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Apr 17, 2010 10:17 AM CST am I missing something??
Life is drama. I have chosen to make it a comedy drama. Laughing and crying and laughing again.
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Apr 17, 2010 10:22 AM CST am I missing something??
Big_John
Big_JohnBig_JohnOcean Springs, Mississippi USA19 Threads 9,767 Posts
Leaving my drama at the door wouldn't work for me. I fully expect to share my ups-and-downs with the lady I love. When I come home I want both the good and bad to be expressed. Drama is not all bad. It just means we are human and experience things and respond to them with our real emotions.

I agree I wouldn't want to be with a "drame queen" as we all define them. But, normal expressions of temporary insane situations is good for the soul.
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Apr 17, 2010 10:25 AM CST am I missing something??
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
Big_John: Leaving my drama at the door wouldn't work for me. I fully expect to share my ups-and-downs with the lady I love. When I come home I want both the good and bad to be expressed. Drama is not all bad. It just means we are human and experience things and respond to them with our real emotions.

I agree I wouldn't want to be with a "drame queen" as we all define them. But, normal expressions of temporary insane situations is good for the soul.



I'm sure it's called a level of normality in a relationship.....up's and down's....good time and not so good times...
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Apr 17, 2010 10:27 AM CST am I missing something??
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA67 Threads 10 Polls 8,881 Posts
Big_John: Leaving my drama at the door wouldn't work for me. I fully expect to share my ups-and-downs with the lady I love. When I come home I want both the good and bad to be expressed. Drama is not all bad. It just means we are human and experience things and respond to them with our real emotions.

I agree I wouldn't want to be with a "drame queen" as we all define them. But, normal expressions of temporary insane situations is good for the soul.


thumbs up head banger
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Apr 17, 2010 10:28 AM CST am I missing something??
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
I made myself drama free. I decided small problems are not worth getting worked up over. I try to be laid back as much as I can.

I guess trying to be drama free with a partner starts with yourself and the attitude you bring to the table.dancing
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Apr 17, 2010 11:22 AM CST am I missing something??
cgedvr
cgedvrcgedvrSo. Cal, California USA40 Threads 2,088 Posts
stefonline: Can you say all that in lay mans terms Ambrose please...
Geeze Stef..."lay mans"....can you get your mind outta the gutter for once....lol...yay
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Apr 17, 2010 6:48 PM CST am I missing something??
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
Drama
a composition in verse or prose intended to portray life or character or to tell a story usually involving conflicts and emotions through action and dialogue and typically designed for theatrical performance
2. dramatic art, literature, or affairs

3 a. a state, situation, or series of events involving interesting or intense conflict(nope don't like intense conflict) of forces,dramatic state, effect, or quality - the ~ of the courtroom proceedings
drama queen
Function: noun
Date: 1979
Results
1979a person given to often excessively emotional performances or reactions
uh oh dunno
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Apr 18, 2010 3:27 AM CST am I missing something??
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
Happygolucky4u: Drama
a composition in verse or prose intended to portray life or character or to tell a story usually involving conflicts and emotions through action and dialogue and typically designed for theatrical performance
2. dramatic art, literature, or affairs

3 a. a state, situation, or series of events involving interesting or intense conflict(nope don't like intense conflict) of forces,dramatic state, effect, or quality - the ~ of the courtroom proceedings
drama queen
Function: noun
Date: 1979
Results
1979a person given to often excessively emotional performances or reactions



Bingo Happy!! thumbs up

"CONFLICT" drama is what my post was trying to express (hahaha!!trying lol)... conversing


Yes... the way we respond or react to one another... on any given day be it in good or in bad?? without conflict... to much to ask anyone to practise expression without expressing conflict??

I believe in win/win... conflict only arises when two people express in a win/lose state of mind and heart to express opinions and TA DA!!... you have instant conflict frustrated thumbs down

So involving conflicts and emotions through action and dialogue is not my ideal way of getting to know one... I'm interested in meeting men who don't use conflict/control dramas to express who and what they r about... am I making any sense?... conversing help and is this asking something that we as a species haven't evolved to on a conscious level consistently yet?... dunno

I must admit I practise not using intimidation, interrogation, aloofness and poor/me in my actions 100% of the time on a daily basis regardless if I'm getting to know you or not... but don't seem to encounter many men who r conscious on this level and if I do they live to far away hahaha!!!...

Would like to see control dramas never used so I may meet my equal... it is also said that consciousness never goes backwards... my way of putting it out there grin cool


thanks for sharing teddybear
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Apr 18, 2010 4:16 AM CST am I missing something??
mariespoodles
mariespoodlesmariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Posts
mbcasey: I made myself drama free. I decided small problems are not worth getting worked up over. I try to be laid back as much as I can.

I guess trying to be drama free with a partner starts with yourself and the attitude you bring to the table.


teddybear awwwwww!! a man after my own heart wings heart heart beating... kisses to you from all the way over here mb and what r u doing for lunch? hahaha!! lips lips bouquet
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Apr 18, 2010 7:45 AM CST am I missing something??
Happygolucky4u
Happygolucky4uHappygolucky4uTreasure Coast, Florida USA25 Threads 4 Polls 6,241 Posts
mariespoodles: Bingo Happy!!

"CONFLICT" drama is what my post was trying to express (hahaha!!trying lol)...


Yes... the way we respond or react to one another... on any given day be it in good or in bad?? without conflict... to much to ask anyone to practise expression without expressing conflict??

I believe in win/win... conflict only arises when two people express in a win/lose state of mind and heart to express opinions and TA DA!!... you have instant conflict

So involving conflicts and emotions through action and dialogue is not my ideal way of getting to know one... I'm interested in meeting men who don't use conflict/control dramas to express who and what they r about... am I making any sense?... and is this asking something that we as a species haven't evolved to on a conscious level consistently yet?...

I must admit I practise not using intimidation, interrogation, aloofness and poor/me in my actions 100% of the time on a daily basis regardless if I'm getting to know you or not... but don't seem to encounter many men who r conscious on this level and if I do they live to far away hahaha!!!...

Would like to see control dramas never used so I may meet my equal... it is also said that consciousness never goes backwards... my way of putting it out there thanks for sharing


There are some really good men out there. Just run like he!! When you spot the drama queen. I actually have a low tolerance level for that in anyone. I am a very realistic person so I don't panic often. cheers
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