“When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”. ( Archived) (22)

Sep 28, 2009 5:00 AM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
BodyShotzzz
BodyShotzzzBodyShotzzzSt. Paul, Minnesota USA7 Threads 32 Posts
sigh Rejection hurts, no one enjoys being stood up especially on a saturday night. "Ill be there in a bit i have some work stuff to finish up" Sitting, passing the time, butterflies in your stomach waiting for their call back or text. check the mirror - perfect! Few hours fly by and its getting later. Its been more than a bit and still no call, now ive been waiting 2 days and nothing. Im crushed. Its guys like that who make me feel disgusted. just hit it and quit it. i cant help but blame myself for the no show. sad flower im a great girl just lonely, what did i do wrong?
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Sep 28, 2009 5:05 AM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
saseez
saseezsaseezlakes entrance, Victoria Australia1,590 Posts
its how the saying goes it NOT YOU ITS THEM and some ppl are just hopeless..there are men out thee for what ever reasons they have..just treat ppl like crap..... and yes visa versa also ....

stay strong there is decent ppl out there ..you just learned early they were not the ones for you....wine hug
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Sep 28, 2009 5:09 AM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
BodyShotzzz: Rejection hurts, no one enjoys being stood up especially on a saturday night. "Ill be there in a bit i have some work stuff to finish up" Sitting, passing the time, butterflies in your stomach waiting for their call back or text. check the mirror - perfect! Few hours fly by and its getting later. Its been more than a bit and still no call, now ive been waiting 2 days and nothing. Im crushed. Its guys like that who make me feel disgusted. just hit it and quit it. i cant help but blame myself for the no show. im a great girl just lonely, what did i do wrong?



Hi dollwave

Yes... what do we ever do wrong...copped my rejection this morning by mail....

Just before I left to drive to work... what a crying day.

crying crying
but sending empowerment... or what I have left of it.. to you.teddybear
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Sep 28, 2009 5:13 AM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
sweet_saucy2008
sweet_saucy2008sweet_saucy2008Northwest, Tennessee USA506 Posts
You have experienced what many of us do at one time or another. The problem is simply that you met a loser. If he was really into meeting you he would have. Since he didn't you consider yourself unfortunate. Lonliness is a double edged sword. On the one hand we fall prey to a smooth player and when we cannot get them, we feel like we have done something to bring it on. Trust me, when the guy is real you won't feel lonely any longer. comfort
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Sep 28, 2009 5:25 AM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
BodyShotzzz: Rejection hurts, no one enjoys being stood up especially on a saturday night. "Ill be there in a bit i have some work stuff to finish up" Sitting, passing the time, butterflies in your stomach waiting for their call back or text. check the mirror - perfect! Few hours fly by and its getting later. Its been more than a bit and still no call, now ive been waiting 2 days and nothing. Im crushed. Its guys like that who make me feel disgusted. just hit it and quit it. i cant help but blame myself for the no show. im a great girl just lonely, what did i do wrong?


You waited. That's what you did wrong. 1 hour MAXXXX, then leave and forget the turd.
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Sep 28, 2009 5:28 AM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Scubadiva: You waited. That's what you did wrong. 1 hour MAXXXX, then leave and forget the turd.


Hi Scubawave

Easier said than done... but if you have strength... send it over to us who are hurting. sad flower
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Sep 28, 2009 5:29 AM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
almera03
almera03almera03portsmouth, Hampshire, England UK11 Threads 3,913 Posts
Scubadiva: You waited. That's what you did wrong. 1 hour MAXXXX, then leave and forget the turd.
Your a tough woman

If i ever mail you ...drunk or sober ....block me immediately grin
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Sep 28, 2009 5:37 AM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
BodyShotzzz: Rejection hurts, no one enjoys being stood up especially on a saturday night. "Ill be there in a bit i have some work stuff to finish up" Sitting, passing the time, butterflies in your stomach waiting for their call back or text. check the mirror - perfect! Few hours fly by and its getting later. Its been more than a bit and still no call, now ive been waiting 2 days and nothing. Im crushed. Its guys like that who make me feel disgusted. just hit it and quit it. i cant help but blame myself for the no show. im a great girl just lonely, what did i do wrong?


Ill turn on my Cristal ball in a minute....professor
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Sep 28, 2009 5:40 AM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
Boban1: Ill turn on my Cristal ball in a minute....


Please do gypsy man.... let us know only the good stuff... make it up if you have to....

grin
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Sep 28, 2009 5:45 AM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Merriweather: Please do gypsy man.... let us know only the good stuff... make it up if you have to....


