Agabimoux: Oh my God if you are still on the site looking for a man (younger) what the hell are you doing with this old guy, he probably has money. Cant you get a man of your own race??? Seems to be a trend for Phillapinos etc going for OLD english guys, yeah their a push over for a young girl who is hungry to better herself and with a sob stry, no wonder your Mum is worried she probaby knows you better. Girl get a guy your own age and class and dont try and fool people that you 'love this guy' he's probably older than your father. You can fool some of the people some of the time but you cant fool all the people all of the time.
if u read from the first page...u will know what my moms worried about, and u will find out also, that i have my own steady life. anyway...thank u for some time to write down here...
im 34 yo, and im dating a 67 yo man from england. we've been seeing each other for a while, and we r happy with each other. we fit well, and want something serious... the problem is, my mother seems not like the idea...she's worry with my bf's age, n hate to think im too young for him. as i live in a village, people also talk about it, n says some 'negative' things about the age difference n culture difference. just some opinion please... how to make it works... i need more confidence to work it out better, since i know i want him too, as much as he want me ...:)
I'm going to be frank. Such a relationship has a very high probability of disaster. I've never seen it work.
She can enjoy her love or infatuation for him,as long he is alive and she have feelings for him.- She can always get a divorce,and find a new man and by the same token when he is dead.- She still young and can have more chances in life after him.
Agabimoux: Oh my God if you are still on the site looking for a man (younger) what the hell are you doing with this old guy, he probably has money. Cant you get a man of your own race??? Seems to be a trend for Phillapinos etc going for OLD english guys, yeah their a push over for a young girl who is hungry to better herself and with a sob stry, no wonder your Mum is worried she probaby knows you better. Girl get a guy your own age and class and dont try and fool people that you 'love this guy' he's probably older than your father. You can fool some of the people some of the time but you cant fool all the people all of the time.
FlowersPetal: I just read your profile and it says you're currently looking for a man between 35 and 45. That could be a little confusing to people as you claim to already be in a loving relationship with a 67 year old. Perhaps change that?
FlowersPetal: I just read your profile and it says you're currently looking for a man between 35 and 45. That could be a little confusing to people as you claim to already be in a loving relationship with a 67 year old. Perhaps change that?
Serpenta_Manon: Money isn't an issue, it never is old or young partner.. What is true love? When I married, I was 21, I also believed it was true love..
I believe in true love, don't get me wrong.. but I got problems with the huge age difference...
I really can't see my daughter in a relationship with a man that could be her father..
ok. what if she trully loved him? for real. what if she found what you, sadly, never did? but he just happened to be older at 45. would age really bother you that much, or would you be happy for her? btw. ty for answering these as a question. that's all these are. not meant as a judgement. i know my 20 year old niece is happy as hell with her 42 year old man. and her mom (not my sister) was a nut case about it. she ended up moving to texas to get away from her mom. my brothers a trucker so he see's her plenty. lol, more than when she was up here. anyway, just sayin'.
lookup64: ok. what if she trully loved him? for real. what if she found what you, sadly, never did? but he just happened to be older at 45. would age really bother you that much, or would you be happy for her? btw. ty for answering these as a question. that's all these are. not meant as a judgement. i know my 20 year old niece is happy as hell with her 42 year old man. and her mom (not my sister) was a nut case about it. she ended up moving to texas to get away from her mom. my brothers a trucker so he see's her plenty. lol, more than when she was up here. anyway, just sayin'.
Yeah, I understand perfectly what you mean, Of course I like to see her happy, and if that is her choice so be it..eventually it is her life, her happiness that counts.. I'll never 'chase' her away because I got a hard time to accept that, but at long last I will, and support her like I always did..no matter what...
lookup64: ok. what if she trully loved him? for real. what if she found what you, sadly, never did? but he just happened to be older at 45. would age really bother you that much, or would you be happy for her? btw. ty for answering these as a question. that's all these are. not meant as a judgement. i know my 20 year old niece is happy as hell with her 42 year old man. and her mom (not my sister) was a nut case about it. she ended up moving to texas to get away from her mom. my brothers a trucker so he see's her plenty. lol, more than when she was up here. anyway, just sayin'.
