shey boy....you have brought up some very interesting points.....
i tell you what im gonna do.....when we make first contact with ...ALIENS.....we will find your answer....im sure only people from another ...UNIVERSE...could understand ...YOU....
Sorry ,it is not my falt, if your mind is dir...... I went date classy restaurant with nice shirt and nice tie expensive suit. My date ,said -I LIKE YOUR ADDITUDE BUT NOT YOUR WEARING (DO NOT LIKE TIE USER GENTLEMAN)YOU DO NOT FALLOWING FASHION; 45 DAYS AFTER ;SECOND TIME DIFFERENT LADY SAME RESTAURANT NO TIE NO CLASSY ONLY JEANS FRESH NEW AND CASUAL MY RESULT; SECOND LADY SAID ;NICE ADDITUDE BUT SUCH A RESTAURANT NEED NICE SHIRT AND TIE NICE SUIT CLASSY AND FORMAL; I HOPE I HOPE I HOPE YOU AND THE OTHERS UNDERSTAND BETTER AND IF NOT JUST PASSING TRUE AND LEAVE ME ALONE ....
Perhaps the problem in fact does not lie with the women. Firts things first just be yourself. And why just because on doesn't like a tie would you not wear one again. Don't try to be something you're not just to impress a girl. I want a man who knows how to be the person only he can be.
Right on, Chrissy! Shelomo, just be yourself. Everyone wants to make the very best first impression, but we all have different tastes and personalities. Some prefer jeans and casual attire and some prefer a more traditional and conservative look. And it's okay for you to try to dress to suit the occasion, whether it's a fancy restaurant or a picnic by the lake.
But to avoid the type of embarrassing scenario you described, I would suggest doing a bit more research on what would be considered proper dress attire for the place you are going and also let your date know what that proper dress attire is. Some really nice restaurants have a dress code, where they require gentlemen to wear a jacket and tie, and absolutely NO jeans or athletic shoes allowed.
Yeah, I know, I don't frequent those kinds of places either.
But you would definitely want to let your date know BEFORE you go, so that she won't be dressed in jeans and sneakers and then be embarrassed at the door of the restaurant when they won't allow her in. Yep, it happened to me. My date didn't tell me where we were going. He should have said something like "Dress nice" and that would have given me a clue. But he didn't, so for all I knew we were going to the local pizza parlor for pizza and beer.
Just be yourself. If you prefer a suit and tie to jeans and sneakers, then by all means that's what you should wear. And here's a little tip -- stay away from any woman who wants to control how you dress. If it's your first date, you should be spending time getting to know each other's wonderful qualities, not finding fault with how someone is dressed.
Attention Ladies and Gentlemen Thank you for responded to my topic but most of you made me so mad and abused becouse the whole point was much much farther what I means The only my friendly advise to all of you Do not react and advise or joke or lol to some other person you do not know very well There is not any case similar look like or close to each other becouse human all different look good luck to all of you hope you find the best you have in your mind
euro_dollSydney, New South Wales Australia428 posts
How come you can spell, almost used sentences and haven’t used caps this time around- either you've bought a dictionary or its like a whole new person.
Maybe you just loosened your tie around your throat, and stopped cutting off the oxygen to the brain???
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Was this addressed to the English speaking ladies....?