologzie.Sometimes it best to get what you've got to say off your chest.I always feel better when I do.


Thats a pretty loaded statment SC because I have a whole lot on my mindlaugh

Thank you SC, I do feel better after talking about these things.handshake
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Aug 28, 2009 6:29 PM CST Just curious.
namcazam: Thats a pretty loaded statment SC because I have a whole lot on my mind

Thank you SC, I do feel better after talking about these things.



You're welcome.


It does alot more harm to just hold it all in.
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Aug 28, 2009 6:43 PM CST Just curious.
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
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Aug 28, 2009 6:59 PM CST Just curious.
namcazam
namcazamnamcazamPiermont, New Hampshire USA2 Threads 241 Posts
You're welcome.It does alot more harm to just hold it all in.[/quote]

You are right. I am very happy to have met you.handshake

I tend to be more implosive than explosive.
I have learned allot about myself from this thread and others we have shared.

If I may be so bold. May I call you my friend?dunno
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Aug 29, 2009 8:52 AM CST Just curious.
gangel
gangelgangelPlovdiv, Bulgaria, Hampshire, England UK52 Threads 16 Polls 5,028 Posts
somechick: Can anyone tell me what the word Compassion means?


Compassion is simply a desire to help a person in distress.And it is primarily aimed at ourselves - our humanity, our understanding and place in society.
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Aug 29, 2009 8:53 AM CST Just curious.
kekei
kekeikekeikingston, Kingston Jamaica62 Threads 1 Polls 588 Posts
somechick: Can anyone tell me what the word Compassion means?


When he cheats on you, you can put yourself into his shoe and feel his pain, then forgive him and ofcourse, take him backrolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 29, 2009 2:24 PM CST Just curious.
namcazam
namcazamnamcazamPiermont, New Hampshire USA2 Threads 241 Posts
WhovianGeneva: Compassion ? not sure about the definition, but Christ was Compassion...


According to whom?confused
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Aug 29, 2009 2:49 PM CST Just curious.
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Conrad73: He couldn't know,'cause the Prayer wasn't written by him!http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prayer_of_Saint_Francishttp://aynrandlexicon.com/lexicon/compassion.html

Check the other Links on the Lexicon-Page too!


I wonder, is the the prayer "FOR" St. Francis or the prayer "OF" St Francis??confused
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Aug 29, 2009 2:51 PM CST Just curious.
HJFinAZ: I wonder, is the the prayer "FOR" St. Francis or the prayer "OF" St Francis??
Now that's the question.grin
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