Something new I had a gurl come by my house with her kids....Keep reading! (16)
yellaboii2386: hey what up C.S.???n-m-h juz chillin So i had a "friend" / gurl I'm thinking about dating.. And she came by today and we hung out for about 3hours or so and she bought her kids with her.. And OMG they were so much fun! And me and the gurl have been talking for a lil while... and i just played with her kids and we had lots of fun.. So my thing was for once i really felt different b/c I've never really had so much fun hanging out with a mother and her kids.. not to mention I got my own kids which she aware of... I don't get to see my kids as much or as often as i'd like b/c of issues with the past with my relationship n tha past... And When the girl and her kids left.. Her kids was like can we have a hug??? And her mom was like "awwwww" thats sweet... And she text me and she was like it felt different that a guy enjoyed time with me and my kids.. And i'm like y? She's like it's something that she was not used to.. And I told her well of course I understand u have kids and I accept you and them.. B/c I have kids and if a woman wouldnt date me bc of my kids then she gotta be like "ray charles" and Hit the road... So yeah I would love to give this woman a chance and her kids.. And I got my kids as well... And we both understand tha whole kids aspect.. So any adivce or future recommendations?? I would appriciate it thanks...
Nice story...makes a change in here....more real than anything I have heard in a long time......keep seeing this nice lady....
Best wishes....
Stef
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yes stef this boi is alright
good strong young man
he makes me proud
what up yella
keep grindin
gotta run but
good strong young man
he makes me proud
what up yella
keep grindin
gotta run but
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yellaboii2386: hey what up C.S.???n-m-h juz chillin So i had a "friend" / gurl I'm thinking about dating.. And she came by today and we hung out for about 3hours or so and she bought her kids with her.. And OMG they were so much fun! And me and the gurl have been talking for a lil while... and i just played with her kids and we had lots of fun.. So my thing was for once i really felt different b/c I've never really had so much fun hanging out with a mother and her kids.. not to mention I got my own kids which she aware of... I don't get to see my kids as much or as often as i'd like b/c of issues with the past with my relationship n tha past... And When the girl and her kids left.. Her kids was like can we have a hug??? And her mom was like "awwwww" thats sweet... And she text me and she was like it felt different that a guy enjoyed time with me and my kids.. And i'm like y? She's like it's something that she was not used to.. And I told her well of course I understand u have kids and I accept you and them.. B/c I have kids and if a woman wouldnt date me bc of my kids then she gotta be like "ray charles" and Hit the road... So yeah I would love to give this woman a chance and her kids.. And I got my kids as well... And we both understand tha whole kids aspect.. So any adivce or future recommendations?? I would appriciate it thanks...
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yellaboii2386: hey what up C.S.???n-m-h juz chillin So i had a "friend" / gurl I'm thinking about dating.. And she came by today and we hung out for about 3hours or so and she bought her kids with her.. And OMG they were so much fun! And me and the gurl have been talking for a lil while... and i just played with her kids and we had lots of fun.. So my thing was for once i really felt different b/c I've never really had so much fun hanging out with a mother and her kids.. not to mention I got my own kids which she aware of... I don't get to see my kids as much or as often as i'd like b/c of issues with the past with my relationship n tha past... And When the girl and her kids left.. Her kids was like can we have a hug??? And her mom was like "awwwww" thats sweet... And she text me and she was like it felt different that a guy enjoyed time with me and my kids.. And i'm like y? She's like it's something that she was not used to.. And I told her well of course I understand u have kids and I accept you and them.. B/c I have kids and if a woman wouldnt date me bc of my kids then she gotta be like "ray charles" and Hit the road... So yeah I would love to give this woman a chance and her kids.. And I got my kids as well... And we both understand tha whole kids aspect.. So any adivce or future recommendations?? I would appriciate it thanks...
Good man.
