shall I keep this baby? (210)
and learn birth control methods for ur sake
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I think that what some of the OP's detractors forget is that the she is only 26 and not 46. How many can honestly say they did not make mistakes when young while in the pursuit for a lasting relationship? We also know little about her upbringing and motives for her actions at a younger age.
What seems to be important to me is that she recognizes the results of her past and wants to both face her actions and deal the best way she can with the dilemma she now faces.
I salute the op for seeking whatever positive advice she can get.
She is not just burying her head in the sand.
What seems to be important to me is that she recognizes the results of her past and wants to both face her actions and deal the best way she can with the dilemma she now faces.
I salute the op for seeking whatever positive advice she can get.
She is not just burying her head in the sand.
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You got mail my dear. 
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Sometimes is better not to bring things head on, for the shake of your shild/children.-
jac379: Now, that is wrong.
Every absent parent should make a contribution, obviously according to their means.
Every absent parent should make a contribution, obviously according to their means.
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chris27292729: Sometimes is better not to bring things head on, for the shake of your shild/children.-
Yes, I understand what your saying. I've been in that position myself.
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chris27292729: I had the means to support my son,and going to court to claimed maintenance,i wasn't prepared to lower myself to her level,besides we moved to Greece within a year,since my son moved in with me.-So problem solved.-My motto is. Creating a life,you have to support it emotionally for the rest of your life and financially,even as adults,if don't have the means.-
I like your stitude. 
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chris27292729: Sometimes is better not to bring things head on, for the shake of your shild/children.-
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You mean my spelling error??? It was a second one child(shild).oh well, never mind,a lot will read it,very few will noticed .- 
u2Kitty: It gave somewhat a wrong expression Chris
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You are around people who aren't good for you.
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joyaepace: More so in China, there may be no social welfare or insignificant, and the child may starve actually. Or at least be disadvantaged comparing to those who are supported by both parents. Actually, you don't need to be in China, most of children anywhere would be disadvantaged with only support of the mother.
I do agree with joyaepace.
China is quite different from western countries.
The Belgian man would never come back to her.She has no choice.
I wonder what deos she do for a living.
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Thanks for everyone here who gave advises and comments.
I think people misunderstand me here.he hasnt walk away yet.
and actually I can understand him .cuz 3 months is really too short to make this kind of decision..he just told me that if I would ever keep the baby.he would say goodbye to me.I dont blame him..but the problem is I want the baby.I dont want to kill him.and I dont know what to do to keep this baby...its nothing about him..I wish I could have enough power to keep my baby.take good care of them.about my past mistakes.thats really hard to explian but yes I know it was the biggest mistakes I've ever done in my life.I guess it would never happen again after this time...I really feel sorry.......
I think people misunderstand me here.he hasnt walk away yet.
and actually I can understand him .cuz 3 months is really too short to make this kind of decision..he just told me that if I would ever keep the baby.he would say goodbye to me.I dont blame him..but the problem is I want the baby.I dont want to kill him.and I dont know what to do to keep this baby...its nothing about him..I wish I could have enough power to keep my baby.take good care of them.about my past mistakes.thats really hard to explian but yes I know it was the biggest mistakes I've ever done in my life.I guess it would never happen again after this time...I really feel sorry.......
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I think it's worth bearing in mind China is a totalitarian state, and this girl may be in trouble for posting.
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joyaepace: I think you are not seeing that it is not about a man and woman as much as it is about the third person, the child, who they made. The child needs support of its parents, not true? Why would you want that your child is starving, while you are enjoying life?
It is really an important point and I agree that a child needs a family and love of both parents.
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rainlucy: Thanks for everyone here who gave advises and comments.
I think people misunderstand me here.he hasnt walk away yet.
and actually I can understand him .cuz 3 months is really too short to make this kind of decision..he just told me that if I would ever keep the baby.he would say goodbye to me.I dont blame him..but the problem is I want the baby.I dont want to kill him.and I dont know what to do to keep this baby...its nothing about him..I wish I could have enough power to keep my baby.take good care of them.about my past mistakes.thats really hard to explian but yes I know it was the biggest mistakes I've ever done in my life.I guess it would never happen again after this time...I really feel sorry.......
I think people misunderstand me here.he hasnt walk away yet.
and actually I can understand him .cuz 3 months is really too short to make this kind of decision..he just told me that if I would ever keep the baby.he would say goodbye to me.I dont blame him..but the problem is I want the baby.I dont want to kill him.and I dont know what to do to keep this baby...its nothing about him..I wish I could have enough power to keep my baby.take good care of them.about my past mistakes.thats really hard to explian but yes I know it was the biggest mistakes I've ever done in my life.I guess it would never happen again after this time...I really feel sorry.......
Try and make an agreement with him to support you and the baby financially.
Judging by Ginger's post he could afford to do that with little impact to himself. Westerners that can afford to go to China in the first place have enough money to take responsibilty for their child in China.
Work out how much you'd need to live comfortably for a month and double it, or triple it. Try to save money for hard times from that.
Its the least he can do. You're not asking for much.
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puppypower: personally I think the thread should be closed.
people are discussing a human life and the ins and outs of killing an unborn child ...
can you people stoop any lower
shame on you
pp
people are discussing a human life and the ins and outs of killing an unborn child ...
can you people stoop any lower
shame on you
pp
Nice to have the luxury to judge, but never to be in that position yourself, eh?
BTW, what is it that you did for a living up until recently?
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tomcatwarne: I think it's worth bearing in mind China is a totalitarian state, and this girl may be in trouble for posting.
Hi tomcw
Who is likely to know that she is here... ? anyhow,
I hope you are wrong...
Cheers.
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puppypower: personally I think the thread should be closed.
people are discussing a human life and the ins and outs of killing an unborn child ...
can you people stoop any lower
shame on you
pp
In fairness many believe that Life, starts at birth as until then there is only potential for life.... So may be keep your judgements to yourselfpeople are discussing a human life and the ins and outs of killing an unborn child ...
can you people stoop any lower
shame on you
pp
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Merriweather: Hi tomcw
Who is likely to know that she is here... ? anyhow,
I hope you are wrong...
Cheers.
Who is likely to know that she is here... ? anyhow,
I hope you are wrong...
Cheers.
Sergey Brin, the co-founder of Google, told the Wall Street Journal that Chinese practices reminded him of what Russia was like under Soviet Union commissars.
He said that in the aftermath of the Summer Olympics in 2008, China started clamping down more on web censorship and "interfering" with Google's business.
He said that tracking dissidents and censorship bore all the marks of totalitarianism and that bothered him.
Brin left the Soviet Union in 1979 when he was six - and when the Soviet Union was pursuing a policy of anti-semitism.
Google believed it could open up information in China but after the 2008 Olympics he claimed China told the company it needed extra permits.
He said that when Google discovered a hack attack had as its purpose looking at dissidents' emails, he and the company had had enough.
China is not going to like this. Certainly, China has had a very long history of censoring web sites that don't fit the views of the dictators that run the country. Google knew this well before the 2008 Olympics and it's interesting it casts itself in a Goodie Two Shoes light.
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Now, that is wrong.
Every absent parent should make a contribution, obviously according to their means.