why do guys say one thing and do another? (60)
lukin4luv2: Is it me ? Or am I one off many women who find this.
I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are .
Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are .
Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
And yet they acuse US of being complicated...
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lukin4luv2: Is it me ? Or am I one off many women who find this.
I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are .
Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are .
Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
Sounds like the men you meet do want mothering, or maybe they are still little boys themselves...
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lukin4luv2: Is it me ? Or am I one off many women who find this.
I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are .
Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are .
Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
Giving them too much seems to be a death sentence. I don't know if it's the whole 'conquering' thing... I think there's a part of men that really does like to do the chasing. If we're too available, the chase is lost and they lose interest. Maybe the trick is balance: don't give more than they do. If you're a natural nurturer, find something else to 'give' to, like volunteer work or something. Keeps you busy, and them guessing...
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Because we can!
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In knowones deffence, though in my experience, women tend to say onething and mean something completely different. I think it is really our cultural break down, meaning "we", as a society, don't know how to figure out what we really want, and we don't know how to express that... Maybe "we" know how bad it would sound, so we cany coat it, lieing through our teeth, prolonging the inevitable. Trust me when I say that the women on these sites, I speak of the majorities, lie just as well as I hear the guys do... after all you wemen learned from the best..
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< When i say something i do generally mean it unlike many others. I see myself as being very blunt and honest which may or may not be a good thing.
I can't stand it when people say one thing then flip flop to something else. Keeping your word is important.
I can't stand it when people say one thing then flip flop to something else. Keeping your word is important.
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lukin4luv2: Is it me ? Or am I one off many women who find this.
I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are .
Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are .
Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
I could not agree with you more, most of the guys are like that . . .
My advice:
If he is over 23 and still living at home, and he could get his but out of the house, living on his own . . . HE NEEDS A MOTHER . . . . not a girlfriend, the older the guy is, worst it is . . . Mama's boys with Oedipus complexes in need of a titties at their thirties, those guys make me . . .
Men are in general . . . ARSES Most of them anyway.
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lukin4luv2: Is it me ? Or am I one off many women who find this.
I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are .
Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are .
Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
I have always been a straight forward honest guy. Unfortunately women prey on guys like me so I have had to learn to keep my defences up. Not trust as easyly and if something looks too good there is a catch somewhere. I know some guys play games and I dont understand that ether but it is the guys who are jerks and game players who get all the girls while the nice guys always finins last. If you are tired of guys playing games then try dating a nice guy, you will make his day and you will probably find someone with a deeper heart than you ever thought possible. Then you can crush him just like all the other girls have done.
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Big_John: Because we can!
yes.... thats right
now lukin, be you...what do you want?.
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Because we like you, but then you say stuff like this...
and we realize you don't like us.
lukin4luv2: the more you do for them the worse off you are . Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
and we realize you don't like us.
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men....can't live with them and they don't have any resale value...
but...
I love 'em anyway
but...
I love 'em anyway
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Zuleika: I agree with this post. It amazes me how gullible women can be, and not just young women. It isn't a matter of being cynical or bitter, it is a matter of having some common sense and awareness of the world around you. Actions speak volumes, words can be very empty. All the romantic love talk in the world, all the flattery means nothing compared to actions. You can tell who a good man is and one who is into you by what he does, not by what he says. as mjames says: LOVE IS IN ACTIONS, NOT IN WORDS.
AGREE WITH YOU..
but why still we woman sometimes do believe in them 
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MeryChen: AGREE WITH YOU.. but why still we woman sometimes do believe in them
As I said you ladies are just looking at the wrong guys. You ladies seem to chase after the jerks and game players and us nice guys sit at home alone night after night. It is your own fault, try going after one of the good guys for a change. I dont understand why ladies always complain about there jerk guys but the nice guys always finish last and are always alone.
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scoutmaster: As I said you ladies are just looking at the wrong guys. You ladies seem to chase after the jerks and game players and us nice guys sit at home alone night after night. It is your own fault, try going after one of the good guys for a change. I dont understand why ladies always complain about there jerk guys but the nice guys always finish last and are always alone.
because we never know that he is a jerk at the first time..
as a guy, you must know that guys always good in acting and lie?
can you name one good guy? good guy usually change become jerk when they get a nice woman... just my opinion
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lukin4luv2: Is it me ? Or am I one off many women who find this.
I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are .
Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are .
Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
Because they haven't learned yet that in life..if you talk the talk..you have to walk the walk...or people lose trust in you...fast.
Talk is cheap...
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Why do guys say one thing and do another?
Blimey, its just cos they get very distracted by the smallest of things,,, their focus changes to their whim
They just cant remember what they are supposed to be doing.. but the memory is clear as a bell when it comes to boy toys stuff like golf, fishing and cars etc.
As for mothering.. OH my, I just dont want to go there !!!
Blimey, its just cos they get very distracted by the smallest of things,,, their focus changes to their whim
They just cant remember what they are supposed to be doing.. but the memory is clear as a bell when it comes to boy toys stuff like golf, fishing and cars etc.
As for mothering.. OH my, I just dont want to go there !!!
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lukin4luv2: Is it me ? Or am I one off many women who find this.
I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are .
Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are .
Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
I could ask the same question about women . . .
In the end, it has nothing to do with gender, but with what the character of a person, I think here men and women are actually equals, mostly both genders are full of it . . .
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I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are .
Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.