At the same time, let's not minimise the efficacy of lust....it's what most human relationships are based on. Lust is an essential ingredient in building a durable "house of love".
Sojourner: No. Lust at first sight, yes. Love, no. Love grows over time.
Odysseus101: How can you "love at first sight"??....that is a naive understanding of love....
Really, we should distinguish between infatuation, and love. I think we misuse the term "love".
I so agree with the "Love" word being tossed out there to much. The only people I say I love you to are my family and friends...And When I find that right partner in my life...
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