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sounds like you got this. you dont need much advice, just keep doing what your doing, and be yourself at all times. maybe you should both get babysitters and go on a date just you two, because things could be different..better...or worse. you never know! good luck 
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And I guess i ment to mention the the kids father had died.. and or what not and I just swear up and down that I knew him he was a tad bit younger than i am... And i mean it's like I've always knew the girl for a long time... she's 21 and I'm 24.. And I feel like me and her have alot in common.. Shes a Gemini and I'm a Gemini... We both Got kids... And i think more so say we have this mutual thinking process like magical thinking.. So yeah for once I'd like to make something gr8 come out of it.. b/c I feel bad sometimes cuz I don't get to see my kids.. and I had to cut off the connection with my childrens mom.. and I decided that I would wait until court to get my visitation rights. Cuz she wont bring them by.. And then it's funni cuz with this gurl and her kids I dont know what It is but I just felt so @ ease with her children and her.. like i think what shocked me was when they left after I had closed their door.. Their mom was like K.T. look.. I said huh She's like they want a hug from you.. And I was like I like passing out hugs and then they mom was like thank you for letting us come by... And i asked her if she had a problem with me being their for them and her.. and she was like no not @ all. Ever since her kids dad past..she stayed focused on them and it just felt so different to her to have someone who actually cares for her kids and her besides their dad that's now deceased... So yeah sounds like somewhere in this story it has a happy ending to it for all of us...So Thanks u guys for giving me the oppurtunity to share my story... it just mean alot to me:)
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wow!!! thanks alot for sharing that story, a positive one for a change, nice,if you think that about her children you are a nice person, sounds like you have a nice beginning of a good friendship there?
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yellaboii2386: hey what up C.S.???n-m-h juz chillin So i had a "friend" / gurl I'm thinking about dating.. And she came by today and we hung out for about 3hours or so and she bought her kids with her.. And OMG they were so much fun! And me and the gurl have been talking for a lil while... and i just played with her kids and we had lots of fun.. So my thing was for once i really felt different b/c I've never really had so much fun hanging out with a mother and her kids.. not to mention I got my own kids which she aware of... I don't get to see my kids as much or as often as i'd like b/c of issues with the past with my relationship n tha past... And When the girl and her kids left.. Her kids was like can we have a hug??? And her mom was like "awwwww" thats sweet... And she text me and she was like it felt different that a guy enjoyed time with me and my kids.. And i'm like y? She's like it's something that she was not used to.. And I told her well of course I understand u have kids and I accept you and them.. B/c I have kids and if a woman wouldnt date me bc of my kids then she gotta be like "ray charles" and Hit the road... So yeah I would love to give this woman a chance and her kids.. And I got my kids as well... And we both understand tha whole kids aspect.. So any adivce or future recommendations?? I would appriciate it thanks...
Practice, your SPELLING !
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yellaboii2386: And I guess i ment to mention the the kids father had died.. and or what not and I just swear up and down that I knew him he was a tad bit younger than i am... And i mean it's like I've always knew the girl for a long time... she's 21 and I'm 24.. And I feel like me and her have alot in common.. Shes a Gemini and I'm a Gemini... We both Got kids... And i think more so say we have this mutual thinking process like magical thinking.. So yeah for once I'd like to make something gr8 come out of it.. b/c I feel bad sometimes cuz I don't get to see my kids.. and I had to cut off the connection with my childrens mom.. and I decided that I would wait until court to get my visitation rights. Cuz she wont bring them by.. And then it's funni cuz with this gurl and her kids I dont know what It is but I just felt so @ ease with her children and her.. like i think what shocked me was when they left after I had closed their door.. Their mom was like K.T. look.. I said huh She's like they want a hug from you.. And I was like I like passing out hugs and then they mom was like thank you for letting us come by... And i asked her if she had a problem with me being their for them and her.. and she was like no not @ all. Ever since her kids dad past..she stayed focused on them and it just felt so different to her to have someone who actually cares for her kids and her besides their dad that's now deceased... So yeah sounds like somewhere in this story it has a happy ending to it for all of us...So Thanks u guys for giving me the oppurtunity to share my story... it just mean alot to me:)
Keep on sharing Yella....sounds like your heart is in the right place.....
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stefonline: Keep on sharing Yella....sounds like your heart is in the right place.....
yeah brother keep doing u and god will bless your heart honey good luck.------ This thread is Archived ------
BEst of luck ever!!!!
