GingerBe: I have never been in love, but I have loved many people dearly. I know that what I felt was love, because I would sacrifice my happiness for theirs.
I made the ultimate sacrifice for one very special man many years ago. He followed me over half the world for a couple of years, and I never once even considered taking the heart he so freely offered, (even though my heart ached to be with him), because it would not have been the right thing to do.
He went on to do great things and I never regretted my decision.
JAN_is: I´ve only ever truly loved one man. I can´t explain in simple terms how I knew, just that I´ve never experienced the same feelings since, and doubt I ever will.
JAN_is: I´ve only ever truly loved one man. I can´t explain in simple terms how I knew, just that I´ve never experienced the same feelings since, and doubt I ever will.
I was married and knew my wife for forty years. It took me a while to truly understand the level of my love for her, but I know it was as good as it gets. She taught me how to be a man and how to love a lady.
Big_John: I was married and knew my wife for forty years. It took me a while to truly understand the level of my love for her, but I know it was as good as it gets. She taught me how to be a man and how to love a lady.
angel82: more than once yes.. and will again. loving somebody is a steping stone towards a greater love, no matter how hurt you get ye can always get back up again and give it another go.
OMG soooo trueeeeeeeeeeee I've been in love 3 times.... I would love to fall in love again awwwwwwwwwwww
Yes Igot married to my dear wife and we were in love for shure and I lost her she passed away with a heart attack i was with her for nine years and it had ups and downs but it was good you just know you are ment to be together when it happens
angel82: more than once yes.. and will again. loving somebody is a steping stone towards a greater love, no matter how hurt you get ye can always get back up again and give it another go.
angel82: more than once yes.. and will again. loving somebody is a steping stone towards a greater love, no matter how hurt you get ye can always get back up again and give it another go.
My first wife & I have been divorced nearly forty years. I love her, she loves me. My dad has been dead 15 years, I still love him. I love my kids and grand kids. There are men in my life I love. There are women in my life I love..
How do people "fall" in & out of love??
In my younger years, I jumped out of airplanes and did some free "falls", is that the same thing??
My experience has shown me many people choose to use the term "I love you" in a very cheap manner and it means nothing..
bittersweet28467Calabash, North Carolina USA467 posts
Yes, I have had several serious relationshps but I think that you don't know it's the real thing until you have the real thing and no matter what, when it's over, you question whether it was the real thing or not. I don't know if I will ever love someone again like I loved the last one but I have felt that way each time. I know with the last one I had never loved anyone that much before. To say it will never happen again is a pessamistic outlook. I tend to be an optimist. :)
bittersweet28467: Yes, I have had several serious relationshps but I think that you don't know it's the real thing until you have the real thing and no matter what, when it's over, you question whether it was the real thing or not. I don't know if I will ever love someone again like I loved the last one but I have felt that way each time. I know with the last one I had never loved anyone that much before. To say it will never happen again is a pessamistic outlook. I tend to be an optimist. :)
angel82: more than once yes.. and will again. loving somebody is a steping stone towards a greater love, no matter how hurt you get ye can always get back up again and give it another go.
Well I think you got all the lovely ladies on board with that one angle including me ... as nothing turns on a women more, than an optimistic view that comes from an optimistic angel
mariespoodles: Well I think you got all the lovely ladies on board with that one angle including me ... as nothing turns on a women more, than an optimistic view that comes from an optimistic angel
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I made the ultimate sacrifice for one very special man many years ago. He followed me over half the world for a couple of years, and I never once even considered taking the heart he so freely offered, (even though my heart ached to be with him), because it would not have been the right thing to do.
He went on to do great things and I never regretted my decision.
I always thought that to be co-dependency...