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underwatermanaldershot, Queensland Australia28 Threads 771 Postsnot the one I was thinking of, but I did serve with a len who is a dairy farmer between here (maryborough) and brisbane
sxc666: I can only describe that coming from my own point of view. It reminds my of the kids Dad. I did love him, however always knew I wasn't in love with him.
I loved him because we had the kids together.
I loved him because he tried to be a good provider for us.
I never felt I would throw myself in front of a car for him, if fact quite often I felt like throwing him in front of one.
He never made my tummy do summersaults. I never felt a spark when he was on his way home from work. There was just something in me that knew I wasn't in love with him we married when I was 5 months pregnant, and I married because I thought thats what you do when you get pregnant.
When we made love there was no passion, I felt like well jump on and get it over with.
I never looked into his eyes, I would always look away.
But the most part. I hated him because of the man he became in drink.
I wish I could explain it better, but I do understand when people say they love you, but are not in love with you.
I loved him because we had the kids together.
I loved him because he tried to be a good provider for us.
I never felt I would throw myself in front of a car for him, if fact quite often I felt like throwing him in front of one.
He never made my tummy do summersaults. I never felt a spark when he was on his way home from work. There was just something in me that knew I wasn't in love with him we married when I was 5 months pregnant, and I married because I thought thats what you do when you get pregnant.
When we made love there was no passion, I felt like well jump on and get it over with.
I never looked into his eyes, I would always look away.
But the most part. I hated him because of the man he became in drink.
I wish I could explain it better, but I do understand when people say they love you, but are not in love with you.
Sometimes we try , hoping things will change , we keep on trying even when the odds are stacked agaist us , you did what you thought was right , you tried , no one can say you didnt sometimes things are just not meant to be
my housemate and i was talking last nite while i was massaging her ankles for her,she told me the 2 guys she has been with since we went our own way havnt been able to get her off,[for want of better word lol]mmmm somehow things got out of hand and lets just say i did get her off,now im more 
maddog22: oh ive been honest with her and she with me,only trouble is i cant help my feelings for her
Yep you can ... first understand what love is. It's just like understanding what fear is. Fear is a set of chemicals let loose into your blood stream to promote a fight or flight response. Many people don't understand that and think they are "scared". They are just prepared to fight or flee to preserve their life ... A much smaller slice of the population understand exactly what is happening (even if they don't know that chemicals are coursing through their arteries). They have had this happen to them many times before (often when they were beaten as children) and it holds no fear for them. They sense the hesitation in their opponent and take advantageby initiating a fight knowing their opponent will flee or curlup in a defensive ball after a half hearted defence.
Love is similar. It is chemicals making you want to mate with someone your primitive mind see as a suitable mate. And your prespective mate often knows that he/she already has you. So get control of your chemicals and find mate that your modern mind can meld with too. Don't expect that mate to be the embodiment of Brad Pitt / Angelina Jollie.
It's not romantic, but it's life. Remember, Nature hates a democracy and Nature hates a "level playing field". So find a field in which you can tip the scales. If you're no good at cricket try ten pin bowling. Which by the way is a great way to meet people.
As I've said in a previous post, I've already got the bookshops covered.
maddog22: what do you do when someone says they love you but are not in love with you::confused:
Unless you have known them for at least three months its just lust?
And not love,
After the three months comes their conditions of love? Well so I have found,
You have heard the old joke! Men are like tiles, lay them right the first time and you can walk on them for life?
I am not a tile,
Blizzard14u: Unless you have known them for at least three months its just lust?
And not love,
After the three months comes their conditions of love? Well so I have found,
You have heard the old joke! Men are like tiles, lay them right the first time and you can walk on them for life?
I am not a tile,
mmmm true,we have know each other over 2 years and out of those 2 yrs went togeather for 12 months,And not love,
After the three months comes their conditions of love? Well so I have found,
You have heard the old joke! Men are like tiles, lay them right the first time and you can walk on them for life?
I am not a tile,
Darkhorseman: Yep you can ... first understand what love is. It's just like understanding what fear is. Fear is a set of chemicals let loose into your blood stream to promote a fight or flight response. Many people don't understand that and think they are "scared". They are just prepared to fight or flee to preserve their life ... A much smaller slice of the population understand exactly what is happening (even if they don't know that chemicals are coursing through their arteries). They have had this happen to them many times before (often when they were beaten as children) and it holds no fear for them. They sense the hesitation in their opponent and take advantageby initiating a fight knowing their opponent will flee or curlup in a defensive ball after a half hearted defence.
Love is similar. It is chemicals making you want to mate with someone your primitive mind see as a suitable mate. And your prespective mate often knows that he/she already has you. So get control of your chemicals and find mate that your modern mind can meld with too. Don't expect that mate to be the embodiment of Brad Pitt / Angelina Jollie.
It's not romantic, but it's life. Remember, Nature hates a democracy and Nature hates a "level playing field". So find a field in which you can tip the scales. If you're no good at cricket try ten pin bowling. Which by the way is a great way to meet people.
As I've said in a previous post, I've already got the bookshops covered.
Love is similar. It is chemicals making you want to mate with someone your primitive mind see as a suitable mate. And your prespective mate often knows that he/she already has you. So get control of your chemicals and find mate that your modern mind can meld with too. Don't expect that mate to be the embodiment of Brad Pitt / Angelina Jollie.
It's not romantic, but it's life. Remember, Nature hates a democracy and Nature hates a "level playing field". So find a field in which you can tip the scales. If you're no good at cricket try ten pin bowling. Which by the way is a great way to meet people.
As I've said in a previous post, I've already got the bookshops covered.
That is an amazing bit writing - i am impressed - have never looked at it from that angle before and it makes so much sense.
You might be out of luck with the bookshops - kindles are the only way to ead these days!!!
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