We love happy stories :D
Keep us updated :)
We love happy stories :D
Keep us updated :)
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yellaboii2386: hey what up C.S.???n-m-h juz chillin So i had a "friend" / gurl I'm thinking about dating.. And she came by today and we hung out for about 3hours or so and she bought her kids with her.. And OMG they were so much fun! And me and the gurl have been talking for a lil while... and i just played with her kids and we had lots of fun.. So my thing was for once i really felt different b/c I've never really had so much fun hanging out with a mother and her kids.. not to mention I got my own kids which she aware of... I don't get to see my kids as much or as often as i'd like b/c of issues with the past with my relationship n tha past... And When the girl and her kids left.. Her kids was like can we have a hug??? And her mom was like "awwwww" thats sweet... And she text me and she was like it felt different that a guy enjoyed time with me and my kids.. And i'm like y? She's like it's something that she was not used to.. And I told her well of course I understand u have kids and I accept you and them.. B/c I have kids and if a woman wouldnt date me bc of my kids then she gotta be like "ray charles" and Hit the road... So yeah I would love to give this woman a chance and her kids.. And I got my kids as well... And we both understand tha whole kids aspect.. So any adivce or future recommendations?? I would appriciate it thanks...
Kind Sir,, I find you to be a breath of fresh air. It seems you are a gentleman. I hope you, the kids and your new young lady friend find time for your balancing whatever you chose as a basis for your joy and gratitude. I find being grateful brings on these experiences be it people ,friends coming buy, Relationships with a new found friend. Friends and love in our lives. Respect for woman and children and fathers is a rewarding lifestyle,,, in my opinion. Family takes a lot of education. Knowledge is power. Keep on having fun , communicating and remember in my opinion to praise whatever brought the situation to your life. Being an individulization of God in my opinion is what we are seeing and feeling. Great job. I am proud of being a family person and you will see beautiful things with children around . 
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yellaboii2386: And I guess i ment to mention the the kids father had died.. and or what not and I just swear up and down that I knew him he was a tad bit younger than i am... And i mean it's like I've always knew the girl for a long time... she's 21 and I'm 24.. And I feel like me and her have alot in common.. Shes a Gemini and I'm a Gemini... We both Got kids... And i think more so say we have this mutual thinking process like magical thinking.. So yeah for once I'd like to make something gr8 come out of it.. b/c I feel bad sometimes cuz I don't get to see my kids.. and I had to cut off the connection with my childrens mom.. and I decided that I would wait until court to get my visitation rights. Cuz she wont bring them by.. And then it's funni cuz with this gurl and her kids I dont know what It is but I just felt so @ ease with her children and her.. like i think what shocked me was when they left after I had closed their door.. Their mom was like K.T. look.. I said huh She's like they want a hug from you.. And I was like I like passing out hugs and then they mom was like thank you for letting us come by... And i asked her if she had a problem with me being their for them and her.. and she was like no not @ all. Ever since her kids dad past..she stayed focused on them and it just felt so different to her to have someone who actually cares for her kids and her besides their dad that's now deceased... So yeah sounds like somewhere in this story it has a happy ending to it for all of us...So Thanks u guys for giving me the oppurtunity to share my story... it just mean alot to me:)
You kind sir, have a blessing on your hands.Rejoice, keep your nose clean. At court you will receive extensive visitation and can go back within a year to have modifications or to make sure whatever you and the children are doing and is working out for everyone is in written on legal form with the filed date stamped by the judge. PTL and God Bless------ This thread is Archived ------
Go for it. This might be the one. I had two kids and didn't show them around to any one I went out with.I thought it might confuse them. But I guess you passed that step. The next one, ask her out to dinner without the kids and you can talk in private, Good luck, Good luck! 
Stay
Holly
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Just to let you know, girl is spelled g i r l. I guess that poster could have just told you in a nice way.You got your message across, though. Holly
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n-m-h juz chillin So i had a "friend" / gurl I'm thinking about dating.. And she came by today and we hung out for about 3hours or so and she bought her kids with her.. And OMG they were so much fun! And me and the gurl have been talking for a lil while... and i just played with her kids and we had lots of fun.. So my thing was for once i really felt different b/c I've never really had so much fun hanging out with a mother and her kids.. not to mention I got my own kids which she aware of... I don't get to see my kids as much or as often as i'd like b/c of issues with the past with my relationship n tha past... And When the girl and her kids left.. Her kids was like can we have a hug??? And her mom was like "awwwww" thats sweet... And she text me and she was like it felt different that a guy enjoyed time with me and my kids.. And i'm like y? She's like it's something that she was not used to.. And I told her well of course I understand u have kids and I accept you and them.. B/c I have kids and if a woman wouldnt date me bc of my kids then she gotta be like "ray charles" and Hit the road... So yeah I would love to give this woman a chance and her kids.. And I got my kids as well... And we both understand tha whole kids aspect.. So any adivce or future recommendations?? I would appriciate it thanks...