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Feb 18, 2011 7:16 AM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
missha72
missha72missha72Naxxar, Majjistral Malta53 Threads 5 Polls 903 Posts
Recently started chatting to someone on here ... within the first sentence's he wanted to discuss my children ...

To make it very clear i hadn't mentioned i had kids or is it on my profile ...

I clearly stated to the person i do not discuss my children with people i dont know .... But i have 3 teenagers, they live with me and they dont give me trouble and thats all he needs to know!

The discussion became quiet aggressive from his part and said he had a bad feeling about me because i didnt want to talk about my kids <<< is this guy for real ?

This person became rude and offensive and said that i wasnt a decent human being confused ....

I intern blocked him !

just a warning to everyone who has kids ... There are predators out there and they will try all sorts of means to get close to single men or women who have kids ....

This to me is not normal human behavior at all, everyone on here has to respect single parents and if they wish to discuss there kids and with whom they like thats there preference ....bouquet
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Feb 18, 2011 7:19 AM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
Amity
AmityAmityDodging Daggers, Wiltshire, England UK49 Threads 6,217 Posts
uh oh dodgy geezer..

thumbs up well done for blocking him hun.
hug
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Feb 18, 2011 7:21 AM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus225 Posts
missha72: Recently started chatting to someone on here ... within the first sentence's he wanted to discuss my children ...

To make it very clear i hadn't mentioned i had kids or is it on my profile ...

I clearly stated to the person i do not discuss my children with people i dont know .... But i have 3 teenagers, they live with me and they dont give me trouble and thats all he needs to know!

The discussion became quiet aggressive from his part and said he had a bad feeling about me because i didnt want to talk about my kids <<< is this guy for real ?

This person became rude and offensive and said that i wasnt a decent human being ....

I intern blocked him !

just a warning to everyone who has kids ... There are predators out there and they will try all sorts of means to get close to single men or women who have kids ....

This to me is not normal human behavior at all, everyone on here has to respect single parents and if they wish to discuss there kids and with whom they like thats there preference ....


Everyones just looking for something wrong with other people on here!
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Feb 18, 2011 7:21 AM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
taxidiotis
taxidiotistaxidiotisnicosia, Nicosia Cyprus23 Threads 2 Polls 811 Posts
Sorry to hear you had such a bad experience, better luck next time
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Feb 19, 2011 12:08 PM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
jvind
jvindjvindLong Island, New York USA7 Threads 642 Posts
Just another psycho I think, if it wasn't about kids, he would have became aggresive about something else.
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Feb 19, 2011 12:12 PM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
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missha72: Recently started chatting to someone on here ... within the first sentence's he wanted to discuss my children ...

To make it very clear i hadn't mentioned i had kids or is it on my profile ...

I clearly stated to the person i do not discuss my children with people i dont know .... But i have 3 teenagers, they live with me and they dont give me trouble and thats all he needs to know!

The discussion became quiet aggressive from his part and said he had a bad feeling about me because i didnt want to talk about my kids <<< is this guy for real ?

This person became rude and offensive and said that i wasnt a decent human being ....

I intern blocked him !

just a warning to everyone who has kids ... There are predators out there and they will try all sorts of means to get close to single men or women who have kids ....

This to me is not normal human behavior at all, everyone on here has to respect single parents and if they wish to discuss there kids and with whom they like thats there preference ....
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Feb 19, 2011 12:16 PM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
That sounds funny to me.Unless he had kids and that was his way of breaking the ice.I have 5 and when I let the ladies on this site know they wouldn't date me, now the kid's are big and the ladies still don't date me.confused WTFrolling on the floor laughing
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Feb 19, 2011 12:20 PM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
70Libra
70Libra70LibraCounty, Waterford Ireland43 Threads 6,782 Posts
mastic55: That sounds funny to me.Unless he had kids and that was his way of breaking the ice.I have 5 and when I let the ladies on this site know they wouldn't date me, now the kid's are big and the ladies still don't date me. WTF

I have 5 kids too. Together we nearly have a soccer team!!!

The same thing happens to me... apart from the occasional genuinely decent man.

The decent people are out there, just a bit shy blushing
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Feb 19, 2011 12:25 PM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
ronny4u
ronny4uronny4uVernon, British Columbia Canada8 Posts
Way to go Missha.. something definitely not good with that guy.. i wonder if he isnt on some police list..
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Feb 19, 2011 12:27 PM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
Goddess4u
Goddess4uGoddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK15 Threads 3,131 Posts
missha72: Recently started chatting to someone on here ... within the first sentence's he wanted to discuss my children ...

To make it very clear i hadn't mentioned i had kids or is it on my profile ...

I clearly stated to the person i do not discuss my children with people i dont know .... But i have 3 teenagers, they live with me and they dont give me trouble and thats all he needs to know!

The discussion became quiet aggressive from his part and said he had a bad feeling about me because i didnt want to talk about my kids <<< is this guy for real ?

