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drecckyNavan, Meath Ireland128 Threads 3 Polls 694 PostsIs it possible that when you are out of the dating and relationship scene that you get so used to your own space that it's difficult to get used to someone else as part of your life...?
dreccky: Is it possible that when you are out of the dating and relationship scene that you get so used to your own space that it's difficult to get used to someone else as part of your life...?
Yes...
And how come nobody else has weighed in with a reply?...
A_B...
...dreccky: Is it possible that when you are out of the dating and relationship scene that you get so used to your own space that it's difficult to get used to someone else as part of your life...?
very possible, you get so used to your freedom being able to do whatever you want and when you want without having the other half nagging in your ear, the single life is so much easier
dreccky: Is it possible that when you are out of the dating and relationship scene that you get so used to your own space that it's difficult to get used to someone else as part of your life...?
Yes... redistributing my time is the really hard part.
About_Blank: And how come nobody else has weighed in with a reply?...
Didn't see the thread
dreccky: Is it possible that when you are out of the dating and relationship scene that you get so used to your own space that it's difficult to get used to someone else as part of your life...?
Yeah I agree .About_Blank: Yes...
And how come nobody else has weighed in with a reply?...
A_B......
And how come nobody else has weighed in with a reply?...
A_B......
I have just signed in being away......in London having a roit of a time.....
but back to the thread, it depends on how long you have been single and if you socialised alot with your mates as to, just you and a date......
dreccky: Is it possible that when you are out of the dating and relationship scene that you get so used to your own space that it's difficult to get used to someone else as part of your life...?
I find im like that also i don't really have time to let someone into my life with my work, so i go the no strings route it's simpler
dreccky: Is it possible that when you are out of the dating and relationship scene that you get so used to your own space that it's difficult to get used to someone else as part of your life...?
Yes I reckon its very possible, I love having my own space, even though I share it with the kids, when their on their wkends away with their dad I really enjoy the peace and quiet and sometimes dont want 2 share it with anyone. Well maybe 1 night out then the 2nd to myself.
It's all coming out now, hell yes! I think everybody should have their own space and life - don't understand couples joined at the hip! You could argue that a relationship means sharing everything and being as one, but we were all created to be individuals and have a right to our own free time. If I'm seeing somebody and I want to spend a Friday night after a crappy week at work chilling out on my own with a pizza and a film should I be made to feel like the scum of the earth?! 
dreccky: Is it possible that when you are out of the dating and relationship scene that you get so used to your own space that it's difficult to get used to someone else as part of your life...?
Definitely, and I never thought I'd say that
I went on a couple of dates with someone, but when he started telling me that he would paint the fence for me, fix the power washer, all the jobs I was doing myself, it freaked me out a bit and I realised I didn't want someone trying to "take over"
In saying that, I would still make room for someone who knew there place
ya i think so, seems probably the real reason garden sheds have gotten bigger over the years and move humane, great for the hobbies and passtimes. In or out of relationships, some space is needed here, maybe just watching the tv in the bedroom for an hour, that can do it.
dreccky: Is it possible that when you are out of the dating and relationship scene that you get so used to your own space that it's difficult to get used to someone else as part of your life...?
true but you can get a lot of golfing in though
dreccky: Is it possible that when you are out of the dating and relationship scene that you get so used to your own space that it's difficult to get used to someone else as part of your life...?
Yes............ As hard as it is to get used to living alone in the beginning i have to say i am more than happy now with my own (and the dog`s) space............
dreccky: Is it possible that when you are out of the dating and relationship scene that you get so used to your own space that it's difficult to get used to someone else as part of your life...?
Definitely ...I love my space and the freedom to come and go as I please...
larrydavidredux: It's all coming out now, hell yes! I think everybody should have their own space and life - don't understand couples joined at the hip! You could argue that a relationship means sharing everything and being as one, but we were all created to be individuals and have a right to our own free time. If I'm seeing somebody and I want to spend a Friday night after a crappy week at work chilling out on my own with a pizza and a film should I be made to feel like the scum of the earth?!
Bravo Larry...
Your singing my song...
...Free time and Me time are one and the same thing...
Do what you want when you want, It may seem like a " cop out" to many looking for relationships, but leaving the toilet seat up, mixing the washload, letting the dogs up on the sofa, watching reruns of "24", listening to loud annoying music, eating between meals and countless other things really are just "that easy" when i ask myself "what i can do today ?"....
A_B...(old, single and loving it!)...
...dreccky: Is it possible that when you are out of the dating and relationship scene that you get so used to your own space that it's difficult to get used to someone else as part of your life...?
yep... and try not to let that happen to you because its not a good thing
but that been said, if you meet someone special enough you will feel your space is useless unless shared by her sometimes the heart does rule over the mind.. or so me think 
dreccky: Is it possible that when you are out of the dating and relationship scene that you get so used to your own space that it's difficult to get used to someone else as part of your life...?
it all depends on how dependent the other half is on your company..
gingernail: it all depends on how dependent the other half is on your company..
If he's dependant on your company it's time to say goodbye IMO
itchywitch: yep... and try not to let that happen to you because its not a good thing but that been said, if you meet someone special enough you will feel your space is useless unless shared by her sometimes the heart does rule over the mind.. or so me think
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