Aggresive Women... ( Archived) (107)

Dec 4, 2010 3:40 PM CST Aggresive Women...
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
Johnwain: I like assertive,strong and even bold women.If for aggressive you mean the bossy,confrontational,argumentative type, no thank you !



What do you define as confrontational and argumentative? Because some guys call women who don't just nod their heads and agree with whatever their guys say though they really disagree as confrontational and argumentative... There's a difference between easy going and apparent lobotomy. wink
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Dec 4, 2010 3:42 PM CST Aggresive Women...
lovelyliza
lovelylizalovelylizabethlehem, Pennsylvania USA12 Threads 2 Polls 488 Posts
solitare: Excellent retort!! Aggressive/ assertive are loaded terms without any parameters being defined. From my perspective, both by experience and observation many women simply can't understand the differences between aggressive/assertive and most of all, the unflattering trait of arrogance which usually causes them to lose a multitude of potential relationships. Some never seem able to learn the subtle differences let alone the timing. The last thing any relationship needs is a contest of egos and/or domination of one to the other; it kills genuine respect for both...imo



I do agree with You ssolitare,
so do agree with "good relationship" has something to do with give and take, good communication skills, and no ego boasting..cheers I respect your post...cheers
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Dec 4, 2010 3:45 PM CST Aggresive Women...
lovelyliza
lovelylizalovelylizabethlehem, Pennsylvania USA12 Threads 2 Polls 488 Posts
craig63: i am probably old fashioned but i think a lady should be a lady and a gentlemen should be a gentlemen


conversing You and I my friend is in "old school" not only pertains to men and women...these would be practice in the whole universe/world about the word "respect" and treating each others what we would be treated..wow
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Dec 4, 2010 3:57 PM CST Aggresive Women...
Johnwain
JohnwainJohnwainDublin, Ireland7 Threads 466 Posts
PandoraX: What do you define as confrontational and argumentative? Because some guys call women who don't just nod their heads and agree with whatever their guys say though they really disagree as confrontational and argumentative... There's a difference between easy going and apparent lobotomy.


yes Pandora, i know what you mean.I've been with the geisha type and did like much.And I've been with the arrogant type and did not work out for long.As always a well balanced person,strong but with common sense,intelligent enough not to be arrogant or a doormat is what a call a good partner...at least potentially grin
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Dec 4, 2010 4:34 PM CST Aggresive Women...
Johnwain
JohnwainJohnwainDublin, Ireland7 Threads 466 Posts
PandoraX: I have said I take requests. I comply with things I agree with, ya know.


well if you comply only with things you agree is not really compliance is it ? that's what an aggression is ...an act of non compliance laugh
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Dec 4, 2010 4:35 PM CST Aggresive Women...
solitare
solitaresolitareBariloche, Rio Negro Argentina40 Threads 4,041 Posts
inkognito: Weichei Warmduscher Frauenversteher





rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing applause grin
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Dec 4, 2010 4:36 PM CST Aggresive Women...
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
wikked: Do you love them or not? Are you attracted to their aggressive nature or repelled by it...

Will they fit into your lifestyle?


If by aggresive you mean digging the spurs in while riding atop me with one hand in the air .........I'de have to say [/siYES YES YES ze]
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Dec 4, 2010 4:41 PM CST Aggresive Women...
PandoraX
PandoraXPandoraXApeldoorn, Gelderland Netherlands4 Threads 3,191 Posts
Johnwain: well if you comply only with things you agree is not really compliance is it ? that's what an aggression is ...an act of non compliance



No, that's called having a backbone and self respect. Expecting someone to comply with something you want even when they don't agree with it is aggression... dare I say asshol!shness.

Yep, I dared. angel
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Dec 4, 2010 4:54 PM CST Aggresive Women...
Johnwain
JohnwainJohnwainDublin, Ireland7 Threads 466 Posts
PandoraX: No, that's called having a backbone and self respect. Expecting someone to comply with something you want even when they don't agree with it is aggression... dare I say asshol!shness.

Yep, I dared.


I was clearly joking pandora, not need to resort to big words for nothing.looks like there's some serious issue here, like a pandora box at leastlaugh
enjoy you eve ...
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Dec 5, 2010 1:33 AM CST Aggresive Women...
gininitaly
gininitalygininitalyPadova, Veneto Italy23 Threads 2,454 Posts
"Dance like no one is watching.
Sing like no one is listening.
Love like you've never been hurt
and live like it's heaven on Earth."

Mark Twain
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Dec 5, 2010 1:38 AM CST Aggresive Women...
gininitaly
gininitalygininitalyPadova, Veneto Italy23 Threads 2,454 Posts
blushing on a roll....

"Grief can take care of itself,
but to get full value of a joy
you must have somebody to divide it with."

also M. Twain
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Dec 5, 2010 1:43 AM CST Aggresive Women...
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
In defense of the ladies..sometimes guys mistaken an independant lady who knows what she wants and mistaken her for being agressive.

Goes both ways.
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Dec 5, 2010 1:45 AM CST Aggresive Women...
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
thewall2: In defense of the ladies..sometimes guys mistaken an independant lady who knows what she wants and mistaken her for being agressive.

Goes both ways.


aggressive...Nothing wrong with a woman asking her what she wants.
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Dec 5, 2010 1:50 AM CST Aggresive Women...
Peruthis2010
Peruthis2010Peruthis2010Melksham, Wiltshire, England UK5 Posts
wikked: Do you love them or not? Are you attracted to their aggressive nature or repelled by it...

Will they fit into your lifestyle?


Yes.. I love a woman with spirit!applause
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Dec 5, 2010 1:52 AM CST Aggresive Women...
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
thewall2: aggressive...Nothing wrong with a woman asking her what she wants.


I WANT!!!!!NOW!!!!
laugh applause cool
professor Yup!!!!

xx
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Dec 5, 2010 1:55 AM CST Aggresive Women...
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
sophiasummer: I WANT!!!!!NOW!!!!

Yup!!!!

xx



Good things come to those that wait.tongue
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Dec 5, 2010 1:56 AM CST Aggresive Women...
kcuc0574
kcuc0574kcuc0574Ho Chi Minh, Southeast Vietnam Vietnam10 Threads 3 Polls 2,003 Posts
tightboxers: True.
You do not look the type to let too much pass you bye!


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing comfort hug wine

this time it seem you failed, boxers, laugh laugh hug rose wave
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Dec 5, 2010 1:58 AM CST Aggresive Women...
sophiasummer
sophiasummersophiasummerNorthland, New Zealand112 Threads 6,528 Posts
thewall2: Good things come to those that wait.

excellent! just another brick in the wallinnocent
Soph
tongue
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Dec 5, 2010 1:58 AM CST Aggresive Women...
gininitaly
gininitalygininitalyPadova, Veneto Italy23 Threads 2,454 Posts
Why does it always feel like I'm bellied up to the bar, buried in pub chat here at CS? conversing dunno roll eyes
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Dec 5, 2010 2:01 AM CST Aggresive Women...
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
gininitaly: Why does it always feel like I'm bellied up to the bar, buried in pub chat here at CS?



Wanna beer?beer laugh

bouquet
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