I think the fear of rejection is a big part, it is really a blow to a guy when he builds the nerve (so to say) to approach a woman then gets shot down. With me I'll flirt and compliment most women, especially those I am attracted to, but don't always follow thru unless the woman flirts in return or shows intrest in some way. And I agree bella you are great, tho I've told you that before, you still desrerve to hear it, Kevin
I think for some men it might be the thrill of the chase. but i think its a 2 way street. I think as a man if im interested I say and do things to see what kind of response I get. If the response is telling ok its not going anywhere its time to back off then thats what I do. If the response is showing interest then you pursue from there.
I can respect your view on this Freebird....but can you tell me how you determine if the interest is mutual...as everyone is different and responds differently.....Just wondering.....
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If a man is interested, why doesn't he follow through???