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Dec 6, 2009 5:36 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
somechick: As most of you know I lost my husband acouple years ago because of lung cancer and it was a very sad time for me but I managed to get through it.

This last year I began my own home based business and buried myself in my work and began volunteering part time in a nursing home near my home by serving the residents who reside there holiday meals which keeps me pretty occupied so I'm not dwelling soley on my loss.This holiday season I'll most likely be doing the very same thing as last year helping out at the nursing home.
Good for you somechick hug sure you will make a difference to the people you are around this Holiday season wine bouquet
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Dec 6, 2009 5:37 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
ali110: I dont celebrate christmas but i say congrates to all my Christian friends on cs
thumbs up wine
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Dec 6, 2009 5:41 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
morgan5: Good for you somechick sure you will make a difference to the people you are around this Holiday season



I've always enjoyed doing for others who are less fortunate than myself.

Alot of those residents don't have families who ever visit them.
I guess you could say I've made them my family.
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Dec 6, 2009 5:48 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
somechick: I've always enjoyed doing for others who are less fortunate than myself.

Alot of those residents don't have families who ever visit them.
I guess you could say I've made them my family.
My career was in in Social Care and normally worked at Christmas, so can fully understand where your coming from. hug hug
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Dec 6, 2009 5:48 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
Merriweather
MerriweatherMerriweatherAdelaide, South Australia Australia51 Threads 11,403 Posts
ali110: I dont celebrate christmas but i say congrates to all my Christian friends on cs



Thank you Ali... thats nice...thumbs up
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Dec 6, 2009 5:49 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
steve6610
steve6610steve6610Goolwa, South Australia Australia2,184 Posts
somechick: I've always enjoyed doing for others who are less fortunate than myself.

Alot of those residents don't have families who ever visit them.
I guess you could say I've made them my family.


thats great thumbs up hug
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Dec 6, 2009 11:06 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
stefonline: I can relate to all of that morgan.....and it is just any other day.....the only thing is I have a younger daughter and she gets so excited about it so it's only fair to show some excitement back for her.....
wave yep it is hope you all have a wonderful day hug wine
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Dec 6, 2009 11:24 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
AFriendlyone
AFriendlyoneAFriendlyoneNampa, Idaho USA1 Threads 56 Posts
steve6610: Im so sorry to hear that my thoughts are with you though



Steve,
I am not sure about Boban1's specific religion but the Russian Orthodox religion celebrates Christmas on January 6th or 7th. (Sorry, I can’t remember which). It was the Roman Catholics that started the tradition of celebrating Christmas on December 25 because they wanted to take advantage of the Saturnalia celebrations and lead the pagan celebration with on wholly devoted to their god.
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Dec 6, 2009 11:25 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
Well, I will probably be with you guys and gals for Christmas. My family usually celebrates on Christmas Eve with a dinner, then we all go our separate ways. I usually celebrate Christmas morning with my son, then he goes to his father's house. Then I am all alone for however long. When I used to work, I would just schedule my days there to keep me busy. This year I will be out on break from school and just hanging around the house. So, I will probably find something here to keep me busy. It doesn't bother me to spend the holiday alone, though. I have for years.
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Dec 6, 2009 11:31 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
lushguy4you
lushguy4youlushguy4youIstanbul, Marmara Turkey44 Threads 3,004 Posts
xmas the time for given

three years ago got a xmas gift from the G/F and a card saying she would be late but i can open the present.

i did and it contained a note Happy christmas the relationship is over.

well i rang her thinking it was a joke, no it wasnt and god that day i burnt the turkey

every year i get a present i always remember those words

so i may take myself on holiday again
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Dec 6, 2009 11:34 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
woodzchick
woodzchickwoodzchickCallands, Virginia USA38 Threads 1 Polls 2,006 Posts
lushguy4you: xmas the time for given

three years ago got a xmas gift from the G/F and a card saying she would be late but i can open the present.

i did and it contained a note Happy christmas the relationship is over.

well i rang her thinking it was a joke, no it wasnt and god that day i burnt the turkey

every year i get a present i always remember those words

so i may take myself on holiday again


That was just mean of her to do that. I hate to say it, but she probably did you a favor by leaving. Doesn't sound like someone to be in a relationship with.
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Dec 6, 2009 11:37 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
Merriweather: Thank you Ali... thats nice...
u r well comehug
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Dec 6, 2009 11:37 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
lushguy4you
lushguy4youlushguy4youIstanbul, Marmara Turkey44 Threads 3,004 Posts
woodzchick: That was just mean of her to do that. I hate to say it, but she probably did you a favor by leaving. Doesn't sound like someone to be in a relationship with.


