Recently started chatting to someone on here ... within the first sentence's he wanted to discuss my children ...
To make it very clear i hadn't mentioned i had kids or is it on my profile ...
I clearly stated to the person i do not discuss my children with people i dont know .... But i have 3 teenagers, they live with me and they dont give me trouble and thats all he needs to know!
The discussion became quiet aggressive from his part and said he had a bad feeling about me because i didnt want to talk about my kids <<< is this guy for real ?
This person became rude and offensive and said that i wasnt a decent human being ....
I intern blocked him !
just a warning to everyone who has kids ... There are predators out there and they will try all sorts of means to get close to single men or women who have kids ....
This to me is not normal human behavior at all, everyone on here has to respect single parents and if they wish to discuss there kids and with whom they like thats there preference ....
missha72: Recently started chatting to someone on here ... within the first sentence's he wanted to discuss my children ...
To make it very clear i hadn't mentioned i had kids or is it on my profile ...
I clearly stated to the person i do not discuss my children with people i dont know .... But i have 3 teenagers, they live with me and they dont give me trouble and thats all he needs to know!
The discussion became quiet aggressive from his part and said he had a bad feeling about me because i didnt want to talk about my kids <<< is this guy for real ?
This person became rude and offensive and said that i wasnt a decent human being ....
I intern blocked him !
just a warning to everyone who has kids ... There are predators out there and they will try all sorts of means to get close to single men or women who have kids ....
This to me is not normal human behavior at all, everyone on here has to respect single parents and if they wish to discuss there kids and with whom they like thats there preference ....
Everyones just looking for something wrong with other people on here!
missha72: Recently started chatting to someone on here ... within the first sentence's he wanted to discuss my children ...
To make it very clear i hadn't mentioned i had kids or is it on my profile ...
I clearly stated to the person i do not discuss my children with people i dont know .... But i have 3 teenagers, they live with me and they dont give me trouble and thats all he needs to know!
The discussion became quiet aggressive from his part and said he had a bad feeling about me because i didnt want to talk about my kids <<< is this guy for real ?
This person became rude and offensive and said that i wasnt a decent human being ....
I intern blocked him !
just a warning to everyone who has kids ... There are predators out there and they will try all sorts of means to get close to single men or women who have kids ....
This to me is not normal human behavior at all, everyone on here has to respect single parents and if they wish to discuss there kids and with whom they like thats there preference ....
That sounds funny to me.Unless he had kids and that was his way of breaking the ice.I have 5 and when I let the ladies on this site know they wouldn't date me, now the kid's are big and the ladies still don't date me. WTF
mastic55: That sounds funny to me.Unless he had kids and that was his way of breaking the ice.I have 5 and when I let the ladies on this site know they wouldn't date me, now the kid's are big and the ladies still don't date me. WTF
I have 5 kids too. Together we nearly have a soccer team!!!
The same thing happens to me... apart from the occasional genuinely decent man.
Goddess4uThe Capital, Greater London, England UK3,131 posts
missha72: Recently started chatting to someone on here ... within the first sentence's he wanted to discuss my children ...
To make it very clear i hadn't mentioned i had kids or is it on my profile ...
I clearly stated to the person i do not discuss my children with people i dont know .... But i have 3 teenagers, they live with me and they dont give me trouble and thats all he needs to know!
The discussion became quiet aggressive from his part and said he had a bad feeling about me because i didnt want to talk about my kids <<< is this guy for real ?
This person became rude and offensive and said that i wasnt a decent human being ....
I intern blocked him !
just a warning to everyone who has kids ... There are predators out there and they will try all sorts of means to get close to single men or women who have kids ....
This to me is not normal human behavior at all, everyone on here has to respect single parents and if they wish to discuss there kids and with whom they like thats there preference ....
Should have had him give you an alternate email address.This way you can bait him and trace his ip address and report him to the proper authorties so no on could fall victim to this person you believe is a predator.
Sounds like a right creep, you were right to block him. If and when you choose or choose not to discuss YOUR children, is your business and nobody elses, period.
If someone did that to me, I'd tell him where to "get off" and exactly what I thought of his inappropriateness...no excuse for him being rude either, you were right for feeling the way you did/do.
The internet is rife with sicko's and perverts..we, as parents just need to be extra careful and wary of anything that registers red flags.
tomboygirl: Everyones just looking for something wrong with other people on here!
are you really serious???? She's right to do what she did, if someone makes you uncomfortable in any way, it's called a red flag and not simply nit picking and trying to find something "wrong" with other people. Some really do have something wrong w/ them..and if you can't see that, you would do well to be careful because you may fall victim to an unscrupulous scammer or some other type of undesirable..I wish you LOTS and LOTS of luck.
lilmamma71: are you really serious???? She's right to do what she did, if someone makes you uncomfortable in any way, it's called a red flag and not simply nit picking and trying to find something "wrong" with other people. Some really do have something wrong w/ them..and if you can't see that, you would do well to be careful because you may fall victim to an unscrupulous scammer or some other type of undesirable..I wish you LOTS and LOTS of luck.
I'd be interested to know who's comment tomboy was directed at, the OP or aggressor
lilmamma71: are you really serious???? She's right to do what she did, if someone makes you uncomfortable in any way, it's called a red flag and not simply nit picking and trying to find something "wrong" with other people. Some really do have something wrong w/ them..and if you can't see that, you would do well to be careful because you may fall victim to an unscrupulous scammer or some other type of undesirable..I wish you LOTS and LOTS of luck.
It was just an observation,a gut reaction,and my first thought on reading the op's statement,I am not disagreeing with the op.
If I wrote a thread about every guy I had red flags/and blocked on here,there would be a thread from me every other day at least.
I must have set off the odd red flag too in my time..hence my comment..
missha72: Recently started chatting to someone on here ... within the first sentence's he wanted to discuss my children ...
To make it very clear i hadn't mentioned i had kids or is it on my profile ...
I clearly stated to the person i do not discuss my children with people i dont know .... But i have 3 teenagers, they live with me and they dont give me trouble and thats all he needs to know!
The discussion became quiet aggressive from his part and said he had a bad feeling about me because i didnt want to talk about my kids <<< is this guy for real ?
This person became rude and offensive and said that i wasnt a decent human being ....
I intern blocked him !
just a warning to everyone who has kids ... There are predators out there and they will try all sorts of means to get close to single men or women who have kids ....
This to me is not normal human behavior at all, everyone on here has to respect single parents and if they wish to discuss there kids and with whom they like thats there preference ....
sounds like a complete arsehole you did the right thing by blocking him.
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To make it very clear i hadn't mentioned i had kids or is it on my profile ...
I clearly stated to the person i do not discuss my children with people i dont know .... But i have 3 teenagers, they live with me and they dont give me trouble and thats all he needs to know!
The discussion became quiet aggressive from his part and said he had a bad feeling about me because i didnt want to talk about my kids <<< is this guy for real ?
This person became rude and offensive and said that i wasnt a decent human being ....
I intern blocked him !
just a warning to everyone who has kids ... There are predators out there and they will try all sorts of means to get close to single men or women who have kids ....
This to me is not normal human behavior at all, everyone on here has to respect single parents and if they wish to discuss there kids and with whom they like thats there preference ....