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Apr 26, 2011 1:37 PM CST Coming back
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
leigh2154: Good thought Doc...also she did not say in her OP that she called him and asked him to come back...kinda changes things a bit....
dunno i dont think so- necessarily

sometimes timing is everything
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Apr 26, 2011 1:39 PM CST Coming back
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
mindfful: nothin worse than being 'self-protective' and yet always wondering 'what if?'

yes its a simple question posed w/o details but as such

indeed my simple answer is also

consider it- try again


Never hurts to try.........or does it??!!???rolling on the floor laughing

Hi Mindful!

daisy
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Apr 26, 2011 1:42 PM CST Coming back
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
mindfful: i dont think so- necessarily

sometimes timing is everything


Yeah, timing IS everything..I was just thinking about what Scotty said..How if you set something free and it comes back to you it is yours forever...I hope whatever happens, she does not get hurt again...Me, if I loved the guy, damn straight I would try again....teddybear
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Apr 26, 2011 1:42 PM CST Coming back
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
leigh2154: Never hurts to try.........or does it??!!???

Hi Mindful!
well

ya dont know til ya try


its a sticky wicket innit?

wave
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Apr 26, 2011 1:43 PM CST Coming back
leigh2154
leigh2154leigh2154Crossville, Tennessee USA5 Threads 6,408 Posts
mindfful: well

ya dont know til ya tryits a sticky wicket innit?


Life is a sticky wicket sister!!laugh
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Apr 26, 2011 1:52 PM CST Coming back
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
yeah


i hate that partfrustrated





grin
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Apr 26, 2011 3:06 PM CST Coming back
Lillym
LillymLillymSliema, Majjistral Malta33 Threads 3,391 Posts
scottyburd: That reminds me of this sayin....If you love a thing let it go..if it comes back to you..its yours..if it doesnt it never was..Do you still have feelings for him..the ball seems to be in your court,i know i would do whatever made me happiest..some folks deserve another chance,good luck to you lass..


How true....thumbs up
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Apr 26, 2011 3:19 PM CST Coming back
carenza
carenzacarenzanear the sea, South Holland Netherlands82 Threads 1 Polls 3,113 Posts
I would say.....go for it...

what have you got to lose?

if it doesn't work out this time, at least you have tried.

best of luck
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Apr 26, 2011 3:22 PM CST Coming back
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
nevica: No, it means he couldn’t find anyone better.
Sad, but more than likely true uh oh
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Apr 26, 2011 3:31 PM CST Coming back
ColonelBogey
ColonelBogeyColonelBogeyHere, Surrey, England UK13 Threads 996 Posts
The trouble with relationships is that are rocky is that usually one ends up calling most of the shots when it ends then they get back together.
As long as you do not give him license to walk all over you and the issues are worked out to both parties satisfaction then of course there is hope.
Been there and done that last year and luckily we both came to realize that we were not right for each other.
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Apr 26, 2011 3:33 PM CST Coming back
As has been said above go for it what have you to lose and Good Luck...
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Apr 26, 2011 3:41 PM CST Coming back
SUNSHINEB0Y
SUNSHINEB0YSUNSHINEB0Ycork, Cork Ireland2,259 Posts
I don't think you should be listening to other peeps on this subject, only you know what's in your heart and headdunno
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Apr 26, 2011 3:57 PM CST Coming back
ColonelBogey
ColonelBogeyColonelBogeyHere, Surrey, England UK13 Threads 996 Posts
SUNSHINEB0Y: I don't think you should be listening to other peeps on this subject, only you know what's in your heart and head

That makes sense. If only she did not seek other peoples opinions.
But even when you know what is in your heart you still may want some clarity from others because the heart and emotions often come into conflict when it comes to love.
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Apr 26, 2011 3:58 PM CST Coming back
ColonelBogey
ColonelBogeyColonelBogeyHere, Surrey, England UK13 Threads 996 Posts
ColonelBogey: That makes sense. If only she did not seek other peoples opinions.
But even when you know what is in your heart you still may want some clarity from others because the heart and emotions often come into conflict when it comes to love.

God that sounds so soppy when I read it back!
roll eyes
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Apr 26, 2011 4:17 PM CST Coming back
SUNSHINEB0Y
SUNSHINEB0YSUNSHINEB0Ycork, Cork Ireland2,259 Posts
ColonelBogey: God that sounds so soppy when I read it back!

rolling on the floor laughing Is it even worse if I admit I understood it?uh oh
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Apr 26, 2011 11:07 PM CST Coming back
MistyGurl
MistyGurlMistyGurlSunshine Coast, Queensland Australia6 Threads 349 Posts
ColonelBogey: The trouble with relationships is that are rocky is that usually one ends up calling most of the shots when it ends then they get back together.
As long as you do not give him license to walk all over you and the issues are worked out to both parties satisfaction then of course there is hope.
Been there and done that last year and luckily we both came to realize that we were not right for each other.



I agree, as long as the issues that made you 'have the break' in the first place, are worked out, recognised, and agreed upon that this is what broke you up the first time, you have a chance. Thats what an ex and I did when we broke up (for a few years!), when we found each other again, decided to give it another go....we sat down and talked for ages about what went wrong, how we have learnt from it, and how we can avoid going down the 'same path' that broke us up last time. Unfortunately the same 'patterns' came out, there had been no 'learning' at all despite being reassured that they had learnt from losing me the first time, so I ended up walking away from him (again).

Good luck! sad flower
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Apr 26, 2011 11:08 PM CST Coming back
MistyGurl
MistyGurlMistyGurlSunshine Coast, Queensland Australia6 Threads 349 Posts
ColonelBogey: God that sounds so soppy when I read it back!


Nothing wrong with a guy talking 'soppy'! grin
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Apr 26, 2011 11:28 PM CST Coming back
thewall2
thewall2thewall2montreal, Quebec Canada61 Threads 10,499 Posts
rosalia123: Hi All,

If a man comes back to you after a short break up (4 months), does this mean he loves you especially if he says he wants to be with you and is willing to work out the issues in the relationship? After all, he was the one who left.

Thank you and have a nice day or night.





f.uck him...and move on.
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Apr 26, 2011 11:34 PM CST Coming back
drbombay
drbombaydrbombayStaten Island, New York USA42 Threads 5,391 Posts
thewall2: f.uck him...and move on.
F..K me & move onrolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 26, 2011 11:37 PM CST Coming back
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
drbombay: F..K me & move on
rolling on the floor laughing now THATS funny

as soon as i realized you meant her

and not he whom you quotedlaugh
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