More to Love? (13)

interesting - I personally have known women who have lost so much weight and their marriage have failed - the men got so jealous of their new look wives - so yes I feel for her - but that's the men who has the problem now her - I say celebrate her new look and confidence....

Her own health is far more important than finding Mr right. She was a time bomb waiting to go off before she lost that weight.

I can honestly say that when I was 48kg heavier I still had men interested in me, but my confidence was so low that I didnt believe that is could be true. And also some of those men were trying to use my low self esteem to achieve what they wanted, usually saying "I like curvy women, but most men dont" etc.

48kgs lighter and I am finding more men are certainly interested, but still find a lot of them are only really after what they want. Just now they try to talk me around to their way of thinking a bit more!

Sadly for them, there isnt anyway that I will change my mind to their way of thinking!

There are genuine men out there that like larger women, but like Faith has said, sometimes health has to take precedence.

My older sister has always had a weight problem and is still way to heavy, it causes her asthma and she has problems with her feet. Her husband is also very overweight and is pre diabetic. Neither have changed thier ways, its a real worry. Thier health is at extreme risk if they remain as they are.

Both my sister and her husband are in the same position. I just cant understand why they dont value thier life more and try to lose the extra weight and become healthy again.