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Envy51Meath, Ireland66 Threads 4 Polls 1,631 PostsOk...... you are mailing a guy/girl on here you fancy 
you feel your feelings are being reciprocated.......... 
then you discover 
he/she is playing the same game with more than two or three on here ............ How would you deal with the situation 
you feel your feelings are being reciprocated.......... then you discover he/she is playing the same game with more than two or three on here ............ How would you deal with the situation 
Envy51: Ok...... you are mailing a guy/girl on here you fancy you feel your feelings are being reciprocated.......... then you discover he/she is playing the same game with more than two or three on here ............ How would you deal with the situation
accept it most do it on here
Envy51: Ok...... you are mailing a guy/girl on here you fancy you feel your feelings are being reciprocated.......... then you discover he/she is playing the same game with more than two or three on here ............ How would you deal with the situation
Did ye say it was exclusive?
Envy51: Ok...... you are mailing a guy/girl on here you fancy you feel your feelings are being reciprocated.......... then you discover he/she is playing the same game with more than two or three on here ............ How would you deal with the situation
I would've thought that most people are doing exactly that, apart from the bit about the feelings... those take one-on-one personal time to accumulate.
corkgizmo: Did ye say it was exclusive?
No !
Envy51: Ok...... you are mailing a guy/girl on here you fancy you feel your feelings are being reciprocated.......... then you discover he/she is playing the same game with more than two or three on here ............ How would you deal with the situation
sound like early onset s t a l k e r symdrome lol
I've been on the receiving end and got a wee bit hurt just because I was taking the site a bit too seriously.
70Libra: I would've thought that most people are doing exactly that, apart from the bit about the feelings... those take one-on-one personal time to accumulate.
As this is a dating site i am sure that lots of people mail than one person at a time.................. but if the person, mail/female moves it up a notch to suggesting a meet and you discover they have asked two other to meet as well................. i suppose what i am trying to say in a nice way
it`s a bit like a cattle mart ......IMO 
Envy51: As this is a dating site i am sure that lots of people mail than one person at a time.................. but if the person, mail/female moves it up a notch to suggesting a meet and you discover they have asked two other to meet as well................. i suppose what i am trying to say in a nice way it`s a bit like a cattle mart ......IMO
there intitled to meet as many as they want until a relationship develops Envy51: As this is a dating site i am sure that lots of people mail than one person at a time.................. but if the person, mail/female moves it up a notch to suggesting a meet and you discover they have asked two other to meet as well................. i suppose what i am trying to say in a nice way it`s a bit like a cattle mart ......IMO
so women here comare notes on men they are mailing? thats nice to know
Envy51: As this is a dating site i am sure that lots of people mail than one person at a time.................. but if the person, mail/female moves it up a notch to suggesting a meet and you discover they have asked two other to meet as well................. i suppose what i am trying to say in a nice way it`s a bit like a cattle mart ......IMO
It's happened to me.
Twice actually
Just move on, put it out of your mind
To use the mantra... NEXT!!
isaacf: sound like early onset s t a l k e r symdrome lol
Me, i am as thick as a double ditch............. i would do the double fingers and up yours and tell him to run along like a good boy 
Envy51: As this is a dating site i am sure that lots of people mail than one person at a time.................. but if the person, mail/female moves it up a notch to suggesting a meet and you discover they have asked two other to meet as well................. i suppose what i am trying to say in a nice way it`s a bit like a cattle mart ......IMO
That's what dating is! chatting and meeting up with different people to see who you could have a relationship with. You can't expect exclusivity at such an early point jmo
In response to: Ok...... you are mailing a guy/girl on here you fancy you feel your feelings are being reciprocated.......... then you discover he/she is playing the same game with more than two or three on here ............ How would you deal with the situation
I would automatically think someone was doing that anyway. You kinda need to chat to a few initially anyway in order to find out who interests you and who you have stuff in common with. Its up to them then to decide which one they like the most I suppose.
celticeyes1: That's what dating is! chatting and meeting up with different people to see who you could have a relationship with. You can't expect exclusivity at such an early point jmo
I agree. Especially not before meeting in person first. What if there is no chemistry when you do actually meet in person?!
DUBLINGUY1973: I agree. Especially not before meeting in person first. What if there is no chemistry when you do actually meet in person?!
On reading the posts N............. i think it is just an age thing
I am just from the old school isaacf: so women here comare notes on men they are mailing? thats nice to know
It works both ways ............ believe you me
Envy51: Ok...... you are mailing a guy/girl on here you fancy you feel your feelings are being reciprocated.......... then you discover he/she is playing the same game with more than two or three on here ............ How would you deal with the situation
Well I have given up taking this place serious a long time ago....its what happens on dating sites in general ....most are like children in a candy shop .....keeping their options open...not my idea of dating ...although one of the more mature on here...still a bit of a novice at this dating game...what happened to the romance
of the one to one...was online last night and a friend on at the same time...w e got the exactsame mail ...same time...same message....sent back identical reply. That how serious I take most of these mailers on here Envy51: It works both ways ............ believe you me
I wish the scammers would compare notes as well and realize there is no point mailing me
Well, I should be glad to receive at least some mail
Why would people compare notes? To check out if somebody is telling different stories to different people?
Mesimarja: I wish the scammers would compare notes as well and realize there is no point mailing me
Well, I should be glad to receive at least some mail
Why would people compare notes? To check out if somebody is telling different stories to different people?
Well, I should be glad to receive at least some mail
Why would people compare notes? To check out if somebody is telling different stories to different people?
No M........... not to compare notes, but some people on here are friends and know each other and they exchange mail/chat in the real world etc., ............
You know how we women love to yapp 
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