My Mum (64)

Nov 23, 2009 5:07 AM CST My Mum
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
Thursday night my mum collapsed & couldnt breathe , after undergoing surgery chemo radiation recently & being givin the all clear on the 17th of November a doctor tells us on the 20th that she has 2 weeks to live not much more than that!!! .
secondary tumours have formed in her lungs Its farked beyond belief !!The scan taken on the 2nd revealed nothing!!!! . In 3 short weeks this insidious disease has taken hold & theres nothing to do absolutly nothing .
the helplessness is overwealming
Im gutted, we all are
What will I do without her ?
I simply dont know
Im so tired
It sucks so bad


Ide like to thank all the well wishes and positive vibes that were sent to me & mine over the last few months
Kizzy
lips hug
Nov 23, 2009 5:15 AM CST My Mum
Larf75
Larf75Larf75Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia16 Threads 1 Polls 1,990 Posts
kizzy27: Thursday night my mum collapsed & couldnt breathe , after undergoing surgery chemo radiation recently & being givin the all clear on the 17th of November a doctor tells us on the 20th that she has 2 weeks to live not much more than that!!! .
secondary tumours have formed in her lungs Its farked beyond belief !!The scan taken on the 2nd revealed nothing!!!! . In 3 short weeks this insidious disease has taken hold & theres nothing to do absolutly nothing .
the helplessness is overwealming
Im gutted, we all are
What will I do without her ?
I simply dont know
Im so tired
It sucks so bad


Ide like to thank all the well wishes and positive vibes that were sent to me & mine over the last few months
Kizzy


I am so sorry to hear that Kizzy. We have had this happen to 2 of our Aunties but it doesn't even come close compared to what you are going through. My thoughts are with you in this difficult time and I hope that your Mum is at the very least; not in pain and comfortable. All my thoughts are coming your way. hug sad flower
Nov 23, 2009 5:17 AM CST My Mum
steve6610
steve6610steve6610Goolwa, South Australia Australia2,184 Posts
kizzy27: Thursday night my mum collapsed & couldnt breathe , after undergoing surgery chemo radiation recently & being givin the all clear on the 17th of November a doctor tells us on the 20th that she has 2 weeks to live not much more than that!!! .
secondary tumours have formed in her lungs Its farked beyond belief !!The scan taken on the 2nd revealed nothing!!!! . In 3 short weeks this insidious disease has taken hold & theres nothing to do absolutly nothing .
the helplessness is overwealming
Im gutted, we all are
What will I do without her ?
I simply dont know
Im so tired
It sucks so bad


Ide like to thank all the well wishes and positive vibes that were sent to me & mine over the last few months
Kizzy


Kizzy I am so sorry to hear what has transgressed with your mum. My thoughts & prayers are with you both. hug teddybear sad flower
Nov 23, 2009 5:17 AM CST My Mum
bjsss
bjsssbjsssMelbourne, Victoria Australia5 Threads 3,536 Posts
Kizz so sorry to hear this sad news hug teddybear
Nov 23, 2009 5:19 AM CST My Mum
kezza007
kezza007kezza007brisbane, Queensland Australia27 Threads 1 Polls 1,541 Posts
Thoughts are with you Kizzy

hug hug hug
Nov 23, 2009 5:30 AM CST My Mum
tarnsnz
tarnsnztarnsnzSouth Coast Beach, New South Wales Australia21 Threads 5,102 Posts
sad flower sorry to hear that hug thoughts are with you at this sad time sad flower
Nov 23, 2009 6:12 AM CST My Mum
Jimi123499
Jimi123499Jimi123499Central, Victoria Australia19 Threads 2 Polls 1,048 Posts
hug sorry to hear A...., thinking of you...hug

J
Nov 23, 2009 6:15 AM CST My Mum
melty1
melty1melty1Goolwa, South Australia Australia11 Threads 2 Polls 4,121 Posts
Hi Kizz! Sorry to hear of poor Mum. That is so farked up! frustrated hug comfort sad flower
Your Mum, you and family have be so brave. Hugs and kisses for you teddybear rose
Nov 23, 2009 6:19 AM CST My Mum
WaterDragpn
WaterDragpnWaterDragpnToowoomba, Queensland Australia1 Threads 215 Posts
OMG blues How shattering for all of you! Totally sucks.
My heart and prayers for you and yours.
hug Stevie
Nov 23, 2009 7:04 AM CST My Mum
Shell225
Shell225Shell225Brisbane, Queensland Australia26 Threads 8,572 Posts
OH Kizzy,

Im so so sorry hug that is the cruelest blow. There are no words that can take away the utter pain you must be feeling.

