Yeah, timing IS everything..I was just thinking about what Scotty said..How if you set something free and it comes back to you it is yours forever...I hope whatever happens, she does not get hurt again...Me, if I loved the guy, damn straight I would try again....
scottyburd: That reminds me of this sayin....If you love a thing let it go..if it comes back to you..its yours..if it doesnt it never was..Do you still have feelings for him..the ball seems to be in your court,i know i would do whatever made me happiest..some folks deserve another chance,good luck to you lass..
The trouble with relationships is that are rocky is that usually one ends up calling most of the shots when it ends then they get back together. As long as you do not give him license to walk all over you and the issues are worked out to both parties satisfaction then of course there is hope. Been there and done that last year and luckily we both came to realize that we were not right for each other.
SUNSHINEB0Y: I don't think you should be listening to other peeps on this subject, only you know what's in your heart and head
That makes sense. If only she did not seek other peoples opinions. But even when you know what is in your heart you still may want some clarity from others because the heart and emotions often come into conflict when it comes to love.
ColonelBogey: That makes sense. If only she did not seek other peoples opinions. But even when you know what is in your heart you still may want some clarity from others because the heart and emotions often come into conflict when it comes to love.
ColonelBogey: The trouble with relationships is that are rocky is that usually one ends up calling most of the shots when it ends then they get back together. As long as you do not give him license to walk all over you and the issues are worked out to both parties satisfaction then of course there is hope. Been there and done that last year and luckily we both came to realize that we were not right for each other.
I agree, as long as the issues that made you 'have the break' in the first place, are worked out, recognised, and agreed upon that this is what broke you up the first time, you have a chance. Thats what an ex and I did when we broke up (for a few years!), when we found each other again, decided to give it another go....we sat down and talked for ages about what went wrong, how we have learnt from it, and how we can avoid going down the 'same path' that broke us up last time. Unfortunately the same 'patterns' came out, there had been no 'learning' at all despite being reassured that they had learnt from losing me the first time, so I ended up walking away from him (again).
If a man comes back to you after a short break up (4 months), does this mean he loves you especially if he says he wants to be with you and is willing to work out the issues in the relationship? After all, he was the one who left.
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sometimes timing is everything