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You sometimes stop and chat to an elderly chap in your village/town when out and about. You develop a friendship based on this alone.
The man is unwell and in considerable pain, that over the years gets worse along with his drinking to numb the pain.
Some years go by and one day he tells you that his wife has left him. Do you think that she abandoned him in his time of need, or do you think its understandable that she can't live with him anymore?
The man is understandably distressed and angry, but when you see him out walking you listen and encourage his "moving on" victories and successes. You are aware that he is constantly drinking heavily.
He tells you one day, that he is going to make you the beneficiary of his estate when he dies. Do you give him your details, so that he can do this?
Again time passes, you haven't seen him in a while until a letter comes through your door informing you that he has died and that you are indeed the benificiary of his estate.
Is it fair to accept this? Given his drinking, pain and distress, did he make this decision with a clear mind? If his wife were to contest the will, would you fight it? Would you go to her and say this estate is rightfully yours?