Whats the point to it? (83)
Well they do say when you give up looking is when it finds you 
. I like to hang out here but I certainly don't expect to come across my dream man. I have a friend who does nothing but look and talk about various guys she is meeting from online... She sounds really desperate. I used to think I needed someone to make me happy, now I am realizing that I am happy by myself and I think that makes me a little more picky about who I attach to and who I don't. There is a difference between seeing people and getting overly attached. That comes from trying to fill some need that you should be filling yourself.
. I like to hang out here but I certainly don't expect to come across my dream man. I have a friend who does nothing but look and talk about various guys she is meeting from online... She sounds really desperate. I used to think I needed someone to make me happy, now I am realizing that I am happy by myself and I think that makes me a little more picky about who I attach to and who I don't. There is a difference between seeing people and getting overly attached. That comes from trying to fill some need that you should be filling yourself.------ This thread is Archived ------
SickOfHurting: So I am wondering what the point is to looking for that special one...I don't even know why i activated my account...I have been hurt so many times and every time i keep coming back for more...so go on world, just keep doling out more pain and heart break.
You're young and very impressionable. Perhaps, what you think is love is not actually love or maybe you fall to quickly, I am an old-fashioned romantic so it is very easy to get hurt.
Learn to love yourself, get to know yourself and start listening to what you want and need, your heart will tell you. Be aware of your gut instincts, watch out for red flags and learn to have fun and keep an open mind about new people.
Someday soon your significant other will find you, but only if you slow down enough to let him.
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Kick back watch the movie "The Point"
Oblio:
But I can't see that...
Rock Man: You'll see what you want to see. Did you ever see a dinosaur?
Oblio: No.
Rock Man: Ever see a pterodactyl?
Oblio: No.
Rock Man: Well, that's it.
You see what you want to see. You must open your mind, not only your eyes.
Here is a link:
You don't have to have a point to have a point
SS
Oblio:
But I can't see that...
Rock Man: You'll see what you want to see. Did you ever see a dinosaur?
Oblio: No.
Rock Man: Ever see a pterodactyl?
Oblio: No.
Rock Man: Well, that's it.
You see what you want to see. You must open your mind, not only your eyes.
Here is a link:
You don't have to have a point to have a point
SS
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So I am wondering what the point is to looking for that special one...I don't even know why i activated my account...I have been hurt so many times and every time i keep coming back for more...so go on world, just keep doling out more pain and heart break.[/quo
I feel your pain..
I feel your pain..
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SickOfHurting: So I am wondering what the point is to looking for that special one...I don't even know why i activated my account...I have been hurt so many times and every time i keep coming back for more...so go on world, just keep doling out more pain and heart break.
It is perfectly OK (and sometimes advisable) to NOT DATE for a good while and just focus on living your own life, pursuing whatever interests you may discover. Take a dance class, join a hiking group, travel, do things that may be no longer be an option when/if you are married with children down the line. RIGHT NOW is a time of freedom and discovery. Don't squander it on the "mission to find a man." The man will show up when you are really ready.
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opentuit: It is perfectly OK (and sometimes advisable) to NOT DATE for a good while and just focus on living your own life, pursuing whatever interests you may discover. Take a dance class, join a hiking group, travel, do things that may be no longer be an option when/if you are married with children down the line. RIGHT NOW is a time of freedom and discovery. Don't squander it on the "mission to find a man." The man will show up when you are really ready.
where are you, waiting for you in sweden
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altina: where are you, waiting for you in sweden
.....but it says you are in Serbia....
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opentuit: .....but it says you are in Serbia....
not at moment,------ This thread is Archived ------
altina: not at moment,
OK... you will waiting in the cold for a good long time, my friend. :sigh I mean, you might have missed the announcement, but.... I actually have a boyfriend... and absolutely zero interest in meeting other men.
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opentuit: OK... you will waiting in the cold for a good long time, my friend. :sigh I mean, you might have missed the announcement, but.... I actually have a boyfriend... and absolutely zero interest in meeting other men.
congratulate
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altina: congratulate
Thank you!
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opentuit: Thank you!
red hair my fav
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altina: red hair my fav
We get what we get and work with it.
I got red hair, freckles, and pale skin that burns and peels.
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opentuit: We get what we get and work with it.
I got red hair, freckles, and pale skin that burns and peels.
beautifulI got red hair, freckles, and pale skin that burns and peels.
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opentuit: OK... you will waiting in the cold for a good long time, my friend. :sigh I mean, you might have missed the announcement, but.... I actually have a boyfriend... and absolutely zero interest in meeting other men.
Well THAT's great news OT!!! Anyone from here???
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SickOfHurting: So I am wondering what the point is to looking for that special one...I don't even know why i activated my account...I have been hurt so many times and every time i keep coming back for more...so go on world, just keep doling out more pain and heart break.
Relax, have fun and enjoy your life.
You'll meet someone nice sooner or later.
Don't be too attached to the idea of meeting someone. The more you 'grab' it, the more it runs away from you. If you want to keep anything in your life - you must be RELAXED with it.
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ladyneda: Relax, have fun and enjoy your life.
You'll meet someone nice sooner or later.
Don't be too attached to the idea of meeting someone. The more you 'grab' it, the more it runs away from you. If you want to keep anything in your life - you must be RELAXED with it.
good point lady , kako je u smederevu,You'll meet someone nice sooner or later.
Don't be too attached to the idea of meeting someone. The more you 'grab' it, the more it runs away from you. If you want to keep anything in your life - you must be RELAXED with it.
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leostartingover: Well THAT's great news OT!!! Anyone from here???
a local guy actually.... and thanks, yeah... it's an exhilarating process to be discovering all the details that make up a beautiful and wonderful person, someone I admire more and more as we become closer!!
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altina: good point lady , kako je u smederevu,
Ask me privately if you want to write in Serbian, it's not polite to write in the language no one else understands.
It's raining and it's cold.
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she pointed out that she was hurt so many times....at the age of 19... ????