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davpk10somewhere, New York USA23 Threads 1 Polls 2,934 Poststhis guy never said that childern are baggage... he asked if others look at them as baggage....
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davpk10: this guy never said that childern are baggage... he asked if others look at them as baggage....
baggage nope lifes experiences thats all
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I would not say that I would call children baggage because "baggage" is negative,but I would call them situations I simply do not have the patience to deal with.
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If any woman/man thinks your kids are baggage they are not worth bothering with!!
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justtheguy4u: Ladies and gentleman just the same, being a single father, I would like to know your opinion about how you feel or what you think about dating someone that has a child or for that matter, children. Do you consider them to have "baggage"? Please fill me in.
Baggage is such a loose and easy term now and it is based on negativity.
It was a term to describe a person with very real and long term personal problems,not just right now difficulties.
For many people it is a perceived reason why others would not wish to date them or why they would not wish to date a person.
The more false reasons you put in front of you to be dated or date the more difficult you make dating.
My personal attitude to dating is to just enjoy it while it lasts.
Move on as soon as the you or the other no longer wish's to be involved.
Everyone has a history.
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davpk10: It is not the OP that is going off the deep end is it.....
kids and animals are my gr8est passion and topics such as this one bring out these little hot headed emoticons in me davpk
... but really... come on now... ur not making excuses up for the op's query now r you?? just curious is all 
and just my opinion of course 
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mariespoodles: kids and animals are my gr8est passion and topics such as this one bring out these little hot headed emoticons in me davpk ... but really... come on now... ur not making excuses up for the op's query now r you?? just curious is all and just my opinion of course
Just so you know I was a single father and caregiver of my son for over 9 years.....With no help from his mother at all.....I do not think of childern as baggage but I don't go over board by the word eather.
and I am not making up excuses for the OP's question ....nor am I makeing up excuses to be a big caring parent on a word such as baggage....
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mariespoodles: kids and animals are my gr8est passion and topics such as this one bring out these little hot headed emoticons in me davpk ... but really... come on now... ur not making excuses up for the op's query now r you?? just curious is all and just my opinion of course
I just hope your a good swimmer.....------ This thread is Archived ------
DodgeBabe: The OP has children. His children live with him.
Maybe, just maybe, he has been in a situation where he HIMSELF has wanted to date someone, but that someone very unkindly called the chidren "baggage" and not HIM.
Maybe, just maybe, he is looking here for affirmation of his own feelings, and some friendly advice.
Just maybe..
Maybe, just maybe, he has been in a situation where he HIMSELF has wanted to date someone, but that someone very unkindly called the chidren "baggage" and not HIM.
Maybe, just maybe, he is looking here for affirmation of his own feelings, and some friendly advice.
Just maybe..
yes hun... just maybe... u have a point there Dodgebabe
and just maybe davpak... my previous posts regarding the word "baggage" is my way of expressing my seriousness of the use of all words, as words are a lot more powerful than we give them credit and JMO of course
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mariespoodles: yes hun... just maybe... u have a point there Dodgebabe
and just maybe davpak... my previous posts regarding the word "baggage" is my way of expressing my seriousness of the use of all words, as words are a lot more powerful than we give them credit and JMO of course
and just maybe davpak... my previous posts regarding the word "baggage" is my way of expressing my seriousness of the use of all words, as words are a lot more powerful than we give them credit and JMO of course
i know what you meant,you meant no harm or disrespect for anyone...kids should be loved and treated with respect,the same as you would treat a adult or animal.------ This thread is Archived ------
justtheguy4u: Ladies and gentleman just the same, being a single father, I would like to know your opinion about how you feel or what you think about dating someone that has a child or for that matter, children. Do you consider them to have "baggage"? Please fill me in.
If there are not spoil brats I can deal with them
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Grandepensees: I agree! Children are gifts to be loved, not dragged all over the place!
I thought you kicked cs to the curb. well glad to see you back
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demonfairy: i know what you meant,you meant no harm or disrespect for anyone...kids should be loved and treated with respect,the same as you would treat a adult or animal.
Trust you to understand where I'm coming from fairy
and why am I not surprised by this??
I'd have to say it's cos your beautiful spirit always shines through miss
and yes... no disrespect intended... I apoligise if it was taken as such by anyone on this thread including the OP
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My ex partner of 24 yrs had 2 small kids when i met her , we had another 2 together ,they were not a hindrance to me , i just put my boots on every morning to feed everyone ..
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Children are not "baggage"...they are a blessing and any man that will not accept mine, well that's not someone I would even consider being with for one second.
I don't care about if a man has them either way, if I like him and he has kids,well eventually if it goes somewhere, I have to accept them as a part of him and love them too. It's a two way street and a personal choice as to how someone views kids.
I don't care about if a man has them either way, if I like him and he has kids,well eventually if it goes somewhere, I have to accept them as a part of him and love them too. It's a two way street and a personal choice as to how someone views kids.
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I would never consider children baggage. If you meet someone who would even think that..keep walking.
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Well for me if my new man wouldnt take me and luv me with my baggage..i dont need him in my life at all,i would stick with my baggage for good and the hell with all the Men in the world,luv u my little sweet angle
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I once dated a single father who had 6 children of his own
from a previous relationship and not once did I think that
he had "baggage" nor did he think I had "baggage" because
I had children of my own.
from a previous relationship and not once did I think that
he had "baggage" nor did he think I had "baggage" because
I had children of my own.
In response to: Ladies and gentleman just the same, being a single father, I would like to know your opinion about how you feel or what you think about dating someone that has a child or for that matter, children. Do you consider them to have "baggage"? Please fill me in.
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nanners2863: I would never consider children baggage. If you meet someone who would even think that..keep walking.
yep nanners I'm just as passionate 'bout this as u r
how goes it gf?? believe you have a romance interest goin' on sweetie
oh do tell
I'm all ears 
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mariespoodles: yep nanners I'm just as passionate 'bout this as u r
how goes it gf?? believe you have a romance interest goin' on sweetie
oh do tell I'm all ears
I do sweety and he is amazing!!! I think you have a lil something going on as well?? hmmm...fill me in.how goes it gf?? believe you have a romance interest goin' on sweetie
oh do tell I'm all ears
I hate hate hate hate hate the word "baggage"..makes me see red.
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