Will keep your mum, you and your family in my prayers.

Take care


Shell xxx
Nov 23, 2009 8:50 AM CST My Mum
LoveableOne
LoveableOneLoveableOneMelbourne, Victoria Australia67 Threads 4,079 Posts
I'm so sorry kizz...sad flower teddybear
Nov 23, 2009 11:50 AM CST My Mum
nuala
nualanualadublin, Dublin Ireland12 Threads 6,456 Posts
I am sending you both lots and lots of Irish luck and love at this hard time for you both, plus the rest of your family and friends.....teddybear hug comfort teddybear
Nov 23, 2009 12:56 PM CST My Mum
fortyeleven
fortyelevenfortyelevencooma, New South Wales Australia2 Threads 26 Posts
Kizzy I am so sorry to hear you news...will be thinking of you teddybear sad flower
Nov 23, 2009 2:37 PM CST My Mum
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
Thankyou guys , needless to say Ill be spending alot of time with her , Ive contacted all the family they begin arriving todayI suppose at least we have been givin this time howeva small to say what we wanted to saywhat we need to say Its just so emotionally draining .Mums taking it all rather well concidering, her hair has started to grow back & it has grown back thick curly & white as opposed to her prechemo hair which was dark straight thin . My 11 yr old daughter asked her about this last night ...My mother simply replied why Chels, thats Nanas Angel hair
angel
beautifulkiss
Nov 23, 2009 2:46 PM CST My Mum
maybesoon
maybesoonmaybesoonthe moon, Queensland Australia16 Threads 1 Polls 951 Posts
kizzy27: Thankyou guys , needless to say Ill be spending alot of time with her , Ive contacted all the family they begin arriving todayI suppose at least we have been givin this time howeva small to say what we wanted to saywhat we need to say Its just so emotionally draining .Mums taking it all rather well concidering, her hair has started to grow back & it has grown back thick curly & white as opposed to her prechemo hair which was dark straight thin . My 11 yr old daughter asked her about this last night ...My mother simply replied why Chels, thats Nanas Angel hair

beautiful


havent been here for a while,and come to this, sorry to hear this kizzy,,, just be there for ya mum, and remember all the good things, and say whatever you want to say to your mum,,, tell her whet you gonna do in the furture, so u knw when you do it, your mum will know as well,, take care,, mums cant be replaced,,, pete
Nov 23, 2009 6:17 PM CST My Mum
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
Oh no kizzy. I am so sorry. Love and thoughts being sent your way bouquet hug bouquet
Nov 23, 2009 6:28 PM CST My Mum
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia278 Threads 7,904 Posts
kizzy27: Thankyou guys , needless to say Ill be spending alot of time with her , Ive contacted all the family they begin arriving todayI suppose at least we have been givin this time howeva small to say what we wanted to saywhat we need to say Its just so emotionally draining .Mums taking it all rather well concidering, her hair has started to grow back & it has grown back thick curly & white as opposed to her prechemo hair which was dark straight thin . My 11 yr old daughter asked her about this last night ...My mother simply replied why Chels, thats Nanas Angel hair

beautiful



For a start --- many hugs and kisses

It seems your mum through all the pain of body and mind has/is accepted/ing this part of all our journeys ( "My mother simply replied why Chels, thats Nanas Angel hair") Hugs again . Accept/share it with her --- many kisses and hugs and beauty
Nov 23, 2009 9:29 PM CST My Mum
Twodawgz
TwodawgzTwodawgzmelbourne, Victoria Australia4 Threads 4,009 Posts
sad flower not good... bouquet
Nov 24, 2009 12:31 AM CST My Mum
Damianowen
DamianowenDamianowenDubbo, New South Wales Australia14 Threads 4 Polls 718 Posts
Sincerest condolences Kiz, to you and your family.sad flower
Nov 24, 2009 2:10 AM CST My Mum
Martia
MartiaMartiabenalla, Victoria Australia141 Threads 1 Polls 2,888 Posts
Oh Darling I know how you feel.... your mum will live through you so you can pass on her love to your children.

Take care sweetheart my thoughts are with you.
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