Scubadiva: I haven't read all the replies, but I know a professor here who is married to his 4th wife. She is 35 years younger and she is also a professor, so they get along really well because they are in the same field, bla bla........ buuut... he is THE authority in his field in the country. Very well known man and one cannot help but think that she is looking to follow in his footsteps because he is 70 now.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Scubadiva: Well... the children from his first marriage are older than his current wife... Believe me, he is always good gossip material
My G/F is the same age as my oldest child but there are noproblems, I think if you have had a restrictive upbringing it makes you think in stereotypical fashion, but that is just my opinion, oh and my G/F as well
Oh come on sweetie, you are with a man for a few days a year and you say that its the happiest time, honey you need to get a life!
Jealous, I dont think so and you really dont know what your talking about, its becouse I have had and have love in my life that I know that this woman is talking a load of crap and is only on this for what she can get, wake up and smell the coffee, was your American married????? becouse if you LOVED each other so much why were you not together ?
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
Agabimoux: Oh come on sweetie, you are with a man for a few days a year and you say that its the happiest time, honey you need to get a life!
Jealous, I dont think so and you really dont know what your talking about, its becouse I have had and have love in my life that I know that this woman is talking a load of crap and is only on this for what she can get, wake up and smell the coffee, was your American married????? becouse if you LOVED each other so much why were you not together ?
If you press the quote button op will know who you are addressing
an2ahan: does someone who treats other with no respect can be more educated than anyone? if u r not happy in ur life with whatever it is...we r not in the same board...
have a nice day.
Yes they can when they know what they are talking about, I am very very happy with my life and I am so glad we are not in the same board, respect is earned, I just feel so sorry for the old guy and his family. Good job you already have two kids was that love too. Look honey I wish you all the best and I hope you are happy, but I just dont buy this rubbish ok
an2ahan, its your happiness thats important here, go for your true love, and live a long and happy life with your soulmate. people are sometimes jealous of two people in love. they hate to see lovers happy in their daily lives.. enjoy your life and the very best of luck to the both of you, for the future together.. regards... tony
im 34 yo, and im dating a 67 yo man from england. we've been seeing each other for a while, and we r happy with each other. we fit well, and want something serious... the problem is, my mother seems not like the idea...she's worry with my bf's age, n hate to think im too young for him. as i live in a village, people also talk about it, n says some 'negative' things about the age difference n culture difference. just some opinion please... how to make it works... i need more confidence to work it out better, since i know i want him too, as much as he want me ...:)
If he's what makes you happy go for it.I've heard age is just a number.
Some people never find love. If you've found love, go for it. The only problem is, life is short, so he's going to leave you a young-ish widow. On the other hand, you could get hit by a bus next week, so why worry about that?
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im 34 yo, and im dating a 67 yo man from england. we've been seeing each other for a while, and we r happy with each other. we fit well, and want something serious... the problem is, my mother seems not like the idea...she's worry with my bf's age, n hate to think im too young for him. as i live in a village, people also talk about it, n says some 'negative' things about the age difference n culture difference. just some opinion please... how to make it works... i need more confidence to work it out better, since i know i want him too, as much as he want me ...:)
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
an2ahan: hi...
im 34 yo, and im dating a 67 yo man from england. we've been seeing each other for a while, and we r happy with each other. we fit well, and want something serious... the problem is, my mother seems not like the idea...she's worry with my bf's age, n hate to think im too young for him. as i live in a village, people also talk about it, n says some 'negative' things about the age difference n culture difference. just some opinion please... how to make it works... i need more confidence to work it out better, since i know i want him too, as much as he want me ...:)
Get your coat and run like the wind honey, you need a guy your age, with things in common.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
englishelegance: Get your coat and run like the wind honey, you need a guy your age, with things in common.
What are you worried about, you are a beautiful woman and don't need to feel threatened by a love match from a younger woman to an older man, it happens the other way as well.
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
tomcatwarne: What are you worried about, you are a beautiful woman and don't need to feel threatened by a love match from a younger woman to an older man, it happens the other way as well.
She is just a baby compared to him, and if this was my daughter i would be most distraught at the age difference. Think he is waaaay too old for her, she is in the prime of her life..........hes at the last chapter of his.
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
englishelegance: She is just a baby compared to him, and if this was my daughter i would be most distraught at the age difference. Think he is waaaay too old for her, she is in the prime of her life..........hes at the last chapter of his.
I understandyour feelings, but these love matches happen and succesfully, surely you should worry about a persons happiness rather than their conformity to your narrow minded views.
englisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK3,025 posts
tomcatwarne: I understandyour feelings, but these love matches happen and succesfully, surely you should worry about a persons happiness rather than their conformity to your narrow minded views.
Not being narrowminded.... just dont like to see a beautifull YOUNG woman waste her young years on a old guy who cant give her the years she deserves!!!. Seen this happen so many times in media and real life. She deserves a young vibrant male who has interests and can grow old with her.......... at the same pace
im 34 yo, and im dating a 67 yo man from england. we've been seeing each other for a while, and we r happy with each other. we fit well, and want something serious... the problem is, my mother seems not like the idea...she's worry with my bf's age, n hate to think im too young for him. as i live in a village, people also talk about it, n says some 'negative' things about the age difference n culture difference. just some opinion please... how to make it works... i need more confidence to work it out better, since i know i want him too, as much as he want me ...:)
well if he looks very young for his age then i personally wouldnt mind a age difference like that and could see someone else having it too, but if he looks like hes in line at the retirement home for meatloaf and needs his pacemaker fixed in my opinion i would be turned off by him..this is just my opinion but everyone has their likes and dislikes right? ive never let any of my parents talk me out of any relationship i got into but then again my dad ended up being right about my ex and ive had big regrets i ever had married him..
tomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK17,106 posts
englishelegance: Not being narrowminded.... just dont like to see a beautifull YOUNG woman waste her young years on a old guy who cant give her the years she deserves!!!. Seen this happen so many times in media and real life. She deserves a young vibrant male who has interests and can grow old with her.......... at the same pace
Well he can give her the experience and confidence she might need, if she flys away too bad but they both have gained
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