I couldn't stand him...now I want him back! (130)
he have a big reason why he left u,u didnt know or ask why?anyway just make your own way because its impossible your relation will work again if one of u doesnt feel the same feeling..let him free and try to find another one or just focus your mind in other things that u can forget him...the right one will come to u..just keep hoping..
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We as human's just can't deal with rejection sometime's.
Sometime's we think we're heartbroken when the truth is we just don't like the feeling of being rejected.JMO
Sometime's we think we're heartbroken when the truth is we just don't like the feeling of being rejected.JMO
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MizChar: I was in a relationship with Rick for 2 years. We lived together for 1 yr. The last 6 months he irritated the hell out of me and I couldn't stand him. I was really, really mean to him. I faulted everything he did, yelled at him, was snotty and rude. He finally had enough and moved away.I waas fine with it, and rarely thought about him. He came back last weekend to play a gig with his old band and stayed with me.Things were just like when we first started dating. We had so much fun together. I was sweet and loveable BUT, he said that he was over it and has moved on and he wants me to do the same. He said that he still loves me, but isn't IN love with me. I told him I'd be willing to make some changes within myself and wanted to give things another shot. He said it wasn't happening.
Now, I'm totally obsessed with thoughts of him and it's making me crazy!! I feel like I'm losing my mind! Why is it that we always want what we can't have?? I don't handle rejection very well and am having a hard time with it.
I know for me, if I was interested in someone else, it would take my thoughts off of Rick and I've seriously been looking. I put an ad on Craigslist and I think every ugly guy in the county answered.No luck there.I've been in contact with a couple of guys from online, but it seems like everyone is playing some kind of game here and isn't interested in a real relationship.
Sad and lonely...
MizChar
I think you blew it. You killed the love he had for you. You should let it go, find another guy and be nice to him.Now, I'm totally obsessed with thoughts of him and it's making me crazy!! I feel like I'm losing my mind! Why is it that we always want what we can't have?? I don't handle rejection very well and am having a hard time with it.
I know for me, if I was interested in someone else, it would take my thoughts off of Rick and I've seriously been looking. I put an ad on Craigslist and I think every ugly guy in the county answered.No luck there.I've been in contact with a couple of guys from online, but it seems like everyone is playing some kind of game here and isn't interested in a real relationship.
Sad and lonely...
MizChar
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Honey we always want what we cant have...its human nature...Move on and learn from your mistakes...
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In response to: I was in a relationship with Rick for 2 years. We lived together for 1 yr. The last 6 months he irritated the hell out of me and I couldn't stand him. I was really, really mean to him. I faulted everything he did, yelled at him, was snotty and rude. He finally had enough and moved away.I waas fine with it, and rarely thought about him. He came back last weekend to play a gig with his old band and stayed with me.Things were just like when we first started dating. We had so much fun together. I was sweet and loveable BUT, he said that he was over it and has moved on and he wants me to do the same. He said that he still loves me, but isn't IN love with me. I told him I'd be willing to make some changes within myself and wanted to give things another shot. He said it wasn't happening.
Now, I'm totally obsessed with thoughts of him and it's making me crazy!! I feel like I'm losing my mind! Why is it that we always want what we can't have?? I don't handle rejection very well and am having a hard time with it.
I know for me, if I was interested in someone else, it would take my thoughts off of Rick and I've seriously been looking. I put an ad on Craigslist and I think every ugly guy in the county answered.No luck there.I've been in contact with a couple of guys from online, but it seems like everyone is playing some kind of game here and isn't interested in a real relationship.
Sad and lonely...
MizChar
Now, I'm totally obsessed with thoughts of him and it's making me crazy!! I feel like I'm losing my mind! Why is it that we always want what we can't have?? I don't handle rejection very well and am having a hard time with it.
I know for me, if I was interested in someone else, it would take my thoughts off of Rick and I've seriously been looking. I put an ad on Craigslist and I think every ugly guy in the county answered.No luck there.I've been in contact with a couple of guys from online, but it seems like everyone is playing some kind of game here and isn't interested in a real relationship.
Sad and lonely...
MizChar
Why would you want someone back who you can't stand?
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MizChar: I was in a relationship with Rick for 2 years. We lived together for 1 yr. The last 6 months he irritated the hell out of me and I couldn't stand him. I was really, really mean to him. I faulted everything he did, yelled at him, was snotty and rude. He finally had enough and moved away.I waas fine with it, and rarely thought about him. He came back last weekend to play a gig with his old band and stayed with me.Things were just like when we first started dating. We had so much fun together. I was sweet and loveable BUT, he said that he was over it and has moved on and he wants me to do the same. He said that he still loves me, but isn't IN love with me. I told him I'd be willing to make some changes within myself and wanted to give things another shot. He said it wasn't happening.
Now, I'm totally obsessed with thoughts of him and it's making me crazy!! I feel like I'm losing my mind! Why is it that we always want what we can't have?? I don't handle rejection very well and am having a hard time with it.
I know for me, if I was interested in someone else, it would take my thoughts off of Rick and I've seriously been looking. I put an ad on Craigslist and I think every ugly guy in the county answered.No luck there.I've been in contact with a couple of guys from online, but it seems like everyone is playing some kind of game here and isn't interested in a real relationship.
