Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman? ( Archived) (140)

Sep 15, 2010 9:39 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
nanners2863: Did you read my post or did you just see my name and decide to mouth off. I never said I want him to cry..I said I let him be a shoulder to lean on..I don't give him tasks to do..I let him do things for me. I don't need a man to do ANYTHING for nor do I ask him to.
that scares me
blues wow
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Sep 15, 2010 9:40 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
MetalMilitia
MetalMilitiaMetalMilitiaseattle, Washington USA6 Threads 576 Posts
nanners2863: Did you read my post or did you just see my name and decide to mouth off. I never said I want him to cry..I said I let him be a shoulder to lean on..I don't give him tasks to do..I let him do things for me. I don't need a man to do ANYTHING for nor do I ask him to.



i just saw your name..... !!!


c'mon now.... when have you known me to listen to anything any of yall ever have to say ?????



doh doh
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Sep 15, 2010 9:43 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
Sampe1967: yeah very big, all two and a half inches of it.
And I'm sure thats braggin..Mom always said "whatever a number a man gives..cut it in half" cool
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Sep 15, 2010 9:43 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
pamela_1976: I've been wondering why is it that handsome and smart men are intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent women? Isn't that what we all seek? Someone who is not needy? Can you tell me?


Personally ............my experience with beautiful successful independent women convinced me that they're in it for themselves , and their money is just that......but your money ....well dunno

I'll go for the not so perfect looking one who works as a waitress ........thumbs up beer
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Sep 15, 2010 9:44 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
MetalMilitia: i just saw your name..... !!!c'mon now.... when have you known me to listen to anything any of yall ever have to say ?????
I don't know you....anymore.
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Sep 15, 2010 9:45 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
BBWfansdream
BBWfansdreamBBWfansdreamGlenorchy, Tasmania Australia4 Threads 133 Posts
In response to: I've been wondering why is it that handsome and smart men are intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent women? Isn't that what we all seek? Someone who is not needy? Can you tell me?

Don't think they ALL are.
I never had any problems attracting the handsome, smart ones...I even married one! But then he was not really focussed on his career, and driven to succeed, or had dreams of being a CEO of a huge corporation like I was.
Im sorting out that relationship now, but we only had problems when I was no longer successful and independant as I was before the MS monster halted my rise up the ladder.
As a couple, when I was motivated and driven for the both of us it was fantastic! We were a great team!

Maybe you are just looking for and at the wrong type handsome smart men. Sounds like you are looking for a bread winner type. What does a beautiful, succesful, independant woman want one of those for anyway?
confused
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Sep 15, 2010 9:46 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
MetalMilitia
MetalMilitiaMetalMilitiaseattle, Washington USA6 Threads 576 Posts
nanners2863: I don't know you....anymore.



roger that ma'am.... good luck to ya !!!




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Sep 15, 2010 9:47 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
nanners2863: And I'm sure thats braggin..Mom always said "whatever a number a man gives..cut it in half"
That's not fair. What would i have left? the other half would jut be in the sack
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Sep 15, 2010 9:48 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
jvaski: Personally ............my experience with beautiful successful independent women convinced me that they're in it for themselves , and their money is just that......but your money ....well

I'll go for the not so perfect looking one who works as a waitress ........
thumbs up agree..gimme a driver..not a doctor..wave
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Sep 15, 2010 9:51 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
plainlyjune
plainlyjuneplainlyjuneLegazpi City, Bicol Philippines12 Threads 2 Polls 8,175 Posts
nanners2863: And I'm sure thats braggin..Mom always said "whatever a number a man gives..cut it in half"
uh oh that lying ba$%$#D
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Sep 15, 2010 9:51 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
agree..gimme a driver..not a doctor..[/quote A driver ??? uh oh me me me meme applause applause applause
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Sep 15, 2010 9:53 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
Sampe1967
Sampe1967Sampe1967Black River, Saint Elizabeth Jamaica56 Threads 3 Polls 628 Posts
plainlyjune: that lying ba$%$#D
dont tell me you double it instead
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Sep 15, 2010 9:57 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
plainlyjune: that lying ba$%$#D
LOL..and why are you surprised..rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 15, 2010 10:00 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
DecentHKLady
DecentHKLadyDecentHKLadyHong Kong, Hong Kong Island Hong Kong4 Threads 189 Posts
jeepers: for me, It's an insecurity issue. Smart. successful, beautiful women work around and have smart, successful, handsome men for friends. I am afraid these men have more to offer mentally than I do, so I worry about rejection.
and.....it happened to me many years ago.

But men can also be ambiguous...

While successful, educated, strong women are shunned, poor ordinary women are also jealously guarded...men just afraid they would be taken advantage of, or if they take the woman, he could be snobbish or condescending.

I find few have got positive attitude sigh
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Sep 15, 2010 10:03 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
DecentHKLady
DecentHKLadyDecentHKLadyHong Kong, Hong Kong Island Hong Kong4 Threads 189 Posts
Boban1: well go for the ugly guys.... we ain`t afraid of anything....

BB, we wouldn't be able to check it out, unless you uncover your face.... confused
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Sep 15, 2010 10:04 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
DecentHKLady: But men can also be ambiguous...

While successful, educated, strong women are shunned, poor ordinary women are also jealously guarded...men just afraid they would be taken advantage of, or if they take the woman, he could be snobbish or condescending.

I find few have got positive attitude


Successful beautiful women didn't get there by being noce to everyone , typically their competative attitude and ruthlessness got them there ......and a man to many of them is just another toy or pawn to get them what what they want dunno

If they're shunned - it's because everyone knows their game dunno
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Sep 15, 2010 10:05 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
cincity
cincitycincitytoronto, Ontario Canada9 Threads 2,496 Posts
pamela_1976: I've been wondering why is it that handsome and smart men are intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent women? Isn't that what we all seek? Someone who is not needy? Can you tell me?
If a man is secure in himself that will not happen... IMO
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Sep 15, 2010 10:06 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
zeus911
zeus911zeus911Malta, Xlokk Malta8 Threads 2 Polls 1,000 Posts
pamela_1976: I've been wondering why is it that handsome and smart men are intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent women? Isn't that what we all seek? Someone who is not needy? Can you tell me?
don't think handsome man are ever intimidated by beauty but i wouldn't know that, as for smart men they just know better...beer
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Sep 15, 2010 10:06 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
cincity: If a man is secure in himself that will not happen... IMO


If a man is secure in wanting a new "manager" then it works fine laugh
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Sep 15, 2010 10:08 AM CST Why are handsome men intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent woman?
cherrybrandy
cherrybrandycherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK24 Threads 7,473 Posts
Sampe1967: agree..gimme a driver..not a doctor..[/quote A driver ??? me me me meme
laugh not after everybody knows your size..laugh
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