I couldn't stand him...now I want him back! (130)
The consequences we pay for the choices we make..
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Eyy my friend, I see you are pretty lady. Maybe your image can not accept you were rejected by a "man". I don't think you are in love with him. I think you are offended by the way he is leaving you....
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Birma: Eyy my friend, I see you are pretty lady. Maybe your image can not accept you were rejected by a "man". I don't think you are in love with him. I think you are offended by the way he is leaving you....
don't we just love our "ego"?
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MizChar: I was in a relationship with Rick for 2 years. We lived together for 1 yr. The last 6 months he irritated the hell out of me and I couldn't stand him. I was really, really mean to him. I faulted everything he did, yelled at him, was snotty and rude. He finally had enough and moved away.I waas fine with it, and rarely thought about him. He came back last weekend to play a gig with his old band and stayed with me.Things were just like when we first started dating. We had so much fun together. I was sweet and loveable BUT, he said that he was over it and has moved on and he wants me to do the same. He said that he still loves me, but isn't IN love with me. I told him I'd be willing to make some changes within myself and wanted to give things another shot. He said it wasn't happening.
Now, I'm totally obsessed with thoughts of him and it's making me crazy!! I feel like I'm losing my mind! Why is it that we always want what we can't have?? I don't handle rejection very well and am having a hard time with it.
I know for me, if I was interested in someone else, it would take my thoughts off of Rick and I've seriously been looking. I put an ad on Craigslist and I think every ugly guy in the county answered.No luck there.I've been in contact with a couple of guys from online, but it seems like everyone is playing some kind of game here and isn't interested in a real relationship.
Sad and lonely...
MizChar
Now, I'm totally obsessed with thoughts of him and it's making me crazy!! I feel like I'm losing my mind! Why is it that we always want what we can't have?? I don't handle rejection very well and am having a hard time with it.
I know for me, if I was interested in someone else, it would take my thoughts off of Rick and I've seriously been looking. I put an ad on Craigslist and I think every ugly guy in the county answered.No luck there.I've been in contact with a couple of guys from online, but it seems like everyone is playing some kind of game here and isn't interested in a real relationship.
Sad and lonely...
MizChar
We realize and we appreciate what we had only after we loose someone...it is the human nature
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I don't want to sound chauvinistic, but wanting what you can't have is IMO a very female trait.
Usually the cliché is that men like the chase. To some extent I feel that this can be said about women too. Only we don't want to chase our men when we don't have them but want them – we want to fight for him when we actually have him. It mustn't be too easy.
It's a love/hate thing. I was taught by my dad that if you hate someone you still love them, because the opposite of love isn't hate, it is not caring.
Sometimes you need “the downs” to really feel the love you have for another person. It's like needing war to know and cherish peace. Yin and yang – the one cannot exist without the other.
If he made you feel irritated then something was wrong in your relationship. You can't save it, he made that very clear. But you can learn from it, as to not repeat your mistakes in the future. Think about why you became so frustrated with him and/or the relationship. What irritated you? Had it something to do with yourself? Take action where you can. Working on these things will also help you to get your mind off him.
Usually the cliché is that men like the chase. To some extent I feel that this can be said about women too. Only we don't want to chase our men when we don't have them but want them – we want to fight for him when we actually have him. It mustn't be too easy.
It's a love/hate thing. I was taught by my dad that if you hate someone you still love them, because the opposite of love isn't hate, it is not caring.
Sometimes you need “the downs” to really feel the love you have for another person. It's like needing war to know and cherish peace. Yin and yang – the one cannot exist without the other.
If he made you feel irritated then something was wrong in your relationship. You can't save it, he made that very clear. But you can learn from it, as to not repeat your mistakes in the future. Think about why you became so frustrated with him and/or the relationship. What irritated you? Had it something to do with yourself? Take action where you can. Working on these things will also help you to get your mind off him.
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SO many have never heard of "The dance of intimacy"..
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I understand . I hated my x . Now after a year and half I want him back. Never will happen I broke his heart , like he did to me for seven years , now all I think about is him. All other dudes want to play little boy games
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littleone61480: I understand . I hated my x . Now after a year and half I want him back. Never will happen I broke his heart , like he did to me for seven years , now all I think about is him. All other dudes want to play little boy games
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littleone61480: dam u right
damn she's right!
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UrDreamsCumTru: You need to look inside yourself and be happy with yourself and be happy in your own skin before you can ever move on and be happy with anyone. People attract people in a simular stage of life, you need to be confident, relaxed, understanding and strong in your own skin
Yay!
Life is so good since I learned to love myself again!
I'm so wonderful I bet I make you guys want to puke - right?
Tough!
