Women, you say you hate games, but you love to test us. (157)
Denofearth69: LOL that's that hot and cold running girlfriend thing I've been talking about. When I contacted you I was under the impression that I was single, this seems to change on a daily basis.
That's hot coals under yer feet, running on the spot making excuses, by the sounds of it.
I think Ginger is right about you not taking any responsibility for your actions.
Keep digging, my friend. Its funny.
Jac xxx
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Denofearth69: LOL that's that hot and cold running girlfriend thing I've been talking about. When I contacted you I was under the impression that I was single, this seems to change on a daily basis.
That's hot coals under yer feet, running on the spot making excuses, by the sounds of it.
I think Ginger is right about you not taking any responsibility for your actions.
Keep digging, my friend. Its funny.
Jac xxx
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Thanks i am a brit !!
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MickDandy: I believe both men and women play games and want to test the other and see if words really match facts.It is true that women historically are far more skilled at this game than men and quite often its such a natural defence mechanism that only a few are aware of it...
I am very aware....
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I really don't mind the games and the tests, but it angers me when this sort of games are done because lack of trust or too much jelousy.
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missha72: Thanks i am a brit !!
Sorry, that was my gag about the Brits.
Jac xxx
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jac379: That's hot coals under yer feet, running on the spot making excuses, by the sounds of it.
I think Ginger is right about you not taking any responsibility for your actions.
Keep digging, my friend. Its funny.
Jac xxx
I think Ginger is right about you not taking any responsibility for your actions.
Keep digging, my friend. Its funny.
Jac xxx
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dvx_76: I really don't mind the games and the tests, but it angers me when this sort of games are done because lack of trust or too much jelousy.
when the games your talking about are more down the road of a long term relationship
The tests we are kind of talking about is in the very beginning of a relationship when ur trying to get to know the person
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jac379: Sorry, that was my gag about the Brits.
Jac xxx
Jac xxx
No worries my maltese side didnt get offended at all , plus i hate scrabble !! so kind of says alot !
(((HUGS)))
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Denofearth69: Nope I don't do the infatuated obsessed stalker crap. I am giving her space, and only respond to her letters, no blowing up of the email. My frustration is enhanced also by the fact that she has become a most valuable friend as well. So I am missing a friend and a lover all at once. We had been seeing each other about once every other day, and now I have seen her once in a month. I miss my friend...a lot.
No one behaves that way if he/she is afraid of losing someone. No one would put him/herself in such a situation if he/she really values the relationship with another person. People take care of valuable things (and people).
I think you care for her much more than she cares for you. She just doesn't like/love you enough.
You can sit and wait and be 'the second best', but if you really want to be loved and wanted - I think you should look for someone else. She can keep on behaving that way for months and years, giving you false hopes and hoping she'll meet 'someone better' in the meantime. In the end you might be together again, but you should reconsider if it's really worth waiting.
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ladyneda: No one behaves that way if he/she is afraid of losing someone. No one would put him/herself in such a situation if he/she really values the relationship with another person. People take care of valuable things (and people).
I think you care for her much more than she cares for you. She just doesn't like/love you enough.
You can sit and wait and be 'the second best', but if you really want to be loved and wanted - I think you should look for someone else. She can keep on behaving that way for months and years, giving you false hopes and hoping she'll meet 'someone better' in the meantime. In the end you might be together again, but you should reconsider if it's really worth waiting.
I think you care for her much more than she cares for you. She just doesn't like/love you enough.
You can sit and wait and be 'the second best', but if you really want to be loved and wanted - I think you should look for someone else. She can keep on behaving that way for months and years, giving you false hopes and hoping she'll meet 'someone better' in the meantime. In the end you might be together again, but you should reconsider if it's really worth waiting.
Totally agree if a partner is not giving you 100% why would u bother waiting around like a lemon to see whats going to happen !
Move on !!
My motto is always try and find someone who loves u more then u love them and it balances its self out , because if they love u 100% and u love them 110% blindfolded and gagged your on to a winner !
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jac379: That's hot coals under yer feet, running on the spot making excuses, by the sounds of it.
I think Ginger is right about you not taking any responsibility for your actions.
Keep digging, my friend. Its funny.
Jac xxx
I think Ginger is right about you not taking any responsibility for your actions.
Keep digging, my friend. Its funny.
Jac xxx
ya this op has many contradictions..he now says he "thinks" he was single? didnt take him much time to try and move on did it? jeesch..then he wonders why women test guys or not take too much seriously online?------ This thread is Archived ------
Well this has been real, but I have to get on with my days activities. So a few parting comments.
No I didn't contact anyone intending to hurt them. I move slowly, establish a friendship, and only become romantically inclined after a good bit of time has passed. Had I started a new relationship and the ex would have called, it would have been Sorry you snooze you lose, so I wasn't leading anyone on. If that had been my intention, why would I have ever mentioned my on again off again girlfriend?
