Ladies: Do you get the feeling that the widowed men here just want a mother for their kids? (85)
peacock33Sherman Oaks, California USA11 Threads 6 Polls 47 PostsHave any ladies noticed that there seem to be sooooo many men on this site who are widowed and have children? I am suspicious that they even are widowed, (women almost always live longer than men). Just wondering what you ladies think.
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I think that these widowed men
want what we all want,companionship,
friendship and maybe love.
I'm gonna love longer than most of
the men on C.S.
want what we all want,companionship,
friendship and maybe love.
I'm gonna love longer than most of
the men on C.S.
In response to: Have any ladies noticed that there seem to be sooooo many men on this site who are widowed and have children? I am suspicious that they even are widowed, (women almost always live longer than men). Just wondering what you ladies think.
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Polarbutterfly: I think that these widowed men
want what we all want,companionship,
friendship and maybe love.
I'm gonna love longer than most of
the men on C.S.
want what we all want,companionship,
friendship and maybe love.
I'm gonna love longer than most of
the men on C.S.
Live.
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peacock33: Have any ladies noticed that there seem to be sooooo many men on this site who are widowed and have children? I am suspicious that they even are widowed, (women almost always live longer than men). Just wondering what you ladies think.
No I have not noticed, perhaps you should email and ask this question personally.
Did it occur to you, that perhaps a person who is widowed would want to find a partner not just for themselves but for their children too, kind of makes sense really? Besides, why not?
If I had children regardless of whether I was widowed or not, it would be absolutely imperative that whomever I chose in a long term relationship would be happy with the fact they would be a part of my children(s)' life, not just mine.
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peacock33: Have any ladies noticed that there seem to be sooooo many men on this site who are widowed and have children? I am suspicious that they even are widowed, (women almost always live longer than men). Just wondering what you ladies think.
I have know reason to be suspicious of widowed men,woman pass on to.health reasons,wrecks,overdose,to name a few.No one knows whos behind the profile.I guess its about trust,not mistrust,until i see it or find out about it with my own eyes,i go with my gut feeling.Sure we get fooled at times...but the rewards are great when we find those that are called a honest men...
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Polarbutterfly: I think that these widowed men
want what we all want,companionship,
friendship and maybe love.
I'm gonna love longer than most of
the men on C.S.
want what we all want,companionship,
friendship and maybe love.
I'm gonna love longer than most of
the men on C.S.
Not if they are 30 years younger.
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im a lady and what i think is that this may be one of the most damaging threads ive ever seen at CS
sometimes someone else's death is not all about YOU
this is just messed up on so many levels
sometimes someone else's death is not all about YOU
this is just messed up on so many levels
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peacock33: Have any ladies noticed that there seem to be sooooo many men on this site who are widowed and have children? I am suspicious that they even are widowed, (women almost always live longer than men). Just wondering what you ladies think.
I've come across lots of those, I see widowed, kids and I go directly to the bottom of the letter, that usually gives me thE details I need to determine if its possibly real of the usual SCAMMER.
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demonfairy: I have know reason to be suspicious of widowed men,woman pass on to.health reasons,wrecks,overdose,to name a few.No one knows whos behind the profile.I guess its about trust,not mistrust,until i see it or find out about it with my own eyes,i go with my gut feeling.Sure we get fooled at times...but the rewards are great when we find those that are called a honest men...
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peacock33: Have any ladies noticed that there seem to be sooooo many men on this site who are widowed and have children? I am suspicious that they even are widowed, (women almost always live longer than men). Just wondering what you ladies think.
YEP, BECAUSE I DONT HAVE ANY THEY THINK I WANT A INSTANT FAMILY:
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Okaaay. 
Veritaas: Not if they are 30 years younger.
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demonfairy: If you love you the man you will also love there children...after all they are a part of him
Exactly DF, goes without saying as far as I am concerned.
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tainogirl: I've come across lots of those, I see widowed, kids and I go directly to the bottom of the letter, that usually gives me thE details I need to determine if its possibly real of the usual SCAMMER.
she didnt seem to be concerned of a scammer tainojust that there is something emotionally inappropriate in these men
its along the lines of saying foreigners want a green card and women want someone to pay their bills
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mindfful: she didnt seem to be concerned of a scammer taino
just that there is something emotionally inappropriate in these men
its along the lines of saying foreigners want a green card and women want someone to pay their bills
just that there is something emotionally inappropriate in these men
its along the lines of saying foreigners want a green card and women want someone to pay their bills
Okay, well as a single parent I guess if I lost my spouse I'd have a care for my kid's future. I'd want to be sure that a potential partner knew that I had kids so they could decide if this kind of relationship was right for them. I wouldn't just dismiss them in turn - unless it was written in big and bold " LOOK I JUST WANT A MOMMY FOR MY KIDS".
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I guess most want some kind of happiness, what ever it might be...
As far as I know - most people prefer to live where they have been born....in their own country....
Of course some want to relocate to a wealthy place..... But for the most I think it's not true... widowed or not...
As far as I know - most people prefer to live where they have been born....in their own country....
Of course some want to relocate to a wealthy place..... But for the most I think it's not true... widowed or not...
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mindfful: she didnt seem to be concerned of a scammer taino
just that there is something emotionally inappropriate in these men
its along the lines of saying foreigners want a green card and women want someone to pay their bills
just that there is something emotionally inappropriate in these men
its along the lines of saying foreigners want a green card and women want someone to pay their bills
I tend to agree with Taino, E.
It's more often the case than not -
scammers.
OP, being very new to CS, haven't figured out a scam part of it yet, hence the thread.
mindfful: ...
its along the lines of saying foreigners want a green card and women want someone to pay their bills
its along the lines of saying foreigners want a green card and women want someone to pay their bills
Well, we have these pay-their-bills kind of threads weekly, if not daily,
and I didn't see many CSers barfing in those threads...
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Not a lady, however I believe in good faith when initiating contact with a person, and giving them a real chance... no prejudice. Like what mindfful said. 
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Laura25: I tend to agree with Taino, E.
It's more often the case than not -
scammers.
OP, being very new to CS, haven't figured out a scam part of it yet, hence the thread.
Well, we have these pay-their-bills kind of threads weekly, if not daily,
and I didn't see many CSers barfing in those threads...
It's more often the case than not -
scammers.
OP, being very new to CS, haven't figured out a scam part of it yet, hence the thread.
Well, we have these pay-their-bills kind of threads weekly, if not daily,
and I didn't see many CSers barfing in those threads...
true because rarely does anyone here stand up and say knock off the stereotypes-and frankly i dont worry about who barfs where and thank god i dont measure my responses to that of others
sometimes im out of whack in a reaction but arent we all but why would i care how people react to stereotypes and rudeness? i can only do me- i am powerless over others choices.
it does make me puke-
and if she meant mail it seemed she would have said so but who knows?
i am not all that invested in it- thats how i read it and i found it a disappointment as i said
im off to a commute
see ya
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deadbutwhy: Not a lady, however I believe in good faith when initiating contact with a person, and giving them a real chance... no prejudice. Like what mindfful said.
pay attention kidlook around
agreeing with me is not the way you wanna go around here
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mindfful: pay attention kid
look around
agreeing with me is not the way you wanna go around here
look around
agreeing with me is not the way you wanna go around here
Life is short
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