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Jul 30, 2011 9:40 AM CST Separated !!!
postivethinker
postivethinkerpostivethinkerkashmir, Jammu and Kashmir India44 Threads 31 Polls 682 Posts
tomcatwarne: I had one like that, and although I don't hit women I was sorely stretched on this occaision, she hit me over the head with a metal rod and the blood flowed copiously, and then hit me again becauise I was bleeding onto the carpet. My crime, I took too long going to the shop (5 minutes away) I was accused of making phone calls.


Have u divorced her.
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Jul 30, 2011 9:40 AM CST Separated !!!
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
Lilly32: Tom, so sorry to hear



Yea well I suppose if you will fall in love with beautiful psychpaths!!!!!!

Thanks for the sympathyteddybear teddybear
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Jul 30, 2011 9:41 AM CST Separated !!!
tomcatwarne
tomcatwarnetomcatwarneOcean City, Plumouth, Devon, England UK289 Threads 7 Polls 17,106 Posts
postivethinker: Have u divorced her.


Never made it to the Altar but together three years, I got out while i still could.
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Jul 30, 2011 9:54 AM CST Separated !!!
AtwoZ
AtwoZAtwoZunknown, Halland Sweden199 Threads 1,699 Posts
postivethinker: No i didn't caught her hand and pushed her out.She has invitation at her fathers house. I talked to her brother on phone not to send hem here because i want seperation.Every thing is decided here through parents.
Through parents?

Oh well....
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Jul 30, 2011 10:07 AM CST Separated !!!
xxfrecklesxx
xxfrecklesxxxxfrecklesxxBanyeres de Mariola, Valencia Spain23 Threads 1 Polls 1,568 Posts
postivethinker: We have been separated on 19th of july as we fighted and both of us

were injured.

She has mad nature and negative thinking.

Several times i tried to get separated but i failed.

This is the 1st time when i succeeded to push her out of my house

and to stay in her fathers house.

Both of us are charactered but with two different natures.

I have two kids studing in 4th,5th classes.

I need ur suggestions for future.

The worst thing in our society is divorce.


Seperated on the 19th July.... and already on a dating site?...

says a lot...doh
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Jul 30, 2011 10:22 AM CST Separated !!!
montecito
montecitomontecitoLovely, New Jersey USA96 Threads 2 Polls 5,086 Posts
postivethinker: I have never seen a women with such difficult nature throughout my life.


She might be bi-polar. Manic/Depressive which causes anger one minute and calm attitude the next minute. It's very easy to correct with medication.
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Jul 30, 2011 11:44 AM CST Separated !!!
postivethinker
postivethinkerpostivethinkerkashmir, Jammu and Kashmir India44 Threads 31 Polls 682 Posts
montecito: She might be bi-polar. Manic/Depressive which causes anger one minute and calm attitude the next minute. It's very easy to correct with medication.


She is not accepting that she has a depression. Her sister and brother's wife are doctors. Her parents are not accepting that she has drepession. I can'nt take her forcebly to a doctor.
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Jul 31, 2011 10:52 PM CST Separated !!!
postivethinker
postivethinkerpostivethinkerkashmir, Jammu and Kashmir India44 Threads 31 Polls 682 Posts
I want to remain separated for ever from her.Am i right or wrong.
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Aug 1, 2011 4:04 AM CST Separated !!!
You have two kids, better sit together with cool mind and solved out the matter. If cant find the way out, try to involve both side parent / family. If there is no more solution better divorce in nice way. About society we must take consequence about that, coz we are who are in trouble, not them. They only can give punishment, but they never help to solve the problem.

This is the 1st time when i succeeded to push her out of my house and to stay in her fathers house.

I am not agree with this sentence, as u are married and have to kids mean that no more your house, but also ur wife and kids house.
You must come to her father and explain what happen. Thats the manner in ur culture i think.
Try to solve the problem peacefully, remember ur kids. peace comfort
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Aug 1, 2011 5:31 AM CST Separated !!!
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
postivethinker: We have been separated on 19th of july as we fighted and both of us

were injured.

She has mad nature and negative thinking.

Several times i tried to get separated but i failed.

This is the 1st time when i succeeded to push her out of my house

and to stay in her fathers house.

Both of us are charactered but with two different natures.

I have two kids studing in 4th,5th classes.

I need ur suggestions for future.