Sad and lonely...
MizChar
Now, I'm totally obsessed with thoughts of him and it's making me crazy!! I feel like I'm losing my mind! Why is it that we always want what we can't have?? I don't handle rejection very well and am having a hard time with it.
I know for me, if I was interested in someone else, it would take my thoughts off of Rick and I've seriously been looking. I put an ad on Craigslist and I think every ugly guy in the county answered.No luck there.I've been in contact with a couple of guys from online, but it seems like everyone is playing some kind of game here and isn't interested in a real relationship.
Sad and lonely...
MizChar
If that's your idea of a real relationship, god help the next man. I think he did the right thing.
Good Luck in the future.
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perhaps you do have personal issues , if you do you would be wise to work on them so your next relationship doesn't end the same way . Wish you luck 
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It is Just Human nature!!!!When you thought it was you running the show you were fine with it. It is human nature to want what we can't have then after we get it we can't or don't apprechiate it. After time things would be back to what it was before he left . I'm just trying to help I am not trying to be mean. One thing with life is we learn from every experience. we should all way's try to treat people right. be upfront and say I don't want you here then when they come back they realize you just wanted some time , Not that you were mean and hurting . Best of Luck
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MEDTECH662: We as human's just can't deal with rejection sometime's.
Sometime's we think we're heartbroken when the truth is we just don't like the feeling of being rejected.JMO
Sometime's we think we're heartbroken when the truth is we just don't like the feeling of being rejected.JMO
I think that this is really the case.
Cry more then move on.
We must learn that people aren't our property. Yeah, we know that but...
Let him go.
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MizChar: you're probably right Cowboy. But, I'm a fast learner and I've learned by this big mistake. It's just so hard to forget our "good" history and move on. Thanks for the input
Didn't sound like it was so good for him....
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if he has moved on and isnt in love with you here is your answer
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Dawn7z: if he has moved on and isnt in love with you here is your answer
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MizChar: you're probably right Cowboy. But, I'm a fast learner and I've learned by this big mistake. It's just so hard to forget our "good" history and move on. Thanks for the input
We all mess up, but you say you have learnt from it, so see that as a positive. Wish you luck
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"See Rick Run".................
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sometimes we women think we can fix men or change ourselves i am sorry you are lonely but you need to figure some things out about how to be happy with you first and what wont annoy you after all in any type of relationship our shadow sides will reveal itself
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At first I was afraid I was petrified
Kept thinkin' I could never live without you by my side;
But then I spent so many nights
Thinkin' how you did me wrong
And I grew strong
And so you're back from outer space
I just walked in to find you here with that sad look upon your face
I should have changed that stupid lock
I should have made you leave your key
If I'd've known for just one second you'd back to bother me
Go on now, go walk out the door
Just turn around now
('cause) you're not welcome anymore
Weren't you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
Did I crumble
Did you think I'd lay down and die?
Oh no, not.I. I will survive
Oh as long as I know how to love I know I'll stay alive;
I've got all my life to live,
I've got all my love to give and I'll survive,
I will survive. Hey hey.
It took all the strength I had not to fall apart
Kept trying' hard to mend the pieces of my broken heart,
And I spent oh so many nights
Just feeling sorry for myself. I used to cry
But now I hold my head up high
And you see me somebody new
I'm not that chained up little person still in love with you,
And so you feel like droppin' in
And just expect me to be free,
Now I'm savin' all my lovin' for someone who's lovin' me
Go on now.. etc.
Kept thinkin' I could never live without you by my side;
But then I spent so many nights
Thinkin' how you did me wrong
And I grew strong
And so you're back from outer space
I just walked in to find you here with that sad look upon your face
I should have changed that stupid lock
I should have made you leave your key
If I'd've known for just one second you'd back to bother me
Go on now, go walk out the door
Just turn around now
('cause) you're not welcome anymore
Weren't you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
Did I crumble
Did you think I'd lay down and die?
Oh no, not.I. I will survive
Oh as long as I know how to love I know I'll stay alive;
I've got all my life to live,
I've got all my love to give and I'll survive,
I will survive. Hey hey.
It took all the strength I had not to fall apart
Kept trying' hard to mend the pieces of my broken heart,
And I spent oh so many nights
Just feeling sorry for myself. I used to cry
But now I hold my head up high
And you see me somebody new
I'm not that chained up little person still in love with you,
And so you feel like droppin' in
And just expect me to be free,
Now I'm savin' all my lovin' for someone who's lovin' me
Go on now.. etc.
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Now, I'm totally obsessed with thoughts of him and it's making me crazy!! I feel like I'm losing my mind! Why is it that we always want what we can't have?? I don't handle rejection very well and am having a hard time with it.
I know for me, if I was interested in someone else, it would take my thoughts off of Rick and I've seriously been looking. I put an ad on Craigslist and I think every ugly guy in the county answered.No luck there.I've been in contact with a couple of guys from online, but it seems like everyone is playing some kind of game here and isn't interested in a real relationship.
Sad and lonely...
MizChar