is love actually real (59)
mariespoodlesSydney, New South Wales Australia25 Threads 1,648 Postsserene56: Hope he doesn't myth the mark
bjsss: Love is real.
Lurve is unreal
Shell225: Lurve is unreal
Gotta Lurve "LOVE"
Hey there Shell
I love kebabs, does that count as 'true love'???
The problem with love is that its surrounded by so such mythology. We are raised on this Mythology. And the first time around we fall encompassing this mythology.
Whether we do this knowingly or unknowingly is in the hands of the individual. But when it crashes around our ears its not only the "NOW" that is broken but its all those dreams and myths that we filed away in our subconscious that are destroyed, meaning part of our childhood destroyed. And depending on how the individual lived by those subconscious dreams will increase that hurt.
Yes love is real. But love boesn't come with all those bells and whistles. Love probably doesn't happen like it does in the movies. That slow motion action doesn't happen when you meet under the realisation that this is real. Love exists but it is more like Hello you said. And i know this from experience.
Whether we do this knowingly or unknowingly is in the hands of the individual. But when it crashes around our ears its not only the "NOW" that is broken but its all those dreams and myths that we filed away in our subconscious that are destroyed, meaning part of our childhood destroyed. And depending on how the individual lived by those subconscious dreams will increase that hurt.
Yes love is real. But love boesn't come with all those bells and whistles. Love probably doesn't happen like it does in the movies. That slow motion action doesn't happen when you meet under the realisation that this is real. Love exists but it is more like Hello you said. And i know this from experience.
I love kebabs, does that count as 'true love'???[/quote ]
Love hurts but I don't think indigestion counts as mental pain.
Love hurts but I don't think indigestion counts as mental pain.
yea thanks Maries poodles,
i have a better understanding ,so its the connection on all levels ,that makes sense ,and i guess that it requires commitment and giving of ones self to the other person or the desire to do so.
life has many wonderful aspects i must try hard to stay tapped into it.
i have a better understanding ,so its the connection on all levels ,that makes sense ,and i guess that it requires commitment and giving of ones self to the other person or the desire to do so.
life has many wonderful aspects i must try hard to stay tapped into it.
thanks dragondog4 for your good post ,somedeep thought in there.
and something tangible to ponder over
and something tangible to ponder over
So many of us get disillusioned and disappointed with love, this is only because we have not found true love. I think love is the most valuable gift we can give to each other.
What is love hmmm? Love means to realize that we are one with life and one with each other.It is so hard to find but if one does its pure magic. Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction. I think real love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked or run as this is just lust and will not last and that’s where most of us get disillusioned and disappointed . So I say don’t seek it, love will find its way one day. If we are true to ourselves but we must first love ourselves and only then can we be open to love others.
What is love hmmm? Love means to realize that we are one with life and one with each other.It is so hard to find but if one does its pure magic. Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction. I think real love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked or run as this is just lust and will not last and that’s where most of us get disillusioned and disappointed . So I say don’t seek it, love will find its way one day. If we are true to ourselves but we must first love ourselves and only then can we be open to love others.
Beuatifully said Elite ....
Tell me again why yr single?
Tell me again why yr single?
kizzy27: Beuatifully Beautifully said Elite ....
Tell me again why yr single?
Tell me again why yr single?
kizzy27: Beautifully said Elite ....
Tell me again why yr single?
Tell me again why yr single?
Because He is too damned PERNICKITY and Stubbon.
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EliteOne: So many of us get disillusioned and disappointed with love, this is only because we have not found true love. I think love is the most valuable gift we can give to each other.
What is love hmmm? Love means to realize that we are one with life and one with each other.It is so hard to find but if one does its pure magic. Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction. I think real love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked or run as this is just lust and will not last and that’s where most of us get disillusioned and disappointed . So I say don’t seek it, love will find its way one day. If we are true to ourselves but we must first love ourselves and only then can we be open to love others.
What is love hmmm? Love means to realize that we are one with life and one with each other.It is so hard to find but if one does its pure magic. Love does not consist in gazing at each other, but in looking outward together in the same direction. I think real love comes quietly, without banners or flashing lights. If you hear bells, get your ears checked or run as this is just lust and will not last and that’s where most of us get disillusioned and disappointed . So I say don’t seek it, love will find its way one day. If we are true to ourselves but we must first love ourselves and only then can we be open to love others.
In other words. Just give up !!!
But well putIn my case love came slowly... my man called me every day before we met I was not amused! not used to that.But he persevered and I agreed to meet him.
My dogs loved him on sight and Tiddles the cat a very shy girl was all over him.Hmmmm stopped me in my tracks and took notice.Well Ladies I do not know what you are looking for.. but I wanted someone who is funny, loving, gentle, knowledgeable and kind which he is.
