A Not So Rhetorical Question.... (21)
Everything happens for a reason, she wouldn't be attempting to come back into your life if there wasn't something related. If it were me, I'd communicate with her as soon as possible, sit down and discuss everything... and I mean everything with her. Wants, desires, thoughts, whole 9, top to bottom. That'd be step one, the rest.. is what you feel within your heart. We cannot give advice on which way to let your heart steer you, which it will ultimately on its own based on exposure to one, the other, or both of the women.
I can't really say much else on this, other than.. take it slow, rationalize it, and your current situation and don't run into it unprepared. You're ex-mil, so you already know what happens if that occurs. CMIF isn't the acronym you want associated with this.
Rich
I can't really say much else on this, other than.. take it slow, rationalize it, and your current situation and don't run into it unprepared. You're ex-mil, so you already know what happens if that occurs. CMIF isn't the acronym you want associated with this.
Rich
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Prof has made some good points.
You have to decide where your heart is and know why she has got back in touch.
If you are not careful you could step back and lose everything for nothing.
But you will get in touch, you would not ask the question otherwise, you need validation for what you want to do.
Good luck, take care.
You have to decide where your heart is and know why she has got back in touch.
If you are not careful you could step back and lose everything for nothing.
But you will get in touch, you would not ask the question otherwise, you need validation for what you want to do.
Good luck, take care.
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thanks for the clarification!!!
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As usual give me the phone i will call in your name.
El Diablo
El Diablo
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Yeah, it's true...he is my best friend....
He's telling me that I have to call this gal...and quit effing around. She's the only gal that I've ever been with that he "approved of" and liked......
He's telling me that I have to call this gal...and quit effing around. She's the only gal that I've ever been with that he "approved of" and liked......
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So why did you step back to another and leave her?
Your dithering, just do the deed, you know you NEED to.
Your dithering, just do the deed, you know you NEED to.
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<<<<Dumbest thing I have ever done in my entire life.
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To be honest I'm surprised she would get in touch after you doing that, I could not.
But there must be a lot of unfinished business between you.
I will say again, take care and good luck, maybe you are lucky enough to be offered a second chance.
But there must be a lot of unfinished business between you.
I will say again, take care and good luck, maybe you are lucky enough to be offered a second chance.
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Call her
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Love like that only comes once in a lifetime....So I think you already know the answer to your own question!
Good Luck!
Good Luck!
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plains, hand me the phone number, I'll starighten it out for you! sheesh!
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burt,
you already know what i think you should do, but its up to you ..sort out how you feel, then make a choice.. only way to move on one way or another..
you already know what i think you should do, but its up to you ..sort out how you feel, then make a choice.. only way to move on one way or another..
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Life is far too short for "what if's",or "shoulda,coulda",I have to say call,talk,and talk aloy,lay it ALL out on the table,nothing to loss,possibly something to gain,at the very least you'll be gaining peace of mind.
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Just follow your heart. If you do miss her too and want to talk to her there shouldn't be any doubts. You do what you want and what you think is best.
Good Luck to you!
Good Luck to you!
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Thanks to all for your sage advice. I know what I need to do, just have to make sure that I'm not looking back with rose colored glasses, ya know. I'm probably gonna give her a call, though, if for nothing other than to say I'm sorry about how I treated her. Thanks again, ya'll.
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good choice!
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hes right ... do it ...
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I wanted her for a long time......
One day Fate put her in my life.....and I loved her, for a short time.
Another day put someone back in my life that I loved before her..
In a very short sighted decision....I left her for another.
Hindsight is 20/20....
Very few days have passed that I haven't thought about her and the bad decision that I made.
Many days have passed that I couldn't find her, didn't know what was on her mind on in her heart....I moved on, again
Today, she calls my father, she misses me...wants me to call her
I'm not really in a place to do that right now....or should I?
Friends....your thoughts on the matter?