I'm happy and on a roll and attracting really lovely totally desperate women!
It's wonderful.
I just adore desperate women - and CS is FULL of them!
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morgan5: They say what goes around comes around
thanks god...i never treated any woman like shi*t. Besides, i am too old to treat any woman like crap now...and i never play games with women. so i am good to go..yay!!
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mnowsa: thanks god...i never treated any woman like shi*t. Besides, i am too old to treat any woman like crap now...and i never play games with women. so i am good to go..yay!!
As I have been told, you reap what you sow.
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MizChar: you're probably right Cowboy. But, I'm a fast learner and I've learned by this big mistake. It's just so hard to forget our "good" history and move on. Thanks for the input
Fast learner,at 59 years old and you treat your man like that?
I hope you have learned fast.
"Never take a partner for granted" its one short sentence but can take a long time to learn.
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MizChar: I was in a relationship with Rick for 2 years. We lived together for 1 yr. The last 6 months he irritated the hell out of me and I couldn't stand him. I was really, really mean to him. I faulted everything he did, yelled at him, was snotty and rude. He finally had enough and moved away.I waas fine with it, and rarely thought about him. He came back last weekend to play a gig with his old band and stayed with me.Things were just like when we first started dating. We had so much fun together. I was sweet and loveable BUT, he said that he was over it and has moved on and he wants me to do the same. He said that he still loves me, but isn't IN love with me. I told him I'd be willing to make some changes within myself and wanted to give things another shot. He said it wasn't happening.
Now, I'm totally obsessed with thoughts of him and it's making me crazy!! I feel like I'm losing my mind! Why is it that we always want what we can't have?? I don't handle rejection very well and am having a hard time with it.
I know for me, if I was interested in someone else, it would take my thoughts off of Rick and I've seriously been looking. I put an ad on Craigslist and I think every ugly guy in the county answered.No luck there.I've been in contact with a couple of guys from online, but it seems like everyone is playing some kind of game here and isn't interested in a real relationship.
Sad and lonely...
MizChar
Now, I'm totally obsessed with thoughts of him and it's making me crazy!! I feel like I'm losing my mind! Why is it that we always want what we can't have?? I don't handle rejection very well and am having a hard time with it.
I know for me, if I was interested in someone else, it would take my thoughts off of Rick and I've seriously been looking. I put an ad on Craigslist and I think every ugly guy in the county answered.No luck there.I've been in contact with a couple of guys from online, but it seems like everyone is playing some kind of game here and isn't interested in a real relationship.
Sad and lonely...
MizChar
You Showed him your true colors, you were mean, snotty, ugly, consistantantly for months, and do you think he will do that again????? No Friggin Way, Thats why you try to NEVER, be ugly or rude, and think you are going to show him how rude you can be...... SORRY FOR YOU, He ISNT coming Back, YOU KILLED IT, I have been there, and done the same thing, I was good to her, and she treats me like that, NO WAY>>>>>>>> DEAD!!!!!!!!!!
Tho I do suggest that you learn this as a hard lesson, and next time, you make Damn sure you dont DAMAGE the Next Relationship.... A Good Man, WILL NOT PLAY those Games....
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We ALL want what we can't have ......
Then when we get it .......it's not what we wanted anyway ..
Then when we get it .......it's not what we wanted anyway ..
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littleone61480: I understand . I hated my x . Now after a year and half I want him back. Never will happen I broke his heart , like he did to me for seven years , now all I think about is him. All other dudes want to play little boy games
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Bloody Hell.....You Western European Woman are really 'Complicated' creatures aren't you..????...First you 'Hate' our 'Guts' with the utmost 'Passion'.....Then you want us back to inflict more 'Misery' and 'Carnage' upon us poor 'Good Guys'....No wonder we the 'Good Guys' are looking more and more at 'Asia' and 'Eastern Woman' for marriage........ ..
... .J.D
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virgiomonkey: .......... Bloody Hell.....You Western European Woman are really 'Complicated' creatures aren't you..????...First you 'Hate' our 'Guts' with the utmost 'Passion'.....Then you want us back to inflict more 'Misery' and 'Carnage' upon us poor 'Good Guys'....No wonder we the 'Good Guys' are looking more and more at 'Asia' and 'Eastern Woman' for marriage........ .. ... .
J.D
J.D
Good guys???
Where?
Point em out
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SummerUK: Good guys???
Where?
Point em out
Where?
Point em out
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......Not telling.....Just protecting the 'Brotherhood' .....
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.. ...J.D
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One can only be belittled for so long and then they move on. If you hated him so why now do you all of a sudden want him back?
Ask yourself this question? How would you feel if you were in his shoes OP?