nanners2863: Did you read my post or did you just see my name and decide to mouth off. I never said I want him to cry..I said I let him be a shoulder to lean on..I don't give him tasks to do..I let him do things for me. I don't need a man to do ANYTHING for nor do I ask him to.
nanners2863: Did you read my post or did you just see my name and decide to mouth off. I never said I want him to cry..I said I let him be a shoulder to lean on..I don't give him tasks to do..I let him do things for me. I don't need a man to do ANYTHING for nor do I ask him to.
i just saw your name..... !!!
c'mon now.... when have you known me to listen to anything any of yall ever have to say ?????
pamela_1976: I've been wondering why is it that handsome and smart men are intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent women? Isn't that what we all seek? Someone who is not needy? Can you tell me?
Personally ............my experience with beautiful successful independent women convinced me that they're in it for themselves , and their money is just that......but your money ....well
I'll go for the not so perfect looking one who works as a waitress ........
In response to: I've been wondering why is it that handsome and smart men are intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent women? Isn't that what we all seek? Someone who is not needy? Can you tell me?
Don't think they ALL are. I never had any problems attracting the handsome, smart ones...I even married one! But then he was not really focussed on his career, and driven to succeed, or had dreams of being a CEO of a huge corporation like I was. Im sorting out that relationship now, but we only had problems when I was no longer successful and independant as I was before the MS monster halted my rise up the ladder. As a couple, when I was motivated and driven for the both of us it was fantastic! We were a great team!
Maybe you are just looking for and at the wrong type handsome smart men. Sounds like you are looking for a bread winner type. What does a beautiful, succesful, independant woman want one of those for anyway?
cherrybrandycambridge, Cambridgeshire, England UK7,473 posts
jvaski: Personally ............my experience with beautiful successful independent women convinced me that they're in it for themselves , and their money is just that......but your money ....well
I'll go for the not so perfect looking one who works as a waitress ........
DecentHKLadyHong Kong, Hong Kong Island Hong Kong189 posts
jeepers: for me, It's an insecurity issue. Smart. successful, beautiful women work around and have smart, successful, handsome men for friends. I am afraid these men have more to offer mentally than I do, so I worry about rejection. and.....it happened to me many years ago.
But men can also be ambiguous...
While successful, educated, strong women are shunned, poor ordinary women are also jealously guarded...men just afraid they would be taken advantage of, or if they take the woman, he could be snobbish or condescending.
While successful, educated, strong women are shunned, poor ordinary women are also jealously guarded...men just afraid they would be taken advantage of, or if they take the woman, he could be snobbish or condescending.
I find few have got positive attitude
Successful beautiful women didn't get there by being noce to everyone , typically their competative attitude and ruthlessness got them there ......and a man to many of them is just another toy or pawn to get them what what they want
If they're shunned - it's because everyone knows their game
pamela_1976: I've been wondering why is it that handsome and smart men are intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent women? Isn't that what we all seek? Someone who is not needy? Can you tell me?
If a man is secure in himself that will not happen... IMO
pamela_1976: I've been wondering why is it that handsome and smart men are intimidated by beautiful, successful, independent women? Isn't that what we all seek? Someone who is not needy? Can you tell me?
don't think handsome man are ever intimidated by beauty but i wouldn't know that, as for smart men they just know better...
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