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maryrachelle: Why does special have to include traumatizing someone first.My fiancee has done many heartwarming and special things for me.None of which involved him causing me trauma and heartbreak first.
I bet if he covers your bed with roses you'll suspect he's trying to sting you with the thorns
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cherrygc: Thank You!
I was starting to believe that its worthless trying to do something special for a woman only to find out that she would find it unforgivable, scary, sick, selfish, ect..
I was starting to believe that its worthless trying to do something special for a woman only to find out that she would find it unforgivable, scary, sick, selfish, ect..
I think you are mis-understanding ... the bit that had some of us running for the hills was the bit where he hurt her feelings un-necessarily!!!
Doing something special for the person you love is wonderful ...
I bet you wouldn't dream of hurting your girlfriend's feelings as part of "the something special" you're organising for her
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I had no problem with how it ended but how it began.
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maryrachelle: Why does special have to include traumatizing someone first.My fiancee has done many heartwarming and special things for me.None of which involved him causing me trauma and heartbreak first.
It doesn't have to, but then some people like a bit of that kind of thing in their lives.
She obviously soon got over it, as I suspect her fiancee knew she would.
Like someone mentioned...we are all different.
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cherrygc: Thank You!
I was starting to believe that its worthless trying to do something special for a woman only to find out that she would find it unforgivable, scary, sick, selfish, ect..
I was starting to believe that its worthless trying to do something special for a woman only to find out that she would find it unforgivable, scary, sick, selfish, ect..
I LOVE surprises..
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I've read through the posts here, though not watched the full clip, (too long.. 
), however one thing I do see missing is that no matter what our view, the general public is, he will know her likes/dislikes and what make her happy better than we can and will make her day the most specialist of days!!
We all have our own preferences, though I am very sure that for all of us, our beloved, will do all they can to make it as special as they can..
), however one thing I do see missing is that no matter what our view, the general public is, he will know her likes/dislikes and what make her happy better than we can and will make her day the most specialist of days!! We all have our own preferences, though I am very sure that for all of us, our beloved, will do all they can to make it as special as they can..
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EagleWoman: I think you are mis-understanding ... the bit that had some of us running for the hills was the bit where he hurt her feelings un-necessarily!!!
Doing something special for the person you love is wonderful ...
I bet you wouldn't dream of hurting your girlfriend's feelings as part of "the something special" you're organising for her
Doing something special for the person you love is wonderful ...
I bet you wouldn't dream of hurting your girlfriend's feelings as part of "the something special" you're organising for her
It as done for a great reason, if after the golden dress girl leaves the guy cracks laughing and says GOTCHA!!! then it's different, you gurls keep repeating you don't see the funny part and actually it wasn't meant to be funny, the guy for sure spent tons of time organizing and taking care that everyone involved kept the secret and most of the women here only see that he pretended to be cheating...
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cherrygc: I bet if he covers your bed with roses you'll suspect he's trying to sting you with the thorns
Someone does not agree with your point of view so you feel the need to take condescending jabs at someone I asked a valid question.Why does special have to mean causing someone you love trauma first?Why not skip the trauma and go straight to the heartwarming?
Trauma happens enough all on it's own.Why cause more on purpose?
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SummerUK: Hiya
Hmmmmmm! The first few minutes may have been a lil ummm icky but none of us are perfect... For all he did after that few minutes I think he would have been entirely forgiven. He has clearly spent weeks or months organising that.. all for her..
Hmmmmmm! The first few minutes may have been a lil ummm icky but none of us are perfect... For all he did after that few minutes I think he would have been entirely forgiven. He has clearly spent weeks or months organising that.. all for her..
What I saw was him saying to her:
"I have the power to be cruel and make you cry and the power to treat you like a princess WHEN I CHOOSE - Do you want to play the game?"
By her saying "yes" to marrying him, she was agreeing "to play HIS game"
Hope when you find your prince there won't be any "lil ummm icky" bits to it!!
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EagleWoman: What I saw was him saying to her:
"I have the power to be cruel and make you cry and the power to treat you like a princess WHEN I CHOOSE - Do you want to play the game?"
By her saying "yes" to marrying him, she was agreeing "to play HIS game"
Hope when you find your prince there won't be any "lil ummm icky" bits to it!!
"I have the power to be cruel and make you cry and the power to treat you like a princess WHEN I CHOOSE - Do you want to play the game?"
By her saying "yes" to marrying him, she was agreeing "to play HIS game"
Hope when you find your prince there won't be any "lil ummm icky" bits to it!!
That is your take on it and that's fine.
It's how you view your world.
Cautious?
Some may say cynical.
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maryrachelle: Someone does not agree with your point of view so you feel the need to take condescending jabs at someone I asked a valid question.Why does special have to mean causing someone you love trauma first?Why not skip the trauma and go straight to the heartwarming?
Trauma happens enough all on it's own.Why cause more on purpose?
I wouldn't quite call it 'trauma' she was just in a lil bit of shock.. Trauma happens enough all on it's own.Why cause more on purpose?
