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Dec 8, 2010 12:42 PM CST why?
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
when a relationship doesn't work out,
why do some people find it necessary to go on the offensive
and paint their ex in a negative light?
is it a fear that their ex is badmouthing them,
so they want to get their side out?
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Dec 8, 2010 12:51 PM CST why?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
In response to: when a relationship doesn't work out,
why do some people find it necessary to go on the offensive
and paint their ex in a negative light?
is it a fear that their ex is badmouthing them,
so they want to get their side out?


Ive noticed that quite a lot..sigh
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Dec 8, 2010 12:52 PM CST why?
SoldierByte
SoldierByteSoldierByteGrove, Oklahoma USA1,466 Posts
pikengren: when a relationship doesn't work out,
why do some people find it necessary to go on the offensive
and paint their ex in a negative light?
is it a fear that their ex is badmouthing them,
so they want to get their side out?

Nahh it aint fear...scold
talkin crap about the ex...
can take the focus of what a no-good spouse you are..dunno
It's what I do...
keep em busy and maybe I can get a date..smitten

dancing dog---SoldierByte--- elephant
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Dec 8, 2010 12:53 PM CST why?
invinciblemuse
invinciblemuseinvinciblemuseDresden, Saxony Germany38 Threads 2 Polls 6,026 Posts
pikengren: when a relationship doesn't work out,
why do some people find it necessary to go on the offensive
and paint their ex in a negative light?
is it a fear that their ex is badmouthing them,
so they want to get their side out?


It's always easier to blame someone else than to take / share the responsibility for what happened.
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Dec 8, 2010 12:54 PM CST why?
SoldierByte
SoldierByteSoldierByteGrove, Oklahoma USA1,466 Posts
invinciblemuse: It's always easier to blame someone else than to take / share the responsibility for what happened.

not only easier....
but a hell of a lot more fun...yay

dancing dog---SoldierByte--- elephant
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Dec 8, 2010 12:55 PM CST why?
NCC1968
NCC1968NCC1968Van Nuys, California USA3 Threads 3 Polls 839 Posts
I don't........I either be nice or say nothing.....
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Dec 8, 2010 12:55 PM CST why?
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
invinciblemuse: It's always easier to blame someone else than to take / share the responsibility for what happened.



I agree, I considered the situation very carefully, for some time, and came to the conclusion it was all her fault.grin angel devil
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Dec 8, 2010 12:56 PM CST why?
Buffy327
Buffy327Buffy327Somewhere, Georgia USA5 Threads 1,527 Posts
SoldierByte: Nahh it aint fear...
talkin crap about the ex...
can take the focus of what a no-good spouse you are..
It's what I do...
keep em busy and maybe I can get a date..
---SoldierByte---


It worked on me, I want u in GA Soldier Boy in time for Christmas. What ya say???help applause angel cheers
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Dec 8, 2010 12:57 PM CST why?
thelastgoodman0
thelastgoodman0thelastgoodman0Somewhere, Arkansas USA5 Threads 2 Polls 119 Posts
pikengren: when a relationship doesn't work out,
why do some people find it necessary to go on the offensive
and paint their ex in a negative light?
is it a fear that their ex is badmouthing them,
so they want to get their side out?


Not everyone deals with breakups the same way. Most of the ways are listed here:
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Dec 8, 2010 1:00 PM CST why?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Laura25: yeah... kinda...

It's a knee-jerk reaction on a rejection.

Even if just one date ends up with "thanks, but no thanks", you can find yourself facing hostility from this person in forums.

okay....thanks for warning me .... Ill delete my current profile, and come back with a new one... grin
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Dec 8, 2010 1:02 PM CST why?
Medsummer
MedsummerMedsummerflopping around on the beach, Liguria Italy78 Threads 8 Polls 1,682 Posts
If you cannot admit your wrong, how can you admit their right?
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Dec 8, 2010 1:02 PM CST why?
Laura25
Laura25Laura25Somewhere, New York USA50 Threads 6 Polls 8,178 Posts
Boban1: okay....thanks for warning me .... Ill delete my current profile, and come back with a new one...


What about your photos?

Too much hassle...

Do as I do - I prefer dating non-forumers. thumbs up
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Dec 8, 2010 1:08 PM CST why?
RDM59
RDM59RDM59Edinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK92 Threads 5 Polls 14,070 Posts
It's not right .......blues sad flower
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Dec 8, 2010 1:14 PM CST why?
patmac
patmacpatmacglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK730 Threads 6 Polls 9,662 Posts
RDM59: It's not right .......
So true mate

I prefer the Traditional method

Prawns behind the raditors

damp carpet with Mustard and Cress seeds

Phone the speaking clock in Australia on Friday leave the line open tell her the next Tuesday



And a personal favourite Deep heat in the crotch of everthing in the underwear drawer


devil devil grin cheers angel
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Dec 8, 2010 1:16 PM CST why?
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
Laura25: What about your photos?
Too much hassle...
Do as I do - I prefer dating non-forumers.

I don`t date....I don`t drink....I don`t sleep around....I don`t gamble
Jesus Christ... I need a hobby ....laugh
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Dec 8, 2010 1:18 PM CST why?
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
patmac: So true mate

I prefer the Traditional method

Prawns behind the raditors

damp carpet with Mustard and Cress seeds

Phone the speaking clock in Australia on Friday leave the line open tell her the next Tuesday
And a personal favourite Deep heat in the crotch of everthing in the underwear drawer


nair in the shampoo bottle?
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Dec 8, 2010 1:20 PM CST why?
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
patmac: So true mate

I prefer the Traditional method

Prawns behind the raditors

damp carpet with Mustard and Cress seeds

Phone the speaking clock in Australia on Friday leave the line open tell her the next Tuesday
And a personal favourite Deep heat in the crotch of everthing in the underwear drawer


remind me never to give a set of key's to a guy..laugh wave
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Dec 8, 2010 1:35 PM CST why?
pikengren
pikengrenpikengrenlake worth, Florida USA72 Threads 2 Polls 2,003 Posts
thelastgoodman0: Not everyone deals with breakups the same way. Most of the ways are listed here:


cool. i like reading that kind of stuff.
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Dec 8, 2010 1:39 PM CST why?
bestbefore
bestbeforebestbeforesomewhere, Dorset, England UK116 Threads 2 Polls 4,701 Posts
Boban1: I don`t date....I don`t drink....I don`t sleep around....I don`t gamble
Jesus Christ... I need a hobby ....


You've already got one! C.S.rolling on the floor laughing
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Dec 8, 2010 1:39 PM CST why?
SoldierByte
SoldierByteSoldierByteGrove, Oklahoma USA1,466 Posts
Buffy327: It worked on me, I want u in GA Soldier Boy in time for Christmas. What ya say???

I am a packin now...
can I bring my two ferrets ( georgie & pookie ) with..??
They are like me (well behaved).. and none
of us eat much..
A lot of gals say they stink...
but you know how picky some woman are.. sigh

dancing dog---SoldierByte--- elephant
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