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Apr 26, 2011 11:45 AM CST Coming back
rosalia123
rosalia123rosalia123Oswego, New York USA1 Threads 6 Posts
Hi All,

If a man comes back to you after a short break up (4 months), does this mean he loves you especially if he says he wants to be with you and is willing to work out the issues in the relationship? After all, he was the one who left.

Thank you and have a nice day or night.
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Apr 26, 2011 11:49 AM CST Coming back
scottyburd
scottyburdscottyburdglasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK6,016 Posts
rosalia123: Hi All,

If a man comes back to you after a short break up (4 months), does this mean he loves you especially if he says he wants to be with you and is willing to work out the issues in the relationship? After all, he was the one who left.

Thank you and have a nice day or night.


That reminds me of this sayin....If you love a thing let it go..if it comes back to you..its yours..if it doesnt it never was..

Do you still have feelings for him..the ball seems to be in your court,i know i would do whatever made me happiest..some folks deserve another chance,good luck to you lass..
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Apr 26, 2011 11:51 AM CST Coming back
venusenvy
venusenvyvenusenvyCalgary, Alberta Canada27 Threads 20,003 Posts
I dont know enough about the situation to have an opinion but I wish you luck wine
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Apr 26, 2011 11:52 AM CST Coming back
Boban1
Boban1Boban1bigplace, Central Serbia Serbia144 Threads 5 Polls 18,789 Posts
rosalia123: Hi All,

If a man comes back to you after a short break up (4 months), does this mean he loves you especially if he says he wants to be with you and is willing to work out the issues in the relationship? After all, he was the one who left.
Thank you and have a nice day or night.
cswelcome

We evolve and learn...
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Apr 26, 2011 11:52 AM CST Coming back
rosalia123
rosalia123rosalia123Oswego, New York USA1 Threads 6 Posts
Thank you Scottyburd,

Yes, indeed he let me go and came back. I was still there loving him dearly.bouquet
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Apr 26, 2011 11:53 AM CST Coming back
rosalia123
rosalia123rosalia123Oswego, New York USA1 Threads 6 Posts
Thank you. bouquet
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Apr 26, 2011 11:53 AM CST Coming back
Sunny143
Sunny143Sunny143christchurch, Canterbury New Zealand112 Threads 20 Polls 1,093 Posts
scottyburd: That reminds me of this sayin....If you love a thing let it go..if it comes back to you..its yours..if it doesnt it never was..

Do you still have feelings for him..the ball seems to be in your court,i know i would do whatever made me happiest..some folks deserve another chance,good luck to you lass..
very well said!!head banger
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Apr 26, 2011 11:56 AM CST Coming back
time4fun4u
time4fun4utime4fun4uAlicante, Valencia Spain18 Threads 1 Polls 10,066 Posts
Sometimes when things seem so right,you think they are not right.We all deal with it in differant ways.
If you can take the upset again if it doesnt work,fine,then take it slowly,and try. bouquet
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Apr 26, 2011 11:58 AM CST Coming back
tallman51
tallman51tallman51Limerick, Ireland9 Threads 1 Polls 3,327 Posts
rosalia123: Hi All,

If a man comes back to you after a short break up (4 months), does this mean he loves you especially if he says he wants to be with you and is willing to work out the issues in the relationship? After all, he was the one who left.

Thank you and have a nice day or night.


NO !!

It just means his latest girlfriend threw him out !!!

grin
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Apr 26, 2011 12:00 PM CST Coming back
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
rosalia123: Thank you Scottyburd,

Yes, indeed he let me go and came back. I was still there loving him dearly.


Scotty's right Rosalia...and sometimes we are hardest on those we love the most and those we know love us the most....maybe he had to process...but if you still love him and can develop trust again...why not give it a go...dunno

Good luck and best wishes!!!hug
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Apr 26, 2011 12:01 PM CST Coming back
jac379
jac379jac379pontyclun, South Glamorgan, Wales UK25 Threads 3 Polls 12,293 Posts
Maybe make sure you both have enough space and independance so that you can both see the issues clearly.

As Time said, take it slowly. If you get deeply involved again too quickly it can be difficult to see the wood from the trees.
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Apr 26, 2011 12:02 PM CST Coming back
nevica
nevicanevicabeautiful, Gavleborg Sweden11 Threads 640 Posts
tallman51: NO !!

It just means his latest girlfriend threw him out !!!

No, it means he couldn’t find anyone better.
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Apr 26, 2011 12:06 PM CST Coming back
rosalia123
rosalia123rosalia123Oswego, New York USA1 Threads 6 Posts
Thank you Boban.
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Apr 26, 2011 12:07 PM CST Coming back
rosalia123
rosalia123rosalia123Oswego, New York USA1 Threads 6 Posts
Hi Tallman,

I surely hope you are just joking?
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Apr 26, 2011 12:09 PM CST Coming back
I think if it dont work the first time, If they left, they will probably just do so again , again, again, Thats My experience anyway!
Leave me once shame on You, leave me twice, shame on me...

just my opinion

mumbling
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Apr 26, 2011 12:12 PM CST Coming back
nevica: No, it means he couldn’t find anyone better.


YET!!!!

but when he does, gone again...

Find someone who Truely wants to be there, If they do, they wont Leave!thumbs up
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Apr 26, 2011 12:12 PM CST Coming back
rosalia123
rosalia123rosalia123Oswego, New York USA1 Threads 6 Posts
Hi Hotrod,

I actually emailed him and asked him to come back and he responded. He came to see me and we talked.
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Apr 26, 2011 12:34 PM CST Coming back
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
You did not state nor has anyone asked why he left in the first place which I'm sure you did as most of us would and it falls on you whether to believe or not. GL wine
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Apr 26, 2011 1:20 PM CST Coming back
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
drbombay: You did not state nor has anyone asked why he left in the first place which I'm sure you did as most of us would and it falls on you whether to believe or not. GL


Good thought Doc...also she did not say in her OP that she called him and asked him to come back...kinda changes things a bit....mumbling
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Apr 26, 2011 1:35 PM CST Coming back
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
leigh2154: Scotty's right Rosalia...and sometimes we are hardest on those we love the most and those we know love us the most....maybe he had to process...but if you still love him and can develop trust again...why not give it a go...

Good luck and best wishes!!!


nothin worse than being 'self-protective' and yet always wondering 'what if?'

yes its a simple question posed w/o details but as such

indeed my simple answer is also

consider it- try againwine
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