maryrachelle: Someone does not agree with your point of view so you feel the need to take condescending jabs at someone I asked a valid question.Why does special have to mean causing someone you love trauma first?Why not skip the trauma and go straight to the heartwarming? Trauma happens enough all on it's own.Why cause more on purpose?
DOnt take it personal, it was a little sarcasm to highlight the point that you (women! not yourself in special) seem to direct your attention to the negative rather than to the positive
I was just talking to my brother this morning about the world how it is today that theres too much analysing of EVERY little detail of every little thing lol
He just Loves her and the sentiment behind his actions were clear to see. There doesn't have to be ulterior motives behind everything that happens in life
I'm not denying you your opinions by the way lol This is just mine
bodleingGreater Manchester, England UK13,810 posts
EagleWoman: How about my view is based on recognising patterns ... It wasn't MY world I was viewing here ... it was someone else's ... Seen through your eyes it becomes your world
Cynism is thinking that even if you stay on the pavement, the bus will run you over ... No, that's paranoia
Blind optimism is thinking that because you're special, even if you stand in front of the moving bus, it won't run you over ... Some may say dilusional
Wisdom is knowing that you should be safe on the pavement, unless you know the driver of the bus has been drinking, in which case you should be watchfull!!!
maryrachelleBathurst, New Brunswick Canada1,370 posts
cherrygc: DOnt take it personal, it was a little sarcasm to highlight the point that you (women! not yourself in special) seem to direct your attention to the negative rather than to the positive
Deliberately leading someone you love to believe that you are cheating on them is hugely negative,not to mention extremely painful.
If you had ever experienced this kind of pain you would not want to inflict it on your loved one for a practical joke.
In response to: I can only say WOW . .. .What do you think?
I just watched this in it's entirety and although the trick was emotionally brutal at the outset, the end result was awe inspiring...it's obvious that this man loves her more than words can say. I doubt very much he will ever be that mean to her again.
bodleing: And be thankful you're not on the bus!!!
Look Bod!!! I see through my eyes that wars create a lot suffering for whole nations and yet currently IT is not part of my world!! I see though my eyes that abusive behaviour is unhealthy and yet it is not part of my world. I can recognise many things that are not part of my world.
@ being thankful for not being on the bus!!!
hahahaha!!! Nah!!! I was wise enough not to get on it this time!!!
I loved it...what a proposal,he is romantic...spontanious ..fun loving and so obviously in love with her I think after 3 yrs together he knew what he was doing as did her family and knew she would see the funny side of it or he wouldnt have done it..
A wedding is about the bride, she will never be more beautiful as she is on her wedding day. Well maybe he got what he deserved, a sloppy, crying, freaked out woman for the rest of his life.
bodleingGreater Manchester, England UK13,810 posts
NAKEDMUDPEOPLE: A wedding is about the bride, she will never be more beautiful as she is on her wedding day. Well maybe he got what he deserved, a sloppy, crying, freaked out woman for the rest of his life.
It's a long time since I've seen a bride as happy as that.
boomboom_uk: I loved it...what a proposal,he is romantic...spontanious ..fun loving and so obviously in love with her I think after 3 yrs together he knew what he was doing as did her family and knew she would see the funny side of it or he wouldnt have done it..
You're right, you can tell from the girl's warning "this better not be a prank cuz is not funny", that the guy is playful and probably he played so many pranks in the past 3 years, her family wouldn't have take part of it if they knew it would be traumatizing for her.
cherrygc: You're right, you can tell from the girl's warning "this better not be a prank cuz is not funny", that the guy is playful and probably he played so many pranks in the past 3 years, her family wouldn't have take part of it if they knew it would be traumatizing for her.
Who cares about traumatizing the bride as long as they didn't have to pay for the wedding. Thanks Howie... JMHO::grin:
Ohh come on ladies - This guy wanted to give & show her how much he appreciated her ... the proposal was lovely - i didn't agree on the rushed job to get married mind u ... every girl wants to be a princess on her special day and choose her own wedding dress !
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Trauma happens enough all on it's own.Why cause more on purpose?
DOnt take it personal, it was a little sarcasm to highlight the point that you (women! not yourself in special) seem to direct your attention to the negative rather than to the positive