Passion in a Relationship.. ( Archived) (60)

Jan 9, 2010 9:15 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
scorpiosiren
scorpiosirenscorpiosirendrogheda, Louth Ireland24 Threads 1 Polls 1,100 Posts
wonderworker: Like I said....some folks get hot thru argument or a knock-down,drag-out fight.
What do we learn from that bit of information?
"Intellectual" stimulation.....or what?



its good to clear the airwaves
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Jan 9, 2010 9:17 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
cheers

I like to be rebelious sometimes too wink

devil
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Jan 9, 2010 9:19 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
ogdensburgbabe
ogdensburgbabeogdensburgbabeogdensburg, New York USA18 Threads 801 Posts
Konigsberg: I like to be rebelious sometimes too


OMG, surely not. To go against the Party Line???? Thats a hanging offence, you know...wink
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Jan 9, 2010 9:21 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
wonderworker
wonderworkerwonderworkercosby, Tennessee USA201 Threads 2 Polls 1,883 Posts
Og I can prevail in any "PASSIONATE' debate with You simply because I am bigger and stronger.
I hit you a couple of times and the discussion is over.
That would certainly conform to the thread thus far.It would be "passionate".
There is a time-honored concept in logic and debate called "argument by intimidation",the mastery of which serves only lawyers,evangelists and that ilk.
I know what you had in mind in your OP
But then you extolled the value of intense discussion of a subject.
I have tried to provide it by choosing the opinion contrary to your own.
You're welcome.
John
cool
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Jan 9, 2010 9:23 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
Lostrebel
LostrebelLostrebelHeuvelton, New York USA9 Threads 661 Posts
wonderworker: Og I can prevail in any "PASSIONATE' debate with You simply because I am bigger and stronger.
I hit you a couple of times and the discussion is over.
That would certainly conform to the thread thus far.It would be "passionate".
There is a time-honored concept in logic and debate called "argument by intimidation",the mastery of which serves only lawyers,evangelists and that ilk.
I know what you had in mind in your OP
But then you extolled the value of intense discussion of a subject.
I have tried to provide it by choosing the opinion contrary to your own.
You're welcome.
John
can you put that in lay mans terms for me...confused grin
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Jan 9, 2010 9:23 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Well, I made it to Tulsa and it was 20 degrees when I pulled in. It was 70 when I left Phoenix yesterday.doh

Now, if only I had some "passion" to keep me warm tonight..sigh
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Jan 9, 2010 9:23 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
wonderworker
wonderworkerwonderworkercosby, Tennessee USA201 Threads 2 Polls 1,883 Posts
Konigsberg: We cultivate passion debates in our family and very comfortable to exress what we feel about each other. Even when it is not a pleasant feelings. We are from different cultural and social backgrounds, which makes our relationship very challenging. But being open and truthfull to understand and to accept it helps a lot.

I like what you think about relationship ... it reminds me mine.I just never though to put it this way ...

Passion Discussing, arguing (constructively), disagreeing...and the like..

Where did you get that definition King'sTown?
I think you made it up.
cool
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Jan 9, 2010 9:24 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
ogdensburgbabe: OMG, surely not. To go against the Party Line???? Thats a hanging offence, you know...



Walking on the edge brings more spice to the Partylaugh



wink


btw there is different types of torture, you know batting
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Jan 9, 2010 9:24 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
scorpiosiren
scorpiosirenscorpiosirendrogheda, Louth Ireland24 Threads 1 Polls 1,100 Posts
wonderworker: Og I can prevail in any "PASSIONATE' debate with You simply because I am bigger and stronger.
I hit you a couple of times and the discussion is over.
That would certainly conform to the thread thus far.It would be "passionate".
There is a time-honored concept in logic and debate called "argument by intimidation",the mastery of which serves only lawyers,evangelists and that ilk.
I know what you had in mind in your OP
But then you extolled the value of intense discussion of a subject.
I have tried to provide it by choosing the opinion contrary to your own.
You're welcome.
John



that is not a passionate debate thats violence
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Jan 9, 2010 9:25 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
ogdensburgbabe
ogdensburgbabeogdensburgbabeogdensburg, New York USA18 Threads 801 Posts
HJFinAZ: Well, I made it to Tulsa and it was 20 degrees when I pulled in. It was 70 when I left Phoenix yesterday.

Now, if only I had some "passion" to keep me warm tonight..


hijack grin
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Jan 9, 2010 9:25 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
wonderworker: Where did you get that definition King'sTown?
I think you made it up.


