is love actually real (59)
heartwarmer888sydney, New South Wales Australia4 Threads 17 Postsi have wondered about the nature of love and when a man and woman fall in love is it something more than just a physical bonding ,and mass release of chemicals and hormones designed by nature to pair people up??How can one tell between falling in love and falling in lust??or infatuation?? it may sound a dumb thing to ask but i would really like another opinion on this as im not sure
Hi heartwarmerGood question
I think probably only time will tell as far as the lust/love thing .. I would think that there needs to be a physical attraction to someone for starters
lust probably begins and ends there.But as for love, I guess there needs to be some of that, plus (a big plus) common interests, philosophies and care for each other's well-being and happiness.
Martia: Ok ........ Dawgy you can flop it on the table! get your camera out and take a pic you know you have been dying to show us.You pop it in every chance you get.
Gee very wide feet you have there you should start competetive swimming.
Gee very wide feet you have there you should start competetive swimming.
There you go Martia..
Twodawgz: There you go Martia..
I was convinced a couple of months back that for males it was all about lust!but I was wrong .... it took one wonderful man to prove it to me, it has restored my faith in human nature.
And yes there is true love and I will do everything I can to nurture it,its out there just got to find it.Took me two yrs the odds are about 50 to 1! well they were for me.
Dont give up.
And yes there is true love and I will do everything I can to nurture it,its out there just got to find it.Took me two yrs the odds are about 50 to 1! well they were for me.
Dont give up.
Twodawgz: There you go Martia..
At least SOMEONE was paying attention, pup
Twodawgz: There you go Martia..
For Me! oh gee I feel honoured
everyone I will return Dawgz tomorrow.
Martia: For Me! oh gee I feel honoured everyone I will return Dawgz tomorrow.
mariespoodles: Sounds like a neat plan Blizz!! Go get her tiger!!
Hope he doesn't myth the markDo you remember the days you couldn’t sleep and then those days you couldn’t weep cos there was no one around to cheer you up when you were lonely.
Do you remember those whispers of nothings in your ears, they were enough to subside those fears, then left you with a smile that will cheer you up whenever you are lonely.
If the last thing you remember was her kiss and not the lust and the bliss Then smile cos you know you are there.
Smile
Do you remember those whispers of nothings in your ears, they were enough to subside those fears, then left you with a smile that will cheer you up whenever you are lonely.
If the last thing you remember was her kiss and not the lust and the bliss Then smile cos you know you are there.
Smile
lust is Instant
Love takes time
both are great
I seriously believe the road to love starts with lust
I could neva love a dud lover
so lust away my lovlies
Love takes time
both are great
I seriously believe the road to love starts with lust
I could neva love a dud lover
so lust away my lovlies
EliteOne: Do you remember the days you couldn’t sleep and then those days you couldn’t weep cos there was no one around to cheer you up when you were lonely.
Do you remember those whispers of nothings in your ears, they were enough to subside those fears, then left you with a smile that will cheer you up whenever you are lonely.
If the last thing you remember was her kiss and not the lust and the bliss Then smile cos you know you are there.
Smile
Do you remember those whispers of nothings in your ears, they were enough to subside those fears, then left you with a smile that will cheer you up whenever you are lonely.
If the last thing you remember was her kiss and not the lust and the bliss Then smile cos you know you are there.
Smile
Awww you're such a romantic elite
Come 'ere, I wanna give you something
serene56: Awww you're such a romantic elite
Come 'ere, I wanna give you something
Come 'ere, I wanna give you something
You are too much serene 
heartwarmer888: i have wondered about the nature of love and when a man and woman fall in love is it something more than just a physical bonding ,and mass release of chemicals and hormones designed by nature to pair people up??How can one tell between falling in love and falling in lust??or infatuation?? it may sound a dumb thing to ask but i would really like another opinion on this as im not sure
Hey heart
Top question 
I believe love is an attitude... how we share our attitude with the other person is what creates the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual level of connection...
lust, falling in love, infatuation would all come from these attitudes shared and if the attitudes really match on all accounts (meeting of the body, mind and heart) then I believe real love will exist too!!
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[but i would really like another opinion on this as im not sure]un quote:
Any closer to having an opinion on this neat topic you created heart??
