Big_John: Clearly there are women who don't understand men. Everyone I know has been to a 'gentlemen's club'. All men love the woman's body. Seeing them is part of a wedding pre-night event; part of guys being guys; and, just plain fun.
What's to "understand"? Not all men feel the need to go and ogle the sleeze found in strip clubs.
bodleingGreater Manchester, England UK13,810 posts
RDM59: I knew I recognised you from somewhere ....
In Britain, a gentleman's cub is concidered as exactly that. Usually ex services, commerce, law types etc. Wearing blazers and handlebar moustaches, chatting in a garbled Pythonesque manner sipping cognac and nibbling on brandy snaps. A very uperclass, gentry , elitist kind of scene.....
Doesnt sound like the gentleman's club I was working in last week. I suspect the 'nibbling on brandy snaps,' available though it may be, might be classed as extras.
bodleing: Doesnt sound like the gentleman's club I was working in last week. I suspect the 'nibbling on brandy snaps,' available though it may be, might be classed as extras.
I always suspected those clubs weren´t what they seemed!
Anyway, I thought they were banned nowadays with the discrimination laws?
bodleingGreater Manchester, England UK13,810 posts
Jan1305: I always suspected those clubs weren´t what they seemed!
Anyway, I thought they were banned nowadays with the discrimination laws?
Obviously not banned Jan. This one is in the centre of Manchester, opened last week, huge place, fifteen private booths, and wont be short of customers I guess.
Not for me though, I prefer them to be my customer.
bodleing: Obviously not banned Jan. This one is in the centre of Manchester, opened last week, huge place, fifteen private booths, and wont be short of customers I guess.
Not for me though, I prefer them to be my customer.
But are women prohibited from entering? Surely that can´t be true?
friends4now: I enjoy strip clubs myself and never had a problem with my SO going to one I know who he is coming home tooand if he wants one of those girls more power to him--i'll leave
friends4now: I enjoy strip clubs myself and never had a problem with my SO going to one I know who he is coming home tooand if he wants one of those girls more power to him--i'll leave
Maybe I´m old-fashioned, but I wouldn´t like my partner to frequent strip clubs, and I know he wouldn´t be happy if I sought out male strip shows. I can´t see why he would need to if he´s happy and content with me.
Maybe something is lost in translation here. European women don´t generally frequent or accompany their men to srrip clubs. Is this not the case in America?
As I´ve already said though, if it´s a stag night then fine, boys will be boys after all.
Don't hold your breath waiting for that phone call, SoldierByte. Because before you could be with me you had to give up "all your women." And get a green light on STD testing too.
ladichatterlee: Don't hold your breath waiting for that phone call, SoldierByte. Because before you could be with me you had to give up "all your women." And get a green light on STD testing too.
(all my women MENT ex-wives and daughters (4) - regardles of anything in the future.. they will always be "my women")) Are you SURE we never been married to each other..?? ---SoldierByte---
SoldierByte: (all my women MENT ex-wives and daughters (4) - regardles of anything in the future.. they will always be "my women")) Are you SURE we never been married to each other..?? ---SoldierByte---
Quite sure. I've been married once, and it wasn't to you. Won't do it a second time.
SoldierByte: (all my women MENT ex-wives and daughters (4) - regardles of anything in the future.. they will always be "my women")) Are you SURE we never been married to each other..?? ---SoldierByte---
Quite sure. I've been married once, and it wasn't to you. Won't do it a second time.
While when younger, I took a date or two, into gentlmens clubs, while making the rounds of various stops, while the dates did not mind, I certainly got some looks from the working girls that could cut right threw you if being a knife.
oranges2apples: maybe true?, and a lady doesn't ask for money and big d*ck in there profile, or do they?
One would hope those reading such profiles would be intelligent enough to know when someone is joking. I don't care a thing about a man who has money, for instance.
ladichatterlee: She was a decent person in every other respect perhaps. What's respectful and decent about a woman gyrating her naked body in front of all manner of god only knows what kind of scum that just happens in off the street?
Why are you here, exactly, 'Lady' Chatterlee? You seem to get offended by anything that doesn't measure up to your standards, you pass negative comments on ideas that are different from your own, you look down on people who live a different lifestyle from you. You seem to like to be nasty and mean, always focusing on the negative side of issues. I feel sad for you, I really do. It must be lonely being so judgmental all the time.
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What's to "understand"? Not all men feel the need to go and ogle the sleeze found in strip clubs.