The worst thing in our society is divorce.


Gee, it didn't take you long to go onto a singles dating site.

uh oh
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Aug 1, 2011 6:16 AM CST Separated !!!
Actractorguy
ActractorguyActractorguyTims Ford Lake, Tennessee USA26 Threads 7 Polls 2,089 Posts
Envy51: You are right, my mistake in my use of words......... the op has "looking for longterm on his profile" but divorce would be frowned upon in his religion ............... so what does long trm mean to him?


First step is divorce. Then get the grieving over with then figure out what your expectations are of yourself then what your expectations are of a potential partner then go from there.

He's a long way away from that. As far as divorce it's frowned upon in almost all religions. But it's not impossible.
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Aug 1, 2011 6:22 AM CST Separated !!!
Envy51
Envy51Envy51Meath, Ireland66 Threads 4 Polls 1,631 Posts
Actractorguy: First step is divorce. Then get the grieving over with then figure out what your expectations are of yourself then what your expectations are of a potential partner then go from there.

He's a long way away from that. As far as divorce it's frowned upon in almost all religions. But it's not impossible.



rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing Well he seperated on the 19th July so he has a bit of a way to go yet i think.................... Nothing is impossible, and no divorce is not frowned upon in almost all religions. My advice to he op would be............ go for counselling if you want to save your marrige and delete your profile on here and return to the dating site when all other issues are dealt with................. simple really bouquet
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Aug 1, 2011 6:24 AM CST Separated !!!
Envy51
Envy51Envy51Meath, Ireland66 Threads 4 Polls 1,631 Posts
Envy51: Well he seperated on the 19th July so he has a bit of a way to go yet i think.................... Nothing is impossible, and no divorce is not frowned upon in almost all religions. My advice to the op would be............ go for counselling if you want to save your marriage and delete your profile on here and return to the dating site when all other issues are dealt with................. simple really


Sorry for typos......... i need a new pc doh
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Aug 13, 2011 6:28 PM CST Separated !!!
joyaepace
joyaepacejoyaepaceGalway, Ireland11 Threads 2 Polls 958 Posts
postivethinker: Every comment is important for me whether it is in her favour or in

my favour.


Can you go for family therapy, or psychologist?
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Aug 13, 2011 6:54 PM CST Separated !!!
Sunnydaze14
Sunnydaze14Sunnydaze14Dublin, Ireland105 Threads 3 Polls 2,870 Posts
AtwoZ:

Not that I care really,-just posting a comment out of sheer boredom,-but this also a runner up,for the "Top-10 of dumbest threads" competition....

As for your future,who gives a sh..t...


Thats funny, coming from you rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 16, 2011 11:34 PM CST Separated !!!
Do what you think and probably know is right
You are the one in the midst of the fights

Perhaps you are going to miss the warm nights
But you must come out of the darkness before you can see the light~
professor

postivethinker: We have been separated on 19th of july as we fighted and both of us

were injured.

She has mad nature and negative thinking.

Several times i tried to get separated but i failed.

This is the 1st time when i succeeded to push her out of my house

and to stay in her fathers house.

Both of us are charactered but with two different natures.

I have two kids studing in 4th,5th classes.

I need ur suggestions for future.

The worst thing in our society is divorce.
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Dec 23, 2011 6:05 PM CST Separated !!!
englishelegance
englisheleganceenglisheleganceBirmingham, West Midlands, England UK76 Threads 1 Polls 3,025 Posts
postivethinker: We have been separated on 19th of july as we fighted and both of us

were injured.

She has mad nature and negative thinking.

Several times i tried to get separated but i failed.

This is the 1st time when i succeeded to push her out of my house

and to stay in her fathers house.

Both of us are charactered but with two different natures.

I have two kids studing in 4th,5th classes.

I need ur suggestions for future.

The worst thing in our society is divorce.



So why are you on a dating website?confused I see this so many times mainly in a guys profile....(Separated) go sort your marital problems out before looking for an easy way out ok?
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Dec 24, 2011 10:26 AM CST Separated !!!
cloud747
cloud747cloud747winnipeg, Manitoba Canada130 Threads 27 Polls 2,947 Posts
postivethinker: We have been separated on 19th of july as we fighted and both of us

were injured.

She has mad nature and negative thinking.

Several times i tried to get separated but i failed.

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