How would you react if your "lover" comes with an idea of a third person in bed? (60)
cincity: Alot of people will not...I'm not one of them...Have done that and then some...did not harm my marriage at all..It was a mutual decision between my husband and myself...and thoroughly enjoyable it was....
And, there's the kind of statement that keeps the fantasy alive.
Inspite of the fact it seems to ruin so many relationships that many of us are afraid to chance it; it appears to work for some people under ideal circumstances.
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well given it's a 'lover' who suggests it and not wife or long term partner then it's all good, the more the merrier
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anonymous1: Now that guy was a real loser; to lose a good woman like you, for a fantasy gone wrong, and lose it too.
His picture should be in the dictionary, next to the word loser..
His picture should be in the dictionary, next to the word loser..
Hahahaha..
Thats is so true..
"Chuckles"
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Cavalli: How would you react if your "lover" comes with an idea of a third person in bed?
Deal or no deal?
Deal or no deal?
NO DEAL! In fact, it's a one way ticket to lonelyville population one for the partner too!
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cincity: Alot of people will not...I'm not one of them...Have done that and then some...did not harm my marriage at all..It was a mutual decision between my husband and myself...and thoroughly enjoyable it was....
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Deal or no deal?
Deal or no deal?
Would be a bit shocked that my partner mentioned it, it would probably destroy my feelings somewhat.......a fantasy should stay a fantasy or if its really what my partner wants then....adios amigo!!!!
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lilmamma71: NO DEAL! In fact, it's a one way ticket to lonelyville population one for the partner too!
where exactly is this place pls ?
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MickDandy: where exactly is this place pls ?
CS of course....
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Hopefully I would make a wise enough choice in a Partner, that it would never be dreamed of...
If I couldnt Please Her, I dont need Her...
No Deal
If I couldnt Please Her, I dont need Her...
No Deal
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Cavalli: How would you react if your "lover" comes with an idea of a third person in bed?
Deal or no deal?
DealDeal or no deal?
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Rememeber the queston is lover,,,, It is different than love. In My opinion. We spoke of it. I was cool. Yet never did it .. well with the lover I am thinking of.
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heatherhuntsman: Rememeber the queston is lover,,,, It is different than love. In My opinion. We spoke of it. I was cool. Yet never did it .. well with the lover I am thinking of.
Oh and by the way women are great in bed. Very soft hands. They now what to do. IN case yu were wondereing
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oh, well that's understandable (NOT).
Has the word LOVE (Lover) also become corrupted along with respect.
Has the word LOVE (Lover) also become corrupted along with respect.
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Cavalli: How would you react if your "lover" comes with an idea of a third person in bed?
Deal or no deal?
Deal or no deal?
I feel sharing your truth and experiences is a vital part of a relaionship and above all I would be glad that my partner shares his desires/fantasies with me instead of going elsewhere to fulfill them.
We would have a deal with another female under two conditions: I make the rules and I pick her.
In case he requests another man
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Siebesiech: I feel sharing your truth and experiences is a vital part of a relaionship and above all I would be glad that my partner shares his desires/fantasies with me instead of going elsewhere to fulfill them.
We would have a deal with another female under two conditions: I make the rules and I pick her.
In case he requests another man not sure whether I even want to watch - that idea shake's up even my little world.
We would have a deal with another female under two conditions: I make the rules and I pick her.
In case he requests another man not sure whether I even want to watch - that idea shake's up even my little world.
mmhhh and what rules would you like ?
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then u will say " okay, honney then it is your illusion or your challenges"
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DEAL!!! Been there, done that; I'd do it AGAIN!!!
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...what I cannot understand....is why most people do not understand that it takes two to tango....
....between consenting adults...anything is fine so long as both are happy with the idea....even if it means having a third person there....irrespective of that being male or female...or fourth for that matter....
...however...experience has thought me that having a bit of fun is one thing.....enjoying the partner you are with is another....