I like it when people think beyond what they feel and see what is happening around them: real people in real life. I asked in a thread "why so picky" and it was bashed because some people argued that my age of 43 will never find a genuine 22yo to love me and yet it was not my only age group requirement. i said in my profile "to 34" but the 34 was over looked, just to crucify me. plus we are seeing that most women prefer a man older than themselves, and taller than themselves. i even know women who is troubled when their man shows signs that she is smarter than him. The age can't be a problem if that's what the persons want. OK, if it is wrong, who is doing the wrong, he or she? can't be both cause it is their privacy.
im 34 yo, and im dating a 67 yo man from england. we've been seeing each other for a while, and we r happy with each other. we fit well, and want something serious... the problem is, my mother seems not like the idea...she's worry with my bf's age, n hate to think im too young for him. as i live in a village, people also talk about it, n says some 'negative' things about the age difference n culture difference. just some opinion please... how to make it works... i need more confidence to work it out better, since i know i want him too, as much as he want me ...:)
Here's part of my comment quoted from Sampe 1967's thread - "SCatlyn: ..... To OP - I don't see anything wrong w/your profile, and you appear friendly in your main pic, at least in my eyes.
............................ I don't see much wrong with the age difference, other than the fact that most 22 yr. olds aren't likely to have reached the maturity level that would be required by the other qualities you seek, though I have known some who are. One set of my grandparents were 30 yrs. age difference. He was a widower w/3 children. My g-mother was 30 yrs. younger. They had 9 children together. He died of a heart attack at 80 yrs. of age while praying for someone at the altar at church. She was at his side, and even years later, a tear would roll down her face at a certain time in the afternoon. When asked what was wrong, she said she missed her husband.
As for what you mention about very young women on here showing on their profiles that they're looking for men up to age 70, I'd guess many of those would be scammers. Anyway, best of luck to you... (I sometimes see favoritism in the forums as well, but there are literally thousands of members here, the majority of whom never post, but actively communicate in mail to each other- some really fantastic people- I've been pleasantly surprised at how many, even in the forums)." ............................
Agabimoux: Oh my God if you are still on the site looking for a man (younger) what the hell are you doing with this old guy, he probably has money. Cant you get a man of your own race??? Seems to be a trend for Phillapinos etc going for OLD english guys, yeah their a push over for a young girl who is hungry to better herself and with a sob stry, no wonder your Mum is worried she probaby knows you better. Girl get a guy your own age and class and dont try and fool people that you 'love this guy' he's probably older than your father. You can fool some of the people some of the time but you cant fool all the people all of the time.
That is rude and wrong. I fell in love with an Israel man who is over thirty years older than me. He is in Israel and I am in America. We spent a few days a year together for four years and those are the best days of my life. Nobody can predict how or when love will happen. Sometimes love is not very practical and sometimes love is strange. That woman obviously has never had a love like yours and she is jealous.
I can not understand as to why people look at it that way. to me what dose age have to do with this.as long as you love each other and it makes you happy,go for it.
Ccincy: I've been mostly scanning through some of the threads and ran across this one.I've heard people many times say that age is just a number.
Like the above poster states that if they're in love why is age so important.
The place you are in life matters. The goals, dreams, and needs to each person has will be different and change during a lifetime.
I had different goals when I was 25 than I do now. I will have different goals when I am 55 than I do now.
A man who is 67 will want the very very best for a 34 year old woman. Afterall, he has already had the chance to live through those goals and dreams and now it is her turn.
That is why age matters and it is a very important factor.
tuoihongho chi minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam8 posts
Hi I am Saigon girl and always date men twice my age. I have older brothers and fit with older men. Be happy , tell mom to lead own life. People talk, talk, talk.
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if u read from the first page...u will know what my moms worried about, and u will find out also, that i have my own steady life.
anyway...thank u for some time to write down here...