What would you do if you found out you were someones 2nd or 3rd choice... (43)
Phoenix: Or like I said..He'd never a chance with his 1st choice and settled for 2nd or 3rd...
who in their right mind would have the leisureman as 2nd choice 
brum_mum: If this "No.1" choice had a change of heart, then I feel for the person they are with currently. But who's to say they were the "No.1" choice? Maybe they were the 2nd, 3rd, 20th... There are THREE sides to every "story", theirs, yours and the *Absolute* truth. JMO!
Apologies again for cutting in as not my thread Brum.Whooohooo well said!!
Damn right too!
Who the hell cares a damn as long as they are happy and enjoying life.
leisure07: who in their right mind would have the leisureman as 2nd choice
Apologies for cutting in, could not resist Mr. L. hehehheh oh you are so cute. Any woman would be so lucky to have you.
Phoenix: Neither do I (we both know someone who does )...As for never or not commenting on human behaviour yes you do (more often than you think)...
What if (very big what if<----basically a no)..His n° 1 choice had a change of heart and decided to give it go...That mean someone would loose..probably his n° 2-3 or 20th choice....
I'm off to see a man about a dog..Catch you hound dawgs later sometime...
Perhaps I do comment at times, in some situations I do not comment on the behaviour of the others.What if (very big what if<----basically a no)..His n° 1 choice had a change of heart and decided to give it go...That mean someone would loose..probably his n° 2-3 or 20th choice....
I'm off to see a man about a dog..Catch you hound dawgs later sometime...
Ifs and buts are futile.
Personally if the man is happy I would say you should ask him what he would do.
JMO it would be like flogging a dead horse too late the hero!!
Still thought you had that one wrapped up.
Sailfree: Apologies for cutting in, could not resist Mr. L. hehehheh oh you are so cute.
Any woman would be so lucky to have you.
Any woman would be so lucky to have you.
There are some gems on this UK Forum and you can tell simply by their posts.
There are some gems on this UK Forum and you can tell simply by Nice one Wow, am off now for a while.
Sailfree: Apologies for cutting in, could not resist Mr. L. hehehheh oh you are so cute.
Any woman would be so lucky to have you.
Found out i was second choice for my wife. recentley she told me she had been seeing this man on and off throughout our marriage. They are together now. the man in question my cousin and best freind. will make family occasions difficult in the future, i guess but as long as she is happy.Any woman would be so lucky to have you.
Now though would not settle for second best would want to be first and only chioice.
Tomcats2: Found out i was second choice for my wife. recentley she told me she had been seeing this man on and off throughout our marriage. They are together now. the man in question my cousin and best freind. will make family occasions difficult in the future, i guess but as long as she is happy.
Now though would not settle for second best would want to be first and only chioice.
Now though would not settle for second best would want to be first and only chioice.
Oh no, what a blow. I sincerely hope you get someone special soon as you are one of the gems I was talking about just now.
Tomcats2: Found out i was second choice for my wife. recentley she told me she had been seeing this man on and off throughout our marriage. They are together now. the man in question my cousin and best freind. will make family occasions difficult in the future, i guess but as long as she is happy.
Now though would not settle for second best would want to be first and only chioice.
WEll TC at least you found out. So life goes on as you know. There is someone out there for you loyal and faithful and all in good time you will find them. Love ya man. Now though would not settle for second best would want to be first and only chioice.
Phoenix: Basically if your present BF-GF is only going out with you because their 1st choice turned them down flat.....and they took the only option open..Which happened to be you. And you found out...that they secretly still pined for their 1st choice...
is that your friend, who knows someone, that has a pal and he knows about someone??????
gussi: is that your friend, who knows someone, that has a pal and he knows about someone??????
I haven't a clue what you're on about..Stop speaking in riddles
Sometimes people chase the unattainable because it is just that - unattainable.
If they sit down and think about it they can probably make a list of 'why we are not compatible' but they dream of the happy ever after.
Maybe 2 broken hearts can mend each others broken hearts??
If they sit down and think about it they can probably make a list of 'why we are not compatible' but they dream of the happy ever after.
Maybe 2 broken hearts can mend each others broken hearts??
Pack my bags and move on 
mickeyscouse: Pack my bags and move on
Agreed.
Not about to join a queueing system,I'm not waiting for a Number 7 to be replaced by a Number 9
gussi: is that your friend, who knows someone, that has a pal and he knows about someone??????
Being honest...I was thinking about you...
smile and think of England 
woohoo128: smile and think of England
CANT IT HURTS
mickybwoy: CANT IT HURTS
lol use more grease
woohoo128: lol use more grease
what..ELBOW BEEN DOIN OUT WI YA BOMBS??
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What if (very big what if<----basically a no)..His n° 1 choice had a change of heart and decided to give it go...That mean someone would loose..probably his n° 2-3 or 20th choice....
I'm off to see a man about a dog..Catch you hound dawgs later sometime...