I guess I don't understand why so many are focusing on the teeny lil negative part at the beginning rather than the hugely positive part afterwards..
I guess I just try and see the positive in most things
We are all entitled to our opinions though
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I can see it now.
News Headlines
Very nice woman could not say no to her stocker/abusive boyfriend
when he forces her to face her fearful family and friends on national
television.
She stated she would marry him because of the event, knowing
she had time to back out but because the ceremony was instant
and had no other recourse.
Thanks Howie.....
News Headlines
Very nice woman could not say no to her stocker/abusive boyfriend
when he forces her to face her fearful family and friends on national
television.
She stated she would marry him because of the event, knowing
she had time to back out but because the ceremony was instant
and had no other recourse.
Thanks Howie.....
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maryrachelle: Someone does not agree with your point of view so you feel the need to take condescending jabs at someone I asked a valid question.Why does special have to mean causing someone you love trauma first?Why not skip the trauma and go straight to the heartwarming?
Trauma happens enough all on it's own.Why cause more on purpose?
Trauma happens enough all on it's own.Why cause more on purpose?
Even my boyfriend thought it was nuts.
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Ccincy: Even my boyfriend thought it was nuts.
Thank Goodness for both of our special guys then.
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cherrygc: I can only say WOW . .. .What do you think?
I just watched 90% of it, and think it was lovely!
Yep, she was a little shocked at first, but I think the shortlived period of upset was more than made up for with the look of sheer delight on her face for the rest of the clip.
I am sure she forgave him!
Really, really cute.
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cherrygc: It as done for a great reason, if after the golden dress girl leaves the guy cracks laughing and says GOTCHA!!! then it's different, you gurls keep repeating you don't see the funny part and actually it wasn't meant to be funny, the guy for sure spent tons of time organizing and taking care that everyone involved kept the secret and most of the women here only see that he pretended to be cheating...
Something just struck me!!! And no!! It wasn't the stick that just popped out of my a*se!!!!ALL the people who can't SEE that he has added a "cruel componant" into the "special day" that was un-necessary AND that doing this sort of thing is NOT the workings of a healthy loving mind ... It's because you have never had dealings with THAT sort of person nor know how THAT sort of person mind works ...
What does it all mean?
That YOU are lucky not to have experienced it, therefore are unable to recognise it. It could also mean that you don't recognise it because your own mind doesn't work that way!!!
So here's to healthy love!!!
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EagleWoman: What I saw was him saying to her:
"I have the power to be cruel and make you cry and the power to treat you like a princess WHEN I CHOOSE - Do you want to play the game?"
By her saying "yes" to marrying him, she was agreeing "to play HIS game"
Hope when you find your prince there won't be any "lil ummm icky" bits to it!!
Good Lord girl chilllllll lol"I have the power to be cruel and make you cry and the power to treat you like a princess WHEN I CHOOSE - Do you want to play the game?"
By her saying "yes" to marrying him, she was agreeing "to play HIS game"
Hope when you find your prince there won't be any "lil ummm icky" bits to it!!
I was just talking to my brother this morning about the world how it is today that theres too much analysing of EVERY little detail of every little thing lol
He just Loves her and the sentiment behind his actions were clear to see. There doesn't have to be ulterior motives behind everything that happens in life
I'm not denying you your opinions by the way lol This is just mine
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EagleWoman: Something just struck me!!! And no!! It wasn't the stick that just popped out of my a*se!!!!
ALL the people who can't SEE that he has added a "cruel componant" into the "special day" that was un-necessary AND that doing this sort of thing is NOT the workings of a healthy loving mind ... It's because you have never had dealings with THAT sort of person nor know how THAT sort of person mind works ...
What does it all mean?
That YOU are lucky not to have experienced it, therefore are unable to recognise it. It could also mean that you don't recognise it because your own mind doesn't work that way!!!
So here's to healthy love!!!
ALL the people who can't SEE that he has added a "cruel componant" into the "special day" that was un-necessary AND that doing this sort of thing is NOT the workings of a healthy loving mind ... It's because you have never had dealings with THAT sort of person nor know how THAT sort of person mind works ...
What does it all mean?
That YOU are lucky not to have experienced it, therefore are unable to recognise it. It could also mean that you don't recognise it because your own mind doesn't work that way!!!
So here's to healthy love!!!
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bodleing: That is your take on it and that's fine.
It's how you view your world.
Cautious?
Some may say cynical.
It's how you view your world.
Cautious?
Some may say cynical.
How about my view is based on recognising patterns ...
It wasn't MY world I was viewing here ... it was someone else's ...
Cynism is thinking that even if you stay on the pavement, the bus will run you over ...
Blind optimism is thinking that because you're special, even if you stand in front of the moving bus, it won't run you over ...
Wisdom is knowing that you should be safe on the pavement, unless you know the driver of the bus has been drinking, in which case you should be watchfull!!!
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I was starting to believe that its worthless trying to do something special for a woman only to find out that she would find it unforgivable, scary, sick, selfish, ect..