I'm kinda bummed... (72)
victor_meldrewMK, Buckinghamshire, England UK5 Threads 436 PostsGodsgift: Oh that sounds so familiar. We're always the last to know someone fancies us and by the time we find out, it's too late to do anything about it! My life is littered with situations that I was too naive,blind,ignorant or just too downright stupid to take advantage of!
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sweetowen: I'm not going to push. He knows where I am, right? He hasn't made any real indication that he would have a hope of trying to rekindle (or just start) any kind of a relationship or anything. I'm afraid I'd turn him off if I push.
Diversify diversify; if you are crazy for each other, you'll know it 
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sweetowen: I'm not going to push. He knows where I am, right? He hasn't made any real indication that he would have a hope of trying to rekindle (or just start) any kind of a relationship or anything. I'm afraid I'd turn him off if I push.
You're not kids anymore. Contact him... take the bull but the horns. Text, talk, im, skype and find out. as there's nothing worse than "What Ifs" in life. Better risk being sad and ending up happy, than not risking at all....... Whats the worst that can happen??
GOOD LUCK
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sweetlyscented1: thats funny......good line, and its probably true what your saying...but I hope not for Sweets sake.
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englishelegance: Hi D Now heres a guy who knows what most men are made of
Hi C....
YES very true huh.....SCARY also 
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sweetowen: I'm not going to push. He knows where I am, right? He hasn't made any real indication that he would have a hope of trying to rekindle (or just start) any kind of a relationship or anything. I'm afraid I'd turn him off if I push.
Push? I think this dude is too passive for you. You really want a man who will dominate you. A man who will take you in his arms and kiss you without a thought of whether or not you want to be kissed. No time for thought or decisions. Just a good old fashioned animal attraction. LET THE PASSION FLY!!!! 
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sweetowen: The other day, I wished a former classmate happy birthday on another site. He emailed me & confessed that he'd had a huge crush on me in high school. He said I look like I'm doing very well now & look fantastic. He said, "I'm telling you this 27 years later." I replied that I'd also thought he was cute in high school. He now lives quite a distance away. And he didn't play into it either. He's still quite handsome! Why didn't he just let me know in high school??
Part of me wanted to email him again & tell him how his email has gotten me thinking... but is it really worth it? It's just been on my mind constantly since he dropped this on me!
Part of me wanted to email him again & tell him how his email has gotten me thinking... but is it really worth it? It's just been on my mind constantly since he dropped this on me!
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sweetowen:
I haven't emailed him back. I figure the ball's in his court.
This tells me his last email to you started your engine but didn't get it to rev past idle. What your saying is send me another email that revs my engine or I'm gonna cut you loose. This thread is about letting him know how you feel without telling him directly. You want him to read it and rev your engine but you really feel like it just aint gonna happen.I haven't emailed him back. I figure the ball's in his court.
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sweetowen: The other day, I wished a former classmate happy birthday on another site. He emailed me & confessed that he'd had a huge crush on me in high school. He said I look like I'm doing very well now & look fantastic. He said, "I'm telling you this 27 years later." I replied that I'd also thought he was cute in high school. He now lives quite a distance away. And he didn't play into it either. He's still quite handsome! Why didn't he just let me know in high school??
Part of me wanted to email him again & tell him how his email has gotten me thinking... but is it really worth it? It's just been on my mind constantly since he dropped this on me!
Part of me wanted to email him again & tell him how his email has gotten me thinking... but is it really worth it? It's just been on my mind constantly since he dropped this on me!
man if i had a dollar everytime i was told that by one of my classmates and along with upper and lower classmates i would be set 
well what is the harm of just talking with him feeling him out sort of speak you never know and it couldn't hurt ........
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In response to: The other day, I wished a former classmate happy birthday on another site. He emailed me & confessed that he'd had a huge crush on me in high school. He said I look like I'm doing very well now & look fantastic. He said, "I'm telling you this 27 years later." I replied that I'd also thought he was cute in high school. He now lives quite a distance away. And he didn't play into it either. He's still quite handsome! Why didn't he just let me know in high school??
Part of me wanted to email him again & tell him how his email has gotten me thinking... but is it really worth it? It's just been on my mind constantly since he dropped this on me!
Part of me wanted to email him again & tell him how his email has gotten me thinking... but is it really worth it? It's just been on my mind constantly since he dropped this on me!
You waited 27 years already - f@@k that! Go for it why waste another bloody second! Go for broke be damn crazy "carpe the F2cken diem". What the hell you gonna loose? Just contact him tell him straight up. "I realy like you I'd like to try to have a relationship do you think we could work something out?"
You've waited 27 years - thats 324 months, 9,828 days. Go,go,go,go. Don't think about it a second longer just go write the email, close your eyes and click send.DO IT, DO IT, DO IT, DO IT!
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Yes. Even if nothing comes of it you tried.
Your "problem" while a tad bit more complex is basically the same problem most guys *cough* have with girls they think out of their league.
You will not know until you try and you will kick yourself forever if you don't.
I replied because I emailed a girl that I probably have zero chance with. She will probably not even read/reply to the email I sent(hasn't been on for "over a month").....
BUT I don't know that and I don't know if it will end up being absolutely nothing or the rest of my life.
You may miss a significant turn for the better in your life if you simply don't send an email and see what happens.
Believe me I've been WAY too shy in my life. I missed alot of opportunities simply by not saying "HI."
Your "problem" while a tad bit more complex is basically the same problem most guys *cough* have with girls they think out of their league.
You will not know until you try and you will kick yourself forever if you don't.
I replied because I emailed a girl that I probably have zero chance with. She will probably not even read/reply to the email I sent(hasn't been on for "over a month").....
BUT I don't know that and I don't know if it will end up being absolutely nothing or the rest of my life.
You may miss a significant turn for the better in your life if you simply don't send an email and see what happens.
Believe me I've been WAY too shy in my life. I missed alot of opportunities simply by not saying "HI."
In response to: The other day, I wished a former classmate happy birthday on another site. He emailed me & confessed that he'd had a huge crush on me in high school. He said I look like I'm doing very well now & look fantastic. He said, "I'm telling you this 27 years later." I replied that I'd also thought he was cute in high school. He now lives quite a distance away. And he didn't play into it either. He's still quite handsome! Why didn't he just let me know in high school??
Part of me wanted to email him again & tell him how his email has gotten me thinking... but is it really worth it? It's just been on my mind constantly since he dropped this on me!
Part of me wanted to email him again & tell him how his email has gotten me thinking... but is it really worth it? It's just been on my mind constantly since he dropped this on me!
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What have you got to lose go for it,you will always wonder if you don't...good luck wish you the best
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