Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up ( Archived) (28)

Oct 9, 2006 3:35 PM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
Why do they bother?

If a man is interested, why doesn't he follow through???
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Oct 9, 2006 3:36 PM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
dunno The thrill of the chase????? dunno Not sure.......
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Oct 9, 2006 3:37 PM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
because the get scared i think help
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Oct 9, 2006 3:40 PM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
Soulmate,

There is a lot of truth in what
you have said...

I have been told by some that they
enjoy the chase.
wink
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Oct 9, 2006 3:42 PM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
1. Just being nice

2. Really not interested

3. Player

4. Married

5. Fake

6. Chicken

7. Bored

8. Fear of rejection

9. They feel inadequate

10. All of the above

11. All of the above in addition to many not listed.




I think that you are wonderful Bella.
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Oct 9, 2006 3:46 PM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
Everyone is different, for many reasons...
Some I believe like to take the extra time
to really see what the person of interest
is all about.wine
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Oct 9, 2006 3:54 PM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
# 1, 8, and "I think that you are wonderful Bella".
Paws
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Oct 9, 2006 3:55 PM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
iRon12345
iRon12345iRon12345Tempe, USA35 Threads 2,473 Posts
Feardunno dunno


Its away to feed the ego and then run while its good and stilll safe dunno
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Oct 9, 2006 3:56 PM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
SusieRR
SusieRRSusieRRnortheast, Ohio USA78 Threads 3 Polls 2,122 Posts
Sounds about right to me.
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Oct 9, 2006 3:57 PM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
Abracadabra
AbracadabraAbracadabraHeaven, Pennsylvania USA69 Threads 3,302 Posts
Catwm wrote:
"I think that you are wonderful Bella"

Are you going to step up and follow through on that Cat?

Or are you just being nice?

rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 9, 2006 3:58 PM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
I have already sent her a flower and she knows............jaw drop
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Oct 9, 2006 3:59 PM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
SirenLydia
SirenLydiaSirenLydiaBury St Edmunds, Suffolk, England UK45 Threads 2 Polls 4,138 Posts
I think Cat just about covered it all totally....devil

I also think they get confused too sometimes and the past for most of us still affects our present and future, however much we have moved on in life.

devil
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Oct 9, 2006 4:01 PM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
keroba
kerobakerobaEscanaba, Michigan USA25 Threads 301 Posts
I think the fear of rejection is a big part, it is really a blow to a guy when he builds the nerve (so to say) to approach a woman then gets shot down. With me I'll flirt and compliment most women, especially those I am attracted to, but don't always follow thru unless the woman flirts in return or shows intrest in some way. And I agree bella you are great, tho I've told you that before, you still desrerve to hear it, Kevinkiss hug kiss
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Oct 9, 2006 4:02 PM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
freebird516
freebird516freebird516durango, Colorado USA28 Threads 232 Posts
I think for some men it might be the thrill of the chase. but i think its a 2 way street. I think as a man if im interested I say and do things to see what kind of response I get. If the response is telling ok its not going anywhere its time to back off then thats what I do. If the response is showing interest then you pursue from there.
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Oct 9, 2006 4:08 PM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
iRon12345
iRon12345iRon12345Tempe, USA35 Threads 2,473 Posts
Good point applause applause
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Oct 10, 2006 8:20 AM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
VioladorDeLaLey
VioladorDeLaLeyVioladorDeLaLeyBajo Un Sol Feliz, USA11 Threads 4,548 Posts
Forgot Shy hon
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Oct 10, 2006 8:40 AM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
I can respect your view on this Freebird....but can you tell me how you determine if the interest is mutual...as everyone is different and responds differently.....Just wondering.....dunno
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Oct 10, 2006 8:42 AM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
betrayed
betrayedbetrayedAustin, Arkansas USA47 Threads 699 Posts
my biggest problem about following through with other women is my wife
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Oct 10, 2006 8:43 AM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
Lillyofthevalley
LillyofthevalleyLillyofthevalleySt John's, Newfoundland Canada38 Threads 3,152 Posts
Out of the mouth of Babes!handshake
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Oct 10, 2006 8:45 AM CST Guys Who Flatter You But Never Step Up
izzyva
izzyvaizzyvaHighland Springs, Virginia USA7 Threads 2,070 Posts
Sometimes we're just interested in a friendship and that's it. So we nice.




El Diablo
devil
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