Someone twice than my age... ( Archived) (415)

sorry...
i missed this quote.

its not CS romance...i dont met him online.
he's not livin here...but we meet regularly once in 2 weeks.
yes...some concerns...but its all about age gap. nothing more.

What you should do if you think what your doing is right is ignor what anyone else say's and do what you think is best.
If the man loves you and you him then what does age matter.
The truth there is they may not like the idea your with a much older man, nor may they like the idea that you might have relations with him, but if you think it's right then who else has a say your 34 not ten, it's nothing to do with other people no one can say a thing after all didn't your mum marry the person she loved, she may be afraid that you'll be hurt when he's gone, but look at it this way, you'll be a much better off woman for it, though they may say your only doing it for his money, however he may not even have that much so in all cases they would be wrong.
Do what your heart say's and not what everyone else say's.

ohhh, this is so sweet....thank you.

you got all the points and what my mom's concern...
she doesnt want me to get hurted again...if this time he will leave me early for age issues...but no one knows what happend tomorrow...and its a nice thing to say...i'll be a better off woman for it...thank you.

At 34...I assume you know what you're doing.
It's your life..live it the way you see fit..and even though your mom doesn't like your decision,it's still your decision, and I think she should respect you for it.
As for other people talking about your relationship,to hell with them,they'll do your misery for you,and when things get rough,alot of them won't be around to help you out anyways.

if love connects, you are happy, then go ahead, remeber you mapped out the love so whateve good or bad is your burdern, ultimately it is you and your happiness is the victory bearer

I think that if it is working and you both love each other what does Earthly years have to do with it? You must be mature beyond your years and are old enough to decide if this is a good choice for YOU...not your mother or other people that might have a problem with the age difference. You deserve to be happy and if you have found that happiness do not let it go. As far as the cultural differences go, it will be up to you to keep your culture alive just as he will have to do the same for his culture. This will bring learning experiences for both of you and should not cause any problems or you would have seen them already. Cultural differences...hmmm...my nephew will be born in January...he will be a duel citizen of Thiland and the United States... Hows that for cultural differences? It won't matter to me where he is or what culture he follows...I'm gonna love him the same no matter what. Follow your heart and good luck to both of you and may you have many years of happiness.

yes, tony randal did not live to raise his children. young women almost always want to start a family and generally speaking younger women arent attracted to much older men.