Love is real.
bjsss: Love is real.
hey bj
It sure is!! we'd all be burning in hell right now if it wasn't!! 
Love makes the world go round, and has many shapes and forms, it may be overrated, it does need work, but if it needs too much work then thats not true love because when you truly love someone u accept them warts and all and still love them!!.
In the bible one of the most common readings at weddings is from Corinthians and it says ""Love never fails"" I love those three words and I choose to believe them.
People can be flippant and jaded and I dont give a damn about them. Its a very personal thing indeed. but where would we be without it??
One of my fave movies is Love Actually. All those little stories reflect people. Its not soft or stupid to believe in love. I just know that it does exist and its worth it and without love life is much harder that it needs to be.
The most important thing I have learned I think is that if you dont love yourself, you will never attract the right people into your life and self love isnt egotistical, its essential. I think love should start there and then the world is your oyster.
In the bible one of the most common readings at weddings is from Corinthians and it says ""Love never fails"" I love those three words and I choose to believe them.
People can be flippant and jaded and I dont give a damn about them. Its a very personal thing indeed. but where would we be without it??
One of my fave movies is Love Actually. All those little stories reflect people. Its not soft or stupid to believe in love. I just know that it does exist and its worth it and without love life is much harder that it needs to be.
The most important thing I have learned I think is that if you dont love yourself, you will never attract the right people into your life and self love isnt egotistical, its essential. I think love should start there and then the world is your oyster.
redgemfem: Love makes the world go round, and has many shapes and forms, it may be overrated, it does need work, but if it needs too much work then thats not true love because when you truly love someone u accept them warts and all and still love them!!.
In the bible one of the most common readings at weddings is from Corinthians and it says ""Love never fails"" I love those three words and I choose to believe them.
People can be flippant and jaded and I dont give a damn about them. Its a very personal thing indeed. but where would we be without it??
One of my fave movies is Love Actually. All those little stories reflect people. Its not soft or stupid to believe in love. I just know that it does exist and its worth it and without love life is much harder that it needs to be.
The most important thing I have learned I think is that if you dont love yourself, you will never attract the right people into your life and self love isnt egotistical, its essential. I think love should start there and then the world is your oyster.
In the bible one of the most common readings at weddings is from Corinthians and it says ""Love never fails"" I love those three words and I choose to believe them.
People can be flippant and jaded and I dont give a damn about them. Its a very personal thing indeed. but where would we be without it??
One of my fave movies is Love Actually. All those little stories reflect people. Its not soft or stupid to believe in love. I just know that it does exist and its worth it and without love life is much harder that it needs to be.
The most important thing I have learned I think is that if you dont love yourself, you will never attract the right people into your life and self love isnt egotistical, its essential. I think love should start there and then the world is your oyster.
Jokes aside.......Love conquers all.
redgemfem: Love makes the world go round, and has many shapes and forms, it may be overrated, it does need work, but if it needs too much work then thats not true love because when you truly love someone u accept them warts and all and still love them!!.
In the bible one of the most common readings at weddings is from Corinthians and it says ""Love never fails"" I love those three words and I choose to believe them.
People can be flippant and jaded and I dont give a damn about them. Its a very personal thing indeed. but where would we be without it??
One of my fave movies is Love Actually. All those little stories reflect people. Its not soft or stupid to believe in love. I just know that it does exist and its worth it and without love life is much harder that it needs to be.
The most important thing I have learned I think is that if you dont love yourself, you will never attract the right people into your life and self love isnt egotistical, its essential. I think love should start there and then the world is your oyster.
In the bible one of the most common readings at weddings is from Corinthians and it says ""Love never fails"" I love those three words and I choose to believe them.
People can be flippant and jaded and I dont give a damn about them. Its a very personal thing indeed. but where would we be without it??
One of my fave movies is Love Actually. All those little stories reflect people. Its not soft or stupid to believe in love. I just know that it does exist and its worth it and without love life is much harder that it needs to be.
The most important thing I have learned I think is that if you dont love yourself, you will never attract the right people into your life and self love isnt egotistical, its essential. I think love should start there and then the world is your oyster.
Hey redgemfem
You've got it girlfriend!! Very wise words sweetie
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