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Evening all ,, hello swissblueeyes,,
Just jumping in here {with interest }.and agreement..
I can only speak from my personal experiances about my dating in the last 10 yrs ..
Why do we make the same mistakes over and over again ?
Well each of us are all different ,,but some that we meet although maybe different from each other ,,all have that same flawed trait in there charector ,,although each flaw maybe different ,,to put all the differences collectivaly ,, it could go under the heading of "chaos" "mayhem""snakey" "selfish" or other similar words of your/mine/or others termination ...
Some of us {i certainly did, but not now) treat everyone the same thinking that they were like me ,,an open book ,,honest ,loyal,, bla bla bla ..
But maybe nievity gets us a little blind ,,when we do start to wake up ,,iff we think something of the other person ,we tend to think it will get better ,,so we stay with our relationship stupidily thinking they will get better ...
But realy deep down inside of us we know it probably wont but we stick to trying to make things better ....
Then we get rid ,,, and look back on the whole thing and realise it was a no go from the start ...
The warning signs were in big letters rite in front of us ,, maybe we are selfish and choose to ignore them ..
Stupid to think a Leapard could change its spots ....
Now i see a lot of people around me with those same traits ,,
We kind of get an education as time travells on ...
We see those signs we chose to ignore at previous times ,,,only this time we act upon them ....