Honesty is the best policy, but we are all so surrounded with liars that we naturally assume we aren't getting the whole picture.
Thanks to everyone who contributed to this thread. It was a good chance to vent and hear where others are coming from, and I appreciate all your comments whether I agree with you or not.
Have a great day all, and I'll talk to you soon.
No I didn't contact anyone intending to hurt them. I move slowly, establish a friendship, and only become romantically inclined after a good bit of time has passed. Had I started a new relationship and the ex would have called, it would have been Sorry you snooze you lose, so I wasn't leading anyone on. If that had been my intention, why would I have ever mentioned my on again off again girlfriend?
Honesty is the best policy, but we are all so surrounded with liars that we naturally assume we aren't getting the whole picture.
Thanks to everyone who contributed to this thread. It was a good chance to vent and hear where others are coming from, and I appreciate all your comments whether I agree with you or not.
Have a great day all, and I'll talk to you soon.
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missha72: Totally agree if a partner is not giving you 100% why would u bother waiting around like a lemon to see whats going to happen !
Move on !!
My motto is always try and find someone who loves u more then u love them and it balances its self out , because if they love u 100% and u love them 110% blindfolded and gagged your on to a winner !
Move on !!
My motto is always try and find someone who loves u more then u love them and it balances its self out , because if they love u 100% and u love them 110% blindfolded and gagged your on to a winner !
Now blindfolded and gagged sounds like fun.....
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Denofearth69: Well this has been real, but I have to get on with my days activities. So a few parting comments.
No I didn't contact anyone intending to hurt them. I move slowly, establish a friendship, and only become romantically inclined after a good bit of time has passed. Had I started a new relationship and the ex would have called, it would have been Sorry you snooze you lose, so I wasn't leading anyone on. If that had been my intention, why would I have ever mentioned my on again off again girlfriend?
Honesty is the best policy, but we are all so surrounded with liars that we naturally assume we aren't getting the whole picture.
Thanks to everyone who contributed to this thread. It was a good chance to vent and hear where others are coming from, and I appreciate all your comments whether I agree with you or not.
Have a great day all, and I'll talk to you soon.
No I didn't contact anyone intending to hurt them. I move slowly, establish a friendship, and only become romantically inclined after a good bit of time has passed. Had I started a new relationship and the ex would have called, it would have been Sorry you snooze you lose, so I wasn't leading anyone on. If that had been my intention, why would I have ever mentioned my on again off again girlfriend?
Honesty is the best policy, but we are all so surrounded with liars that we naturally assume we aren't getting the whole picture.
Thanks to everyone who contributed to this thread. It was a good chance to vent and hear where others are coming from, and I appreciate all your comments whether I agree with you or not.
Have a great day all, and I'll talk to you soon.
Good luck in what ever you do !!!
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jac379: That's hot coals under yer feet, running on the spot making excuses, by the sounds of it.
I think Ginger is right about you not taking any responsibility for your actions.
Keep digging, my friend. Its funny.
Jac xxx
I think Ginger is right about you not taking any responsibility for your actions.
Keep digging, my friend. Its funny.
Jac xxx
I have been reading this,i agree with Ginger And You......this guy is not being honest about any thing that i can see...if he is in a relationship,whether it be on and off...he is still mentality in one,and is not ready to date any one else.it sounds like if this woman snapped her fingers,he would drop every thing and run to her.......if he is chatting with anyone at the moment he is playing games in my eyes.....because he doesn't know what he wants... 
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ladyneda: No one behaves that way if he/she is afraid of losing someone. No one would put him/herself in such a situation if he/she really values the relationship with another person. People take care of valuable things (and people).
I think you care for her much more than she cares for you. She just doesn't like/love you enough.
You can sit and wait and be 'the second best', but if you really want to be loved and wanted - I think you should look for someone else. She can keep on behaving that way for months and years, giving you false hopes and hoping she'll meet 'someone better' in the meantime. In the end you might be together again, but you should reconsider if it's really worth waiting.
I think you care for her much more than she cares for you. She just doesn't like/love you enough.
You can sit and wait and be 'the second best', but if you really want to be loved and wanted - I think you should look for someone else. She can keep on behaving that way for months and years, giving you false hopes and hoping she'll meet 'someone better' in the meantime. In the end you might be together again, but you should reconsider if it's really worth waiting.
i just thought about waiting too and i think i can wait for you about a few....oh wait....i just saw another hottie and i think i will go for her. i will get back to again soon though
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stefonline: Now blindfolded and gagged sounds like fun.....
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mnowsa: i just thought about waiting too and i think i can wait for you about a few....oh wait....i just saw another hottie and i think i will go for her. i will get back to again soon though
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What BS!!!! hot and cold?????? single not single ????
Your messed up right now if ur so into your so called hot/cold gf you wouldn't even bother to contact women on this site ...
Unless you had intentions of hurting these females and promising them something only to get a phone call from your ex that your back together again
Just docent make sense that ?????