thanks there are some mean woman moping
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Dec 6, 2009 11:45 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
lushguy4you: xmas the time for given

three years ago got a xmas gift from the G/F and a card saying she would be late but i can open the present.

i did and it contained a note Happy christmas the relationship is over.

well i rang her thinking it was a joke, no it wasnt and god that day i burnt the turkey

every year i get a present i always remember those words

so i may take myself on holiday again
Think that is a really spiteful way to end a relationship.

hug hug wine
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Dec 6, 2009 11:47 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago215 Threads 2 Polls 3,777 Posts
morgan5: Thats pretty much how i feel, so many people get into debt trying to provide this Wonderful Day and buy presents for their children they just can't afford, because of the hyoe and pressure placed on them, my daughter started stressing in November!

So many spend it alone its truly sad, we can keep each other company here


Christmas is what YOU make it. Can't allow others to dictate that you should drive yourself into debt over a holiday. Sure I might buy my daughter a present but do you think that is the most important thing to her? Of course not - nothing is more important than knowing that her mummy loves her and that's good enough for me. She'll be spending the holidays with her dad this year but I'm hoping next year we can have our fun together, decorating, shopping, baking and generally getting up to all sorts of mischief.grin
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Dec 6, 2009 11:49 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
DarkKnight2032
DarkKnight2032DarkKnight2032West Jordan, Utah USA14 Threads 960 Posts
lushguy4you: xmas the time for given

three years ago got a xmas gift from the G/F and a card saying she would be late but i can open the present.

i did and it contained a note Happy christmas the relationship is over.

well i rang her thinking it was a joke, no it wasnt and god that day i burnt the turkey

every year i get a present i always remember those words

so i may take myself on holiday again


Damn, if the words Psycho-nuts just didn't go through my head after reading that.

I'm amazed she didn't send it through Singing Gram of some sorts.

cheers To you and have a great Day off.
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Dec 6, 2009 11:53 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
tainogirl: Christmas is what YOU make it. Can't allow others to dictate that you should drive yourself into debt over a holiday. Sure I might buy my daughter a present but do you think that is the most important thing to her? Of course not - nothing is more important than knowing that her mummy loves her and that's good enough for me. She'll be spending the holidays with her dad this year but I'm hoping next year we can have our fun together, decorating, shopping, baking and generally getting up to all sorts of mischief.
Yes, it is Taino but for alot of people past events make it a sad a lonely time.

No, I don't think for a second gifts compensate for love but when a parent is unable to buy the gifts their child would love, they often feel they are letting them down and it causes huge amounts of stress.

From what i have seen living in different countries, maybe the pressure and hype surrounding Christmas, varies from country to country. wine
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Dec 6, 2009 11:53 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
I like this that I just found.

Summoning the Sun

Room, room, brave gallants all, and give us room to rhyme!
We come to show activity about this wintertime.
The roots of our great festival lie hidden at the base
Of Ygdrasil, the World Tree, and these for you I'll trace.

At Hanukkah the lights do blaze for eight nights and a day
And Maccabees do celebrate midwinter victory.
Saint George shall come and die by swords that circle round his neck
As winter dies, so shall he die, and then to life like spring.
In Sweden, Saint Lucia brings her little Christmas Jul,
And Saturnalia brings from Rome the ancient Feast of Fools.

A star shone over Bethlehem to guide the wise men three
And in Japan it's time to cut your Kado Matsu tree.
In the pueblos of New Mexico they dance the matachin
And light the luminaria to guide the wise men in.

For African-Americans, it's Kwanza time tonight
For seven spirit principles to show the inner light.
For the Iroquois, the snow-snakes are the game of winter feasts
Where Big Heads go a-visiting to banish winter's beast.

In northern lands around the world the fires are alight
To drive away the darkness on this, the longest night.
We bid you carol with us, sing wassail every one
Now, welcome in the New Year and summon up the sun!

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Dec 6, 2009 11:54 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
lushguy4you
lushguy4youlushguy4youIstanbul, Marmara Turkey44 Threads 3,004 Posts
DarkKnight2032: Damn, if the words Psycho-nuts just didn't go through my head after reading that.

I'm amazed she didn't send it through Singing Gram of some sorts.

To you and have a great Day off.


cheers bud and you 2

No singing gram but a golden bow on the top doh
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Dec 6, 2009 11:54 AM CST What Does Christmas Mean For You?
Iuchi_Zien
Iuchi_ZienIuchi_ZienSheffield, South Yorkshire, England UK21 Threads 9 Polls 1,426 Posts
Christmas means I'll be living on Spaghetti (it used to be bread but £1.30 a LOAF!) and water till I've finished paying for the kids presents (which will probably be some time February)
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