My point was that we cannot possibly know what went wrong

call it a misfortune,cold feet in the last minute ,poetic justice,
equality of the universe...

point is we don`t know... all we can offeris some comforting words
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Sep 28, 2009 5:45 AM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
They maybe a valid reason this happened? dunno
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Sep 28, 2009 5:46 AM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Boban1: My point was that we cannot possibly know what went wrong

call it a misfortune,cold feet in the last minute ,poetic justice,
equality of the universe...

point is we don`t know... all we can offeris some comforting words
thumbs up wine
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Sep 28, 2009 6:02 AM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
tfox1967
tfox1967tfox1967ayrshire, Central, Scotland UK2 Threads 35 Posts
BodyShotzzz: Rejection hurts, no one enjoys being stood up especially on a saturday night. "Ill be there in a bit i have some work stuff to finish up" Sitting, passing the time, butterflies in your stomach waiting for their call back or text. check the mirror - perfect! Few hours fly by and its getting later. Its been more than a bit and still no call, now ive been waiting 2 days and nothing. Im crushed. Its guys like that who make me feel disgusted. just hit it and quit it. i cant help but blame myself for the no show. im a great girl just lonely, what did i do wrong?
sorry to hear that at least you found him out early he could have used you first and the feelings you were getting was only lust if it was love there would be more pain i went through something similar only advice i can give you is keep looking your a lovely girl it wont be long someone will snap you up i hope you find happieness soon all the bestbouquet
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Sep 28, 2009 11:04 PM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
virgiomonkey
virgiomonkeyvirgiomonkeyAuckland, New Zealand4,241 Posts
BodyShotzzz: Rejection hurts, no one enjoys being stood up especially on a saturday night. "Ill be there in a bit i have some work stuff to finish up" Sitting, passing the time, butterflies in your stomach waiting for their call back or text. check the mirror - perfect! Few hours fly by and its getting later. Its been more than a bit and still no call, now ive been waiting 2 days and nothing. Im crushed. Its guys like that who make me feel disgusted. just hit it and quit it. i cant help but blame myself for the no show. im a great girl just lonely, what did i do wrong?


.....You did nothing wrong.....So stop blaming yourself...and as for the Guy who stood you up....what a 'gutless spineless coward' he truly is....and really sorry on whats happen here ....and I am sure a lot of good Guys on here will concur with me.....and say it as well, there still 'Good Guys' out there...So this is just for you......hug...... comfort ...rose....... rose

J.D
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Sep 29, 2009 1:42 PM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
Scubadiva
ScubadivaScubadivaNew Jersey, USA106 Threads 11 Polls 2,689 Posts
Merriweather: Hi Scuba

Easier said than done... but if you have strength... send it over to us who are hurting.


wave Hi Merri

I'd be happy to. You know, you say it's easier said than done and you're right. If you put all eggs in one basket and if you make yourself too accessible, then "some" people will think you're not worth the pursuit. hug
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Sep 29, 2009 1:49 PM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
bettyboop63
bettyboop63bettyboop63glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK61 Threads 2,036 Posts
BodyShotzzz: Rejection hurts, no one enjoys being stood up especially on a saturday night. "Ill be there in a bit i have some work stuff to finish up" Sitting, passing the time, butterflies in your stomach waiting for their call back or text. check the mirror - perfect! Few hours fly by and its getting later. Its been more than a bit and still no call, now ive been waiting 2 days and nothing. Im crushed. Its guys like that who make me feel disgusted. just hit it and quit it. i cant help but blame myself for the no show. im a great girl just lonely, what did i do wrong?


you didnt go wrong he did...hug
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Sep 29, 2009 3:31 PM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
Apostophe
ApostopheApostopheBoksburg, Gauteng South Africa64 Threads 1,937 Posts
A cousin of mine told one of my daughters a while ago:


Men are like buses. The next one is just around the corner.

Sometimes it's good when the table is laid out but the guest doesn't arrive...


Take heart.


comfort
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Oct 31, 2009 3:37 AM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
rebelluvr
rebelluvrrebelluvrMonroeville, Alabama USA3 Threads 1,627 Posts
choose wisely , young grasshopper ! for thereare many fish in the sea . take time to learn that what you desire most !
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Oct 31, 2009 3:47 AM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
rebelluvr
rebelluvrrebelluvrMonroeville, Alabama USA3 Threads 1,627 Posts
if you want a gentleman look for one , want loser they will find you ! just that simple need more explanation contact me banana banana banana
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Oct 31, 2009 5:47 AM CST “When we are tired, we are attacked by ideas we conquered long ago”.
Anuna
AnunaAnunaUB, Mongolia18 Threads 168 Posts
hi I feel myself lonely too and everyday online trying find me special one.applause

I wish u the best!
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