Someone twice than my age... ( Archived) (415)

The same with myself,people don't know me,say i look between 55 and 60 ,i usually laugh,and try to convice them,with my real age.-

In 2005 I moved to a mountain village, a City Guy, 55, lived and worked all over the world and just wanted some peace and quiet for a while. Through some volunteer work I came to know a nice local girl of 28, nothing was further from my mind than a relationship with a girl that age. After some few months she was asked to pick me up at the nearest train station which was an hours drive away, it was late and we stopped on the way back for something to eat. She was very intelligent and had an innocnce which I had not seen in a woman for many years. It was months later that I finally gave in and took her out, I explained the problems and difficulties etc,what people would say in a small mountain village, however she was determined. For my part I knew that this relationship had a limited life and decided that however long it would last to make it as good and positive as possible.One thing that I made sure of was that she would not only learn about the outside world but she would have a career to fall back on.We went and got her a Passport and from then on we travelled and laughed and just had fun, she grew in confidence and soon was travelling to China to a Conference on her own.It was the best three years of my life but as expected as she grew in confidence and found a very good job, my time was over, it was time to let the butterfly go. No love was ever greater than we had and no two people enjoyed every moment more than we did. to have experienced three years of perfect serenity in a relationship was reward enough,for her,hopefully she will still love good music enjoy good restaurants and know she has great value. so if you are happy and realistic, better to do what makes you and your man happy, all the rest can take care of themselves.