Love is about respect, feeling good when he is near,always ready to have a cuddle,a best friend and lover who thinks I am beautiful no matter what time of the day it is, never me me me.... always us.
We have the same dreams we think the same have the same values, vote the same,only one thing but I can deal with it... he is not an Elvis fan!nobody is perfect Oh and a dash of lust to finish the mix.
You might think I am a bit odd taking notice of my animals as judges but they have never been wrong as yet, sixth sense they call it.
Honesty no matter what must be there from the start!! without it there is nothing.
My dogs loved him on sight and Tiddles the cat a very shy girl was all over him.Hmmmm stopped me in my tracks and took notice.Well Ladies I do not know what you are looking for.. but I wanted someone who is funny, loving, gentle, knowledgeable and kind which he is.
Love is about respect, feeling good when he is near,always ready to have a cuddle,a best friend and lover who thinks I am beautiful no matter what time of the day it is, never me me me.... always us.
We have the same dreams we think the same have the same values, vote the same,only one thing but I can deal with it... he is not an Elvis fan!nobody is perfect
Oh and a dash of lust to finish the mix. You might think I am a bit odd taking notice of my animals as judges but they have never been wrong as yet, sixth sense they call it.
Honesty no matter what must be there from the start!! without it there is nothing.
Martia: In my case love came slowly... my man called me every day before we met I was not amused! not used to that.But he persevered and I agreed to meet him.
My dogs loved him on sight and Tiddles the cat a very shy girl was all over him.Hmmmm stopped me in my tracks and took notice.Well Ladies I do not know what you are looking for.. but I wanted someone who is funny, loving, gentle, knowledgeable and kind which he is.
Love is about respect, feeling good when he is near,always ready to have a cuddle,a best friend and lover who thinks I am beautiful no matter what time of the day it is, never me me me.... always us.
We have the same dreams we think the same have the same values, vote the same,only one thing but I can deal with it... he is not an Elvis fan!nobody is perfect Oh and a dash of lust to finish the mix.
You might think I am a bit odd taking notice of my animals as judges but they have never been wrong as yet, sixth sense they call it.
Honesty no matter what must be there from the start!! without it there is nothing.
My dogs loved him on sight and Tiddles the cat a very shy girl was all over him.Hmmmm stopped me in my tracks and took notice.Well Ladies I do not know what you are looking for.. but I wanted someone who is funny, loving, gentle, knowledgeable and kind which he is.
Love is about respect, feeling good when he is near,always ready to have a cuddle,a best friend and lover who thinks I am beautiful no matter what time of the day it is, never me me me.... always us.
We have the same dreams we think the same have the same values, vote the same,only one thing but I can deal with it... he is not an Elvis fan!nobody is perfect Oh and a dash of lust to finish the mix.
You might think I am a bit odd taking notice of my animals as judges but they have never been wrong as yet, sixth sense they call it.
Honesty no matter what must be there from the start!! without it there is nothing.
Martia you are an inspiration
kizzy27: Beautifully said Elite ....
Tell me again why yr single?
Tell me again why yr single?
Look at this face the years are showing.
love that song.
Martia: Because He is too damned PERNICKITY and Stubbon. .
Martia I know what that word means… You just know what to say to me!
By the way I love your post about your new found friendship and perhaps love.
Damianowen: In other words. Just give up !!! But well put
You are not the first to tell me that and I have no idea how you got all that from my post? You are right of course and I’m going to start today to change my ways.
kizzy27: Beuatifully said Elite ....
Tell me again why yr single?
Tell me again why yr single?
I thinks its cause he runs away
EliteOne: Look at this face the years are showing.
love that song.
Martia I know what that word means… You just know what to say to me!
By the way I love your post about your new found friendship and perhaps love. You are not the first to tell me that and I have no idea how you got all that from my post? You are right of course and I’m going to start today to change my ways.
love that song.
Martia I know what that word means… You just know what to say to me!
By the way I love your post about your new found friendship and perhaps love. You are not the first to tell me that and I have no idea how you got all that from my post? You are right of course and I’m going to start today to change my ways.
Oh My Gawd, your not looking back over your shoulder to see who might be waiting in the wings are you?
I bet your life will never be dull, colourless or boring again
Shell225: Oh My Gawd, your not looking back over your shoulder to see who might be waiting in the wings are you?
I bet your life will never be dull, colourless or boring again
Ive been living my life way to long in Pleasantville its time to add bit of colour. I bet your life will never be dull, colourless or boring again
EliteOne: Ive been living my life way to long in Pleasantville its time to add bit of colour.
Where's Pleasantville .. outer suburbs of Brissy is it
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