Looking_Heart: because you think you're going to find something better
Most of the guys I've encountered seem to want the benefits and no commitment of any kind - I know there is someone out there who seeks more than this. I'm content to wait until I find someone like that.
Looking_Heart: because you think you're going to find something better
I think on dating sites it is very common for that to happen..Too many people have a overblown opinion of themselves and think they can do better all the time. Then one day they wake up much older and realize they wasted their whole life looking, looking and looking.. lol
langleygirl: Most of the guys I've encountered seem to want the benefits and no commitment of any kind - I know there is someone out there who seeks more than this. I'm content to wait until I find someone like that.
Swissblueeyes: I think on dating sites it is very common for that to happen..Too many people have a overblown opinion of themselves and think they can do better all the time. Then one day they wake up much older and realize they wasted their whole life looking, looking and looking.. lol
chococherrieSomewhere over the Rainbow, Indonesia5,647 posts
i may sound picky or snobbish: but im not gona go for anyone simply cause they interested in me,the feeling has to be mutual..and so far i havent met that person yet
langleygirl: Most of the guys I've encountered seem to want the benefits and no commitment of any kind - I know there is someone out there who seeks more than this. I'm content to wait until I find someone like that.
Swissblueeyes: I think on dating sites it is very common for that to happen..Too many people have a overblown opinion of themselves and think they can do better all the time. Then one day they wake up much older and realize they wasted their whole life looking, looking and looking.. lol
I've been called worse by better... just kidding Swissblue.
Tangent...... Seriously, everyone that is single on this site (there are single people on here right? Lol), knows in a sense what they should not have to deal with in their relationships. I think most aren't jumping into a meeting with their "new friends" because they are busy as it is and they don't want to waste both parties time by not doing a little thinking about it first. Besides don't we all run into enough nutcases or speedfreaks or instigators or balloonbusters, or maybe even the pretentious types, in real life without adding more of the same from the online world? Along with that, please don't misunderstand, I don't want to sound like I'm badmouth all dating sites, I think they are a valuable reaource that helps one realize the things they want in a mate even if they don't find them online.
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