Loving him more than yourself (23)
kekei: A friend of ours married a guy that we thought she should not have married...here are a few things that are of concern to us
1. before they got married she found out that the beautiful love letters she had gotten from him are templates indeed used many times by him and his buddies.
2. he had several others plus her and still does
3. When they got married (we watched her from the carpark) struggling to go upstairs to the honeymoon sweet with all the gifts while he just carried the keys.
4.ON THE HONEYMOON NIGHT HE SAID SHE SHOULD WAIT, SHE IS JUST TOO ANXIOUS. What the hell?
5. She has to go to work then take a bus home to cook dinner and rush to school. Then she has to take the bus back home quickly as he will be waiting for her to share out his dinner.
6. She takes the kid to school on the bus while he drives to work and his car is parked all day at the office and she is on the road struggling with the groceries.
7. When she was pregnant and told him that she wasn't feeling well, he wanted to know if she could manage to cook because he just doesn't think he should be in the kitchen.
Nope, it's not fiction, but even I can't believe it. It is very true. She would complain alot and finally she informed us that they are getting a divorce. No surprise there.
Love no one more than yourself.
1. before they got married she found out that the beautiful love letters she had gotten from him are templates indeed used many times by him and his buddies.
2. he had several others plus her and still does
3. When they got married (we watched her from the carpark) struggling to go upstairs to the honeymoon sweet with all the gifts while he just carried the keys.
4.ON THE HONEYMOON NIGHT HE SAID SHE SHOULD WAIT, SHE IS JUST TOO ANXIOUS. What the hell?
5. She has to go to work then take a bus home to cook dinner and rush to school. Then she has to take the bus back home quickly as he will be waiting for her to share out his dinner.
6. She takes the kid to school on the bus while he drives to work and his car is parked all day at the office and she is on the road struggling with the groceries.
7. When she was pregnant and told him that she wasn't feeling well, he wanted to know if she could manage to cook because he just doesn't think he should be in the kitchen.
Nope, it's not fiction, but even I can't believe it. It is very true. She would complain alot and finally she informed us that they are getting a divorce. No surprise there.
Love no one more than yourself.
right never do it
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kittyjoann: right never do it
but still so many of us do it
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kekei: but still so many of us do it
not to THAT extent!!!
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Jaygo1: not to THAT extent!!!
Ofcourse, there are women who believe they must have a man at all cost and love him so much they will put up with a lot of crap to keep him.
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Love yourself ENOUGH to want better for yourself and don't let anybody treat you like this.
Women and men will only be treated like this IF they allow it and while it's sad, it is self-inflicted.
Women and men will only be treated like this IF they allow it and while it's sad, it is self-inflicted.
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kekei: Ofcourse, there are women who believe they must have a man at all cost and love him so much they will put up with a lot of crap to keep him.
Not Me........
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EssJay: Not Me........
when we asked her why and said we would never do it, she said that maybe we just never loved anyone so much
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kekei: when we asked her why and said we would never do it, she said that maybe we just never loved anyone so much
She's obviously realised how bad things were, as you say she is getting a divorce.
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kittyjoann: it is true, many of us still do it
I'm one of those who made sure that I will not do it again
I'm one of those who made sure that I will not do it again
Hmmmn. THe things some of us do for love
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Love him more than yourself....Not possible!!
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Sounds like a codependent relationship to me....here's an article that might interest you......
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kekei: Ofcourse, there are women who believe they must have a man at all cost and love him so much they will put up with a lot of crap to keep him.
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i think a lot of women settle or have low self esteem that keeps them in bad relationships. i had two bad ex's but i got out.
now that im older i dont think i will make the same mistakes again in a mate.
now that im older i dont think i will make the same mistakes again in a mate.
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Swissblueeyes: i think a lot of women settle or have low self esteem that keeps them in bad relationships. i had two bad ex's but i got out.
now that im older i dont think i will make the same mistakes again in a mate.
now that im older i dont think i will make the same mistakes again in a mate.
Good for you.
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A friend of ours married a guy that we thought she should not have married...here are a few things that are of concern to us
1. before they got married she found out that the beautiful love letters she had gotten from him are templates indeed used many times by him and his buddies.
2. he had several others plus her and still does
3. When they got married (we watched her from the carpark) struggling to go upstairs to the honeymoon sweet with all the gifts while he just carried the keys.
4.ON THE HONEYMOON NIGHT HE SAID SHE SHOULD WAIT, SHE IS JUST TOO ANXIOUS. What the hell?
5. She has to go to work then take a bus home to cook dinner and rush to school. Then she has to take the bus back home quickly as he will be waiting for her to share out his dinner.
6. She takes the kid to school on the bus while he drives to work and his car is parked all day at the office and she is on the road struggling with the groceries.
7. When she was pregnant and told him that she wasn't feeling well, he wanted to know if she could manage to cook because he just doesn't think he should be in the kitchen.
Nope, it's not fiction, but even I can't believe it. It is very true. She would complain alot and finally she informed us that they are getting a divorce. No surprise there.
Love no one more than yourself.[/quote]
Isn't that selfish love???
Personally, I would rather give, and hopefully receive self-less love..
1. before they got married she found out that the beautiful love letters she had gotten from him are templates indeed used many times by him and his buddies.
2. he had several others plus her and still does
3. When they got married (we watched her from the carpark) struggling to go upstairs to the honeymoon sweet with all the gifts while he just carried the keys.
4.ON THE HONEYMOON NIGHT HE SAID SHE SHOULD WAIT, SHE IS JUST TOO ANXIOUS. What the hell?
5. She has to go to work then take a bus home to cook dinner and rush to school. Then she has to take the bus back home quickly as he will be waiting for her to share out his dinner.
6. She takes the kid to school on the bus while he drives to work and his car is parked all day at the office and she is on the road struggling with the groceries.
7. When she was pregnant and told him that she wasn't feeling well, he wanted to know if she could manage to cook because he just doesn't think he should be in the kitchen.
Nope, it's not fiction, but even I can't believe it. It is very true. She would complain alot and finally she informed us that they are getting a divorce. No surprise there.
Love no one more than yourself.[/quote]
Isn't that selfish love???
Personally, I would rather give, and hopefully receive self-less love..
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kekei: Good for you.
Thank you kekei
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1. before they got married she found out that the beautiful love letters she had gotten from him are templates indeed used many times by him and his buddies.
2. he had several others plus her and still does
3. When they got married (we watched her from the carpark) struggling to go upstairs to the honeymoon sweet with all the gifts while he just carried the keys.
4.ON THE HONEYMOON NIGHT HE SAID SHE SHOULD WAIT, SHE IS JUST TOO ANXIOUS. What the hell?
5. She has to go to work then take a bus home to cook dinner and rush to school. Then she has to take the bus back home quickly as he will be waiting for her to share out his dinner.
6. She takes the kid to school on the bus while he drives to work and his car is parked all day at the office and she is on the road struggling with the groceries.
7. When she was pregnant and told him that she wasn't feeling well, he wanted to know if she could manage to cook because he just doesn't think he should be in the kitchen.
Nope, it's not fiction, but even I can't believe it. It is very true. She would complain alot and finally she informed us that they are getting a divorce. No surprise there.
Love no one more than yourself.