What is King's town?

cool
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Jan 9, 2010 9:26 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
ogdensburgbabe
ogdensburgbabeogdensburgbabeogdensburg, New York USA18 Threads 801 Posts
Konigsberg: Walking on the edge brings more spice to the Party
btw there is different types of torture, you know


laugh laugh laugh wink

I gotchya, babe...I gotchya...grin
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Jan 9, 2010 9:30 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
thumbs up

uh oh
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Jan 9, 2010 9:44 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
wonderworker
wonderworkerwonderworkercosby, Tennessee USA201 Threads 2 Polls 1,883 Posts
Lostrebel: can you put that in lay mans terms for me...

No.
I wish I could.
Og's thread is a consideration of what we mean by "passionate debate"
I've tried to be her Devil's Advocate.
I wont say much more since I dont want to appear to be trying to usurp the topic.
Lastly:
VIOLENCE is well within our definition of Passion.
I believe Konigsburg translates to King'sTown.But it's not my Pseudonym so what do I know..?
cool
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Jan 9, 2010 9:46 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
Lostrebel
LostrebelLostrebelHeuvelton, New York USA9 Threads 661 Posts
wonderworker: No.
I wish I could.
Og's thread is a consideration of what we mean by "passionate debate"
I've tried to be her Devil's Advocate.
I wont say much more since I dont want to appear to be trying to usurp the topic.
Lastly:
VIOLENCE is well within our definition of Passion.
I believe Konigsburg translates to King'sTown.But it's not my Pseudonym so what do I know..?
I see
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Jan 9, 2010 9:48 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
Konigsberg
KonigsbergKonigsbergJurassic Park (Site B), Nova Scotia Canada57 Threads 3 Polls 8,448 Posts
wonderworker: No.
I wish I could.
Og's thread is a consideration of what we mean by "passionate debate"
I've tried to be her Devil's Advocate.
I wont say much more since I dont want to appear to be trying to usurp the topic.
Lastly:
VIOLENCE is well within our definition of Passion.
I believe Konigsburg translates to King'sTown.But it's not my Pseudonym so what do I know..?


Oh I see now. No Konigs/ berg means Kings mountain in German

Ice/berg wink


and no I didn't make my passion debate and arguing post up.



It is how we live our life together laugh

wave
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Jan 9, 2010 9:52 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
wonderworker
wonderworkerwonderworkercosby, Tennessee USA201 Threads 2 Polls 1,883 Posts
Konigsberg: Oh I see now. No Konigs/ berg means Kings mountain in German

Ice/berg and no I didn't make my passion debate and arguing post up.
It is how we live our life together

Thanks.
burg versus berg maybe?
See I learned something.
cool
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Jan 10, 2010 9:36 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
mjames
mjamesmjamesnapa, California USA2 Threads 1 Polls 779 Posts
ogdensburgbabe: Nope, I dont mean in the bedroom department!!

Discussing, arguing (constructively), disagreeing...and the like..

One of my pet peeves is someone who agrees with me all the time, and someone who sits on a fence and wont commit to his or her point..drives me insane..

I enjoy debate, whether it be on here on in my relationship, and it stimulates me. Sometimes I lose my temper, but it usually works out for the better as I can also admit when Im wrong and be submissive if I need to...

I dont want a clone of me, or a push over. I would rather a strong minded individual with whom I can meet a common ground, even if it requires heated debate in the short term.

I admire people with strong beliefs..

What say you???

First of all I dont like dating someone like you and you have to realize you are not going to be everyone's cup of tea. Just because they dont like the drama of fighting and dealing with conflict like you, doesn't mean they are wrong and you are right.

You can debate without it being heated. I talk politics and religion to many but usually people get heated because they are frustrated that the other doesn't agree with them and they are trying to convert them to their way of thinking.

In psychology people that get heated in arguments and even like it are control freaks.

I think you may be one and you like someone being one too. Sorry but I like people to have their own thoughts but I also don't like drama. You can have strong beliefs without being loud and arrogant and angry.
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Jan 10, 2010 9:39 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
mjames: First of all I dont like dating someone like you and you have to realize you are not going to be everyone's cup of tea. Just because they dont like the drama of fighting and dealing with conflict like you, doesn't mean they are wrong and you are right.

You can debate without it being heated. I talk politics and religion to many but usually people get heated because they are frustrated that the other doesn't agree with them and they are trying to convert them to their way of thinking.

In psychology people that get heated in arguments and even like it are control freaks.

I think you may be one and you like someone being one too. Sorry but I like people to have their own thoughts but I also don't like drama. You can have strong beliefs without being loud and arrogant and angry.


I totally agree with you on this... I dislike conflict. It isn't my thing. I have very strong opinion about everything, well most things, but I see no benefit is heated debated with the lady I love.
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Jan 10, 2010 10:34 PM CST Passion in a Relationship..
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Sooner or later, the "honeymoon" ends...uh oh
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