Is it just me ( Archived) (50)

Feb 23, 2010 12:02 PM CST Is it just me
elsson
elssonelssonLondon, Greater London, England UK24 Threads 1,864 Posts
Does anyone find it frustrating when OPs post a question and leave us to it without coming back to their own thread to give an opinion????
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Feb 23, 2010 12:05 PM CST Is it just me
pyr1mid
pyr1midpyr1midexeter, Devon, England UK1 Threads 74 Posts
elsson: Does anyone find it frustrating when OPs post a question and leave us to it without coming back to their own thread to give an opinion????


I reckon that most of the time they've given their opinion by the way the question is phrased or the tone they've taken
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Feb 23, 2010 12:07 PM CST Is it just me
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
Yes...I think that if you're going to post a thread you should stick around and "work it"
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Feb 23, 2010 12:09 PM CST Is it just me
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
elsson: Does anyone find it frustrating when OPs post a question and leave us to it without coming back to their own thread to give an opinion????


doesn't bother me if people take it and run with it, and make interesting points about the subject.

it does bother me, though, if you ask the op a direct question to clarify whatever they are describing/asking,
and they don't respond
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Feb 23, 2010 12:13 PM CST Is it just me
elsson
elssonelssonLondon, Greater London, England UK24 Threads 1,864 Posts
pyr1mid: I reckon that most of the time they've given their opinion by the way the question is phrased or the tone they've taken


Maybe but nice to respond if challenged on their opinions like the rest of us left to debate. I know also time differences plays it part but known as seeing OPs having no more input from the original question, especially the more inane threads.
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Feb 23, 2010 12:18 PM CST Is it just me
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,516 Posts
elsson: Does anyone find it frustrating when OPs post a question and leave us to it without coming back to their own thread to give an opinion????
Ohhhhhhhhhhhh Yeahhhhhhhhh!This is a real bone of contention for me, too! Or ones who ask your opinion or advice and then crap all over you for giving it. Nards to those boogers!thumbs down
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Feb 23, 2010 12:18 PM CST Is it just me
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
elsson: Maybe but nice to respond if challenged on their opinions like the rest of us left to debate. I know also time differences plays it part but known as seeing OPs having no more input from the original question, especially the more inane threads.
You are right mate, but, a few just post and leave the rest of us to sort out the mess.cheers
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Feb 23, 2010 12:18 PM CST Is it just me
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
Entirely up to the OP of the thread whether they participate or not. There are no rules in cyberworld to say they got to come back and justify what they have or have not answered, or even obliged to do so. Most reasonable people will do if they are truly interested in the thread they created. Some people create threads just to simply see what other people have to say.

If they dont post perhaps email them asking why they have not responded or posted on the thread created.
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Feb 23, 2010 12:19 PM CST Is it just me
elsson
elssonelssonLondon, Greater London, England UK24 Threads 1,864 Posts
patmac: You are right mate, but, a few just post and leave the rest of us to sort out the mess.


Yes can be frustrating at times as their agenda is hiddencheers
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Feb 23, 2010 12:19 PM CST Is it just me
pyr1mid
pyr1midpyr1midexeter, Devon, England UK1 Threads 74 Posts
elsson: Maybe but nice to respond if challenged on their opinions like the rest of us left to debate. I know also time differences plays it part but known as seeing OPs having no more input from the original question, especially the more inane threads.


Fair point, but I quite like how the inane ones seem to run and run, and often are nothing to do with whatever the original question was
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Feb 23, 2010 12:21 PM CST Is it just me
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus3 Threads 1,555 Posts
In response to: Does anyone find it frustrating when OPs post a question and leave us to it without coming back to their own thread to give an opinion????


yep i agree its annoying-and maybe a tad disrespectful-like asking a question then leaving the room while your still answering.
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Feb 23, 2010 12:21 PM CST Is it just me
elsson: Maybe but nice to respond if challenged on their opinions like the rest of us left to debate. I know also time differences plays it part but known as seeing OPs having no more input from the original question, especially the more inane threads.
Those with the Inane Tbreads are the Windup Artists.
They sit back and watch what develops!uh oh
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Feb 23, 2010 12:22 PM CST Is it just me
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
elsson: Does anyone find it frustrating when OPs post a question and leave us to it without coming back to their own thread to give an opinion????


Its just you... and a few ho find it frustrating talking to them self ...uh oh
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Feb 23, 2010 12:23 PM CST Is it just me
Liebe2
Liebe2Liebe2Salmiya, Hawalli Kuwait12 Threads 3,449 Posts
elsson: Maybe but nice to respond if challenged on their opinions like the rest of us left to debate. I know also time differences plays it part but known as seeing OPs having no more input from the original question, especially the more inane threads.

Hehehe. As I could see, most of them were newcomers, scammers or just couldn't handle all the chaos they had caused with their threads. That's the fun then-hijacking the thread devil
banana rolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 23, 2010 12:24 PM CST Is it just me
Veritaas
VeritaasVeritaasLondon, Greater London, England UK2 Threads 5,839 Posts
Interesting when a thread goes completely off topic and people get into personal battles which I find are just ridiculous. Rather than than actually talk with reason and share knowledge, these people seem to like to try and out do one another in terms of what they know.
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Feb 23, 2010 12:25 PM CST Is it just me
In response to: Does anyone find it frustrating when OPs post a question and leave us to it without coming back to their own thread to give an opinion????




I don't recall anything in the rules that state that the OP of a thread has to keep it going.

No I don't find it frustrating.I've got a lot more important things in my life to worry about then whether someone chooses to keep their thread going.
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Feb 23, 2010 12:32 PM CST Is it just me
elsson
elssonelssonLondon, Greater London, England UK24 Threads 1,864 Posts
somechick: I don't recall anything in the rules that state that the OP of a thread has to keep it going.

No I don't find it frustrating.I've got a lot more important things in my life to worry about then whether someone chooses to keep their thread going.


Not questioning the rules, gosh if we did that we could rip apart mant posts and threads I just said I found it frustrating answering a question and the poster never gets back to the thread.
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Feb 23, 2010 12:35 PM CST Is it just me
rohaan
rohaanrohaanCoos Bay, Oregon USA229 Threads 10,516 Posts
somechick: I don't recall anything in the rules that state that the OP of a thread has to keep it going.

No I don't find it frustrating.I've got a lot more important things in my life to worry about then whether someone chooses to keep their thread going.
Hi there Somechick--was a little surprised at your take on this, but do respect your point of view. To me, it's a matter of courtesy, I guess. If someone begins a thread either in the form of a question or a statement which implies other responses, and then doesn't continue to participate, it leaves the rest wondering why he/she posted in the first place. Probably what is going on is this person is dancing around a lot of the different topic/threads/posts and gets more interested in one or the other. You are right that it's not worth getting "frustrated" over--this I totally agree with. (What are you going to do about it, anyhow)? So I validate your response completely with the side comment that the poster(s) in question are discourteous. Fair enough? rose
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Feb 23, 2010 12:35 PM CST Is it just me
elsson: Not questioning the rules, gosh if we did that we could rip apart mant posts and threads I just said I found it frustrating answering a question and the poster never gets back to the thread.



Didn't say you were questioning the rules.

Maybe you should try hog tying the OP next time.laugh
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Feb 23, 2010 12:37 PM CST Is it just me
Iseult_1
Iseult_1Iseult_1Baile Atha Claith, Dublin Ireland3 Threads 1 Polls 325 Posts
somechick: I don't recall anything in the rules that state that the OP of a thread has to keep it going.

No I don't find it frustrating.I've got a lot more important things in my life to worry about then whether someone chooses to keep their thread going.


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