This person became rude and offensive and said that i wasnt a decent human being ....

I intern blocked him !

just a warning to everyone who has kids ... There are predators out there and they will try all sorts of means to get close to single men or women who have kids ....

This to me is not normal human behavior at all, everyone on here has to respect single parents and if they wish to discuss there kids and with whom they like thats there preference ....


Well done for getting rid of him. Stay safe comfort
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Feb 19, 2011 12:29 PM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
Should have had him give you an alternate email address.This way you can bait him and trace his ip address and report him to the proper authorties so no on could fall victim to this person you believe is a predator.professor
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Feb 19, 2011 12:32 PM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
lilmamma71
lilmamma71lilmamma71St. Louis, Missouri USA31 Threads 1,345 Posts
Sounds like a right creep, you were right to block him. If and when you choose or choose not to discuss YOUR children, is your business and nobody elses, period.

If someone did that to me, I'd tell him where to "get off" and exactly what I thought of his inappropriateness...no excuse for him being rude either, you were right for feeling the way you did/do.

The internet is rife with sicko's and perverts..we, as parents just need to be extra careful and wary of anything that registers red flags.

teddybear
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Feb 19, 2011 12:37 PM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
tomboygirl: Everyones just looking for something wrong with other people on here!



Thats CS for you, grin angel devil
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Feb 19, 2011 12:44 PM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
lilmamma71
lilmamma71lilmamma71St. Louis, Missouri USA31 Threads 1,345 Posts
tomboygirl: Everyones just looking for something wrong with other people on here!



are you really serious???? She's right to do what she did, if someone makes you uncomfortable in any way, it's called a red flag and not simply nit picking and trying to find something "wrong" with other people. Some really do have something wrong w/ them..and if you can't see that, you would do well to be careful because you may fall victim to an unscrupulous scammer or some other type of undesirable..I wish you LOTS and LOTS of luck.comfort
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Feb 19, 2011 12:48 PM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
jvind
jvindjvindLong Island, New York USA7 Threads 642 Posts
lilmamma71: are you really serious???? She's right to do what she did, if someone makes you uncomfortable in any way, it's called a red flag and not simply nit picking and trying to find something "wrong" with other people. Some really do have something wrong w/ them..and if you can't see that, you would do well to be careful because you may fall victim to an unscrupulous scammer or some other type of undesirable..I wish you LOTS and LOTS of luck.


I'd be interested to know who's comment tomboy was directed at, the OP or aggressor
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Feb 19, 2011 12:51 PM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
jvind
jvindjvindLong Island, New York USA7 Threads 642 Posts
jvind: I'd be interested to know who's comment tomboy was directed at, the OP or aggressor


I have a feeling it was at the aggressor
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Feb 19, 2011 1:10 PM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
tomboygirl
tomboygirltomboygirllarnaca, Larnaca Cyprus225 Posts
lilmamma71: are you really serious???? She's right to do what she did, if someone makes you uncomfortable in any way, it's called a red flag and not simply nit picking and trying to find something "wrong" with other people. Some really do have something wrong w/ them..and if you can't see that, you would do well to be careful because you may fall victim to an unscrupulous scammer or some other type of undesirable..I wish you LOTS and LOTS of luck.


It was just an observation,a gut reaction,and my first thought on reading the op's statement,I am not disagreeing with the op.

If I wrote a thread about every guy I had red flags/and blocked on here,there would be a thread from me every other day at least.

I must have set off the odd red flag too in my time..hence my comment..dunno
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Feb 19, 2011 1:13 PM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
Sounds creeepy Doll Im glad you ditched him uh oh
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Feb 19, 2011 1:55 PM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
craig63
craig63craig63estepona, Andalusia Spain46 Threads 1,464 Posts
missha72: Recently started chatting to someone on here ... within the first sentence's he wanted to discuss my children ...

To make it very clear i hadn't mentioned i had kids or is it on my profile ...

I clearly stated to the person i do not discuss my children with people i dont know .... But i have 3 teenagers, they live with me and they dont give me trouble and thats all he needs to know!

The discussion became quiet aggressive from his part and said he had a bad feeling about me because i didnt want to talk about my kids <<< is this guy for real ?

This person became rude and offensive and said that i wasnt a decent human being ....

I intern blocked him !

just a warning to everyone who has kids ... There are predators out there and they will try all sorts of means to get close to single men or women who have kids ....

This to me is not normal human behavior at all, everyone on here has to respect single parents and if they wish to discuss there kids and with whom they like thats there preference ....



sounds like a complete arsehole you did the right thing by blocking him.

lips teddybear bouquet
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Feb 19, 2011 3:29 PM CST Rather worrying dont you agree !
Looking_Heart
Looking_HeartLooking_HeartSPRINGFIELD, Missouri USA15 Threads 5 Polls 592 Posts
i run every one off, it more fun that way yay uh oh rolling on the floor laughing
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