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Aug 28, 2009 12:31 PM CST Just curious.
giftmagic
giftmagicgiftmagicadelaide, South Australia Australia25 Threads 690 Posts
Boban1: well its made from the word compass thats a device which some of us use ,not to get lost

using this device is called compassion..looking where the hell we are....


twaddle, that's 'encompassing'! cool
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Aug 28, 2009 12:32 PM CST Just curious.
LoveableOne
LoveableOneLoveableOneMelbourne, Victoria Australia67 Threads 4,079 Posts
A compass has compassion!
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Aug 28, 2009 12:34 PM CST Just curious.
LoveableOne: A compass has compassion!


I suppose anything's possible.laugh
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Aug 28, 2009 12:46 PM CST Just curious.
mtngypsy828
mtngypsy828mtngypsy828Sylva, North Carolina USA6 Threads 283 Posts
There's a St.Francis prayer that describes compassion to me. I can't remember the whole thing, but some of the lines from it are:

To listen, that we might be heard
To understand, that we might be understood
To love, that we might be loved.

It says two things to me; that I must have the tools to know what the other person is going through (I can't give what I don't have), and that I must use them. Compassion is about treating others as you would be treated and forgiving others as you would have them forgive you.
JMO
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Aug 28, 2009 12:48 PM CST Just curious.
cameraman
cameramancameramanSt. Petersburg, Florida USA29 Threads 19 Polls 2,501 Posts
somechick: My point exactly. There's a saying that fits your post to a T.

Walking a mile in someone elses shoes.


Sooo true. conversing But sometimes we have to be aware that some may just be naturally depressed and just need an ear to listen and a shoulder to lean on. Patience is then called for without judgment.
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Aug 28, 2009 12:49 PM CST Just curious.
cameraman
cameramancameramanSt. Petersburg, Florida USA29 Threads 19 Polls 2,501 Posts
Ziva1: well said...


Thank's beer
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Aug 28, 2009 12:50 PM CST Just curious.
mtngypsy828: There's a St.Francis prayer that describes compassion to me. I can't remember the whole thing, but some of the lines from it are:

To listen, that we might be heard
To understand, that we might be understood
To love, that we might be loved.

It says two things to me; that I must have the tools to know what the other person is going through (I can't give what I don't have), and that I must use them. Compassion is about treating others as you would be treated and forgiving others as you would have them forgive you.
JMO



I agree. I've always tried as I was taught growing up to always treat people the very same way I would wish to be treated in return.


I also believe in Karma.What goes around comes around.And for some it comes around/back awhole lot sooner.
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Aug 28, 2009 12:51 PM CST Just curious.
cameraman: Sooo true. But sometimes we have to be aware that some may just be naturally depressed and just need an ear to listen and a shoulder to lean on. Patience is then called for without judgment.



Dittothumbs up
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Aug 28, 2009 12:53 PM CST Just curious.
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
somechick: Can anyone tell me what the word Compassion means?


It jmeans, when some are very miserable and hurting, you shoot them and put them out of their misery..professor

grin
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Aug 28, 2009 12:55 PM CST Just curious.
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Compassion is: getting a phonecall from a female buddy, and listening to her story of tears and tribulations in silence, and not interrupt her by trying to 'fix' it...when will I ever learn this??!!..doh
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Aug 28, 2009 1:01 PM CST Just curious.
Lagoona22: Compassion is: getting a phonecall from a female buddy, and listening to her story of tears and tribulations in silence, and not interrupt her by trying to 'fix' it...when will I ever learn this??!!..
Don't fret, it's what we do, we fix things.
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Aug 28, 2009 1:06 PM CST Just curious.
HJFinAZ: It jmeans, when some are very miserable and hurting, you shoot them and put them out of their misery..



Pat I don't think so.laugh
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Aug 28, 2009 2:33 PM CST Just curious.
snuggs99
snuggs99snuggs99Dover, New Jersey USA8 Threads 329 Posts
HJFinAZ: It jmeans, when some are very miserable and hurting, you shoot them and put them out of their misery..


Pat has a point to some degree. When people are suffering from an illness that puts them in terrible pain and there is no chance of them ever healing, I think it would be compassionate to call Dr. Kovorkian.
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Aug 28, 2009 2:42 PM CST Just curious.
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
somechick: Compassion like most things is just a feeling.


Oh Dear! JUST a feeling....minimise your feelings at your peril! The worst people in history have been driven by repressed feelings!
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Aug 28, 2009 2:45 PM CST Just curious.
Godsgift: Oh Dear! JUST a feeling....minimise your feelings at your peril! The worst people in history have been driven by repressed feelings!


I'm not going to turn this into a relisious thread nor am I going to debate with you about this.Moving on.handshake
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Aug 28, 2009 2:49 PM CST Just curious.
Godsgift
GodsgiftGodsgiftEnnis, Clare Ireland251 Threads 13 Polls 10,040 Posts
somechick: I'm not going to turn this into a relisious thread nor am I going to debate with you about this.Moving on.
Ah yer grand!handshake
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Aug 28, 2009 4:07 PM CST Just curious.
namcazam
namcazamnamcazamPiermont, New Hampshire USA2 Threads 241 Posts
somechick: Can anyone tell me what the word Compassion means?


To me compassion means the willingness to put yourself in someone else’s shoes, Being a shoulder to cry on.comfort Giving someone your undivided attention to truly understand what they are feeling.
For instance, In my past relationships when I was having a down day and just needed to talk, It was always "Go to the doctor" or "Snap out of it". Which isn't helpful at all. Sometimes all you need is someone to listen.hug
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Aug 28, 2009 4:10 PM CST Just curious.
namcazam: To me compassion means the willingness to put yourself in someone else’s shoes, Being a shoulder to cry on. Giving someone your undivided attention to truly understand what they are feeling.
For instance, In my past relationships when I was having a down day and just needed to talk, It was always "Go to the doctor" or "Snap out of it". Which isn't helpful at all. Sometimes all you need is someone to listen.



Well here's a hug. From someone who understands:hug
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Aug 28, 2009 4:13 PM CST Just curious.
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
somechick: I was raised to treat people with respect and not to knock another human being down when they're already down to begin with.
thumbs up That is compassion as I see it because if we din't walk in that persons shoes, we just might someday.wave hug
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Aug 28, 2009 4:17 PM CST Just curious.
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
snuggs99: Pat has a point to some degree. When people are suffering from an illness that puts them in terrible pain and there is no chance of them ever healing, I think it would be compassionate to call Dr. Kovorkian.


It is a MENTAL illness, it is called stupidity..grin
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