54xmax: I could not agree with you more, most of the guys are like that . . . My advice: If he is over 23 and still living at home, and he could get his but out of the house, living on his own . . . HE NEEDS A MOTHER . . . . not a girlfriend, the older the guy is, worst it is . . . Mama's boys with Oedipus complexes in need of a titties at their thirties, those guys make me . . .
Men are in general . . . ARSES Most of them anyway.
All depends on the person. We draw people to us and sometimes draw those who we are trying to avoid. I am sure there's some book or movie or talk show that's discussed this before.
But human nature, if you can get away with something will we, or at least try to.
lukin4luv2: Is it me ? Or am I one off many women who find this. I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are . Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
Because they are idiots; too immature; not sure of what they want; game players? Hell take your pick and I am sure one of these catergories will fit.
navygirl1: Because they are idiots; too immature; not sure of what they want; game players? Hell take your pick and I am sure one of these catergories will fit.
Oh and before I offend someone this not directed at all men; just the ones that play this game. Cheers.
men ...you just have to take them the way they are..if you wanna change them ..forget it..it ain t happening...just like you re not gonna change..the man you re with .,.you are with him because of the way he is right..and men ..the work hard play hard but when it comes down to the nitty gritty they are soft and just wanna be cuddled ....ok if I am wrong here blame it on the Baileys lol
In response to: Is it me ? Or am I one off many women who find this...I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
lukin4luv2: Is it me ? Or am I one off many women who find this. I find they tell you they want to be with you but when it comes round to it the more you do for them the worse off you are . Also why do they seem to want mothering more than anything and take everything for granted.
Wow your dating the wrong men, I appreciate a good woman.
navygirl1: Because they are idiots; too immature; not sure of what they want; game players? Hell take your pick and I am sure one of these catergories will fit.
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
Well honey don't ya know boys never grow up!!! They love their mamas who did everything for them as a child. And yes they all love a bit of mothering, especially when they have a cold!
welcome to my world girl,jus got outa same situation,taken totally for granted,not respected,even though told i was?.ya..u walk out,they want you back,telling u hell b broken,u take him back,nothin changes,u feel a fool,yet again!!!! yes they ar all babies who want you to make things better for them,who cares what u ar goin through...al me me me me... good luck ok but i have given up on a ggod one out ther,jus 1 is all i want......
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My advice:
If he is over 23 and still living at home, and he could get his but out of the house, living on his own . . . HE NEEDS A MOTHER . . . . not a girlfriend, the older the guy is, worst it is . . . Mama's boys with Oedipus complexes in need of a titties at their thirties, those guys make me . . .
Men are in general . . . ARSES Most of them anyway.
